For everyone who says "You'll never find someone if you don't go looking" there's one who says "The trick is not to look, and eventually a relationship will spring organically from a platonic friendship."

Me, I'm having either the best or second-best Valentine's Day in the past decade. I'm free from the strife of having a will they/won't they situation with a crush who hasn't said no yet, free from the oppression of a girlfriend who wants to micromanage my behavior and still not be around when I need to be comforted, and liberated from the bawling my eyes out phase of my last breakup.

I believe in soul mates. I've waited ten years to find mine and I can go on waiting until she shows up...or I die. About 60% of the hardship I've faced in my adult life has come from being impatient and jumping at the first chance to be with someone.