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personal boundaries (G)
14 years ago
Hello everyone, today's lesson is about personal boundaries.
I get that furries are a much more huggy bunch than most, and I'm totally okay with that. I hug people by way of greeting, it's not that big a deal. However.
Lately a lot of furs seem to think that interacting with me in the same way i interact with my closest friends is okay. It really isn't, and it's kind of creepy.
You know that bit in mean girls where it's only okay when Janis says Damian is almost too gay to function?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2j_SmCmjVY
It's like that.
I love all you guys dearly, but I really don't think it's okay for furs I barely know and have barely spoken to to come up and try to grope me, or lick me, or bite me, or call me a slut or a whore or whatever.
"But how do I know if she considers me a close friend or not?"
If you're not sure about whether or not I consider you a close friend, you probably aren't one. It may seem super-bitchy, but I'm honestly starting to feel really uncomfortable about it at meets and sunday sessions, so it needs to be said.
Besides, my body belongs to
nickcassino and
coolieo
I get that furries are a much more huggy bunch than most, and I'm totally okay with that. I hug people by way of greeting, it's not that big a deal. However.
Lately a lot of furs seem to think that interacting with me in the same way i interact with my closest friends is okay. It really isn't, and it's kind of creepy.
You know that bit in mean girls where it's only okay when Janis says Damian is almost too gay to function?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2j_SmCmjVY
It's like that.
I love all you guys dearly, but I really don't think it's okay for furs I barely know and have barely spoken to to come up and try to grope me, or lick me, or bite me, or call me a slut or a whore or whatever.
"But how do I know if she considers me a close friend or not?"
If you're not sure about whether or not I consider you a close friend, you probably aren't one. It may seem super-bitchy, but I'm honestly starting to feel really uncomfortable about it at meets and sunday sessions, so it needs to be said.
Besides, my body belongs to
nickcassino and
coolieo
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