If you're a furry, you have friends who are ABDL. If you think you don’t, they just haven’t felt safe enough to tell you yet. It’s time to change that. You don’t have to participate or even like it. You just have to be someone who doesn’t judge or make assumptions.

I’m an ABDL-friendly artist. While I only take "clean" commissions (in both senses of the word), I usually share them on ABDL-specific social media accounts out of respect for those who may be uncomfortable. But this one felt important enough to share on my general accounts.

I have many dear friends who are ABDL. Some wear diapers for medical reasons, some for comfort, and some simply for the childlike aesthetic and sense of simplicity. What they all share is a kind, supportive community… and, unfortunately, a history of being bullied.

People often assume it's linked to something gross, unhealthy, or inappropriate, which leads to unfair reports, false accusations, and very real harm: emotional, reputational, and financial.

Don’t condemn. Listen.
Don’t mock. Defend.
Don’t assume. Learn.