Ones say its similiarities that attracts. Others say its the opposites that attract. But what would I say? Something of both but carefully picked.

What do I mean:
Love is not necessarily closer than each person think, for I myself for example was bullied in middle school and the only ones who „wanted” me, only wanted empty sex and/or cash. Which soon enough crosses out all women from same country as mine in the end. And after years, after high school that only worsened. Therefore, my future girlfriend is a foreigner.

My last girlfriend was a sort of nerd girl. As turned out, she was suffering for depression. Then, one day during my unwilling absence she was led to commit a suicide and thus... I lost her forever. Therefore, my future girlfriend is stronger than me.

Then I had a crush on one popular girl similiar in style and taste to me myself and yet she was kind of like my opposite (skinny gloomy guy and curvy lady with a grin). How did it end? Almost framed for serious crime then in next three years I almost became an Incel. All pain inflicted to me just for sake of fame and popularity. Therefore, my next girlfriend doesn’t really care about fame and popularity as neither did I ever really do in the end.

Of course there was nothing to regret from my relationship with last girlfriend I ever had. We were definitely a cute couple. Like Worker Drone N and Worker Drone V. The only problem was we were both more submissive as a partners, even though she was a keeper in this couple. She needed a keeper boyfriend more than I needed a keeper girlfriend. Therefore, my future girlfriend is keeper and dominant partner.

In my country, half a cry that women are drinking quite often if not even more often. Especially those who „desired” me were smoking and vaping, back in my middle school already. Its so wasteful and toxic I’d rather join Al Qaida, do a Jihad and destroy a market, being armed only with a spoon and vulgar insults and threats! Therefore, just to not make her a Mary Sue, I’d rather for my future girlfriend to love alcohol only, if she can’t be healthier and go abstinent just like I actually do.

And there was one irony in my life, not directly related to my love life. As you could have noticed, my persona is a synthetic undead remade and reanimated with chemical genetic modifications, with a bit of misticism. Which makes me a like of a necro-cyborg. When I saw bio-organic monstrosity horror stuff such as titular organism from „The Thing” series for few first times, deep inside I was so scared I’d try to look away and hug my girlfriend tightly if only I had one. I knew almost too quickly if such things existed in real life, we’d all be screwed. And much to irony here’s my dream girlfriend Laura Fortune who manifests herself as one of such fleshy horror DNA monsters. Perhaps this would mean that my future girlfriend would pose as a someone scary many males runs away in fear as well as would scare my younger self to suffocation while I would actually end up flustered and... wanting more? Guess that makes me a masochistic thrillerdude, right? While actually my future girlfriend would be deep inside a kind and fun lady who would definitely appreciate a „kitten” I’d be at this point of course.

And lastly yet shortly, while as I noticed that I am an introvert, it might be best if my future girlfriend is an ambivert or extrovert.

And this is where similiarities and opposites should go if they are really meant to attract, at least by my deduction, observations and personal experience.