Good evening, lovely watchers. *claps her hands* I trust you're enjoying a fine time, whatever time zone you're in.

SO- Often in life we find ourselves in situations Where we may be in a discussion with someone else, just walked into a conversation or maybe we're just a third wheel on the outside of other's interaction, and that air of uncomfortable sharpness creeps along our shoulders, down our spines and curls around our butts. *eyebrow arcs* Sure, no one has said anything untoward. No one has necessarily given you the stink eye... but something is definitely amiss. Ancient instincts from our days of the more primal predator/prey relationship rise up from their recliners, put down the cheezy-wumps and beer and look up to the more dominant parts of our conscious minds to say-

"Uhm... Hey. I think we done fucked up. We should probably get out of this..."

Granted, many of us ignore these yelpings and wailings of the long-forgotten guardians of our better health and continue on... *head tilts* often much to our detriment. Yes, we are indeed social creatures, to one degree or another, lovely watchers. We have thoughts, ideas, all manner of feelings and we enjoy sharing these with others in a healthy- or occasionally unhealthy- fashion. Social interaction does fight off one of our most basic fears, after all, fear of ostracization from the group. Where we once came together as tribes of grunting cave-people to seek shelter and sustenance, fight off the elements and predators, we now do roughly the same... just with different predators in mind. *ahem* Name your own.... Learning to recognize the tiny tell-tale signs in each other, the ways we communicate what we feel and think without verbal acuity, can vastly improve our relationships and therefore our survivability as social creatures.

*sighs* Or in this instance, when people are trying to bang, whatever you want to talk about can wait.

*snickers* Featuring my wife, the absolutely adorable  KrissieFox


Enjoy the evening you sexy, salacious, social beasties- but be mindful of those around you. Sometimes, a sigh and a busy, unfocused demeanor are just that. Other times, they are a more polite way of saying "would you please go away. I'm really wanting to get my rocks off". *blows a kiss* One love to you, beautiful watchers.