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Just out of curiousity.
17 years ago
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I'd really like to hear your answers to these questions. You can answer just one, or all of them.. whatever.
1. How do you, personally, judge the value of someone? What characteristics do you value most in a friend? A lover? Are they the same? What characteristics do you dislike? (And I don't mean physical characteristics.)
2. What types of people do you respect?
3. What is your goal in life? What is your definition of a worthwhile life? What do you value above all else? (A future goal? Developing a certain set of characteristics? Familial or social relations? Monetary success? Occupational success? Love? Hedonism? Enlightenment? World domination? Flaming Hot Cheetos?) Also, if you're okay with sharing it.. what is your deepest fear?
4. Do you feel you are a successful individual? What do consider to be your greatest accomplishment? (You can define accomplishment in any way you'd like.)
5. What is (are) your best trait(s)? Your worst trait(s)? (Again, not physical traits, like eyes, hair, etc.)
thanks in advance to whoever decides to respond.. :) This isn't an assignment for school or anything like that. Also, if you don't feel comfortable posting your answers publicly, you could always PM me your responses.
1. How do you, personally, judge the value of someone? What characteristics do you value most in a friend? A lover? Are they the same? What characteristics do you dislike? (And I don't mean physical characteristics.)
2. What types of people do you respect?
3. What is your goal in life? What is your definition of a worthwhile life? What do you value above all else? (A future goal? Developing a certain set of characteristics? Familial or social relations? Monetary success? Occupational success? Love? Hedonism? Enlightenment? World domination? Flaming Hot Cheetos?) Also, if you're okay with sharing it.. what is your deepest fear?
4. Do you feel you are a successful individual? What do consider to be your greatest accomplishment? (You can define accomplishment in any way you'd like.)
5. What is (are) your best trait(s)? Your worst trait(s)? (Again, not physical traits, like eyes, hair, etc.)
thanks in advance to whoever decides to respond.. :) This isn't an assignment for school or anything like that. Also, if you don't feel comfortable posting your answers publicly, you could always PM me your responses.
1. I try not to judge people, but I do so subconsciously i suppose..I guess I tend to judge by their maturity, and first impressions are always key. With friends, I like the ones that leave me smiling. They make me happy, and they're the reason I wake up in the morning. I'm still not quite sure what I want in a lover. What I always hated about being in a relationship was that intense, debilitating, infatuation. Yeah, it felt nice, that warm, fuzzy, "loving" feeling, but like being drunk, it stopped being fun after a while. It interfered with my everyday life and made it hard to concentrate. Even though I knew it wasn't healthy for me, I felt like I needed that person. Maybe I'm simply too young to love, or maybe I just haven't found the right person, I don't really know. xD What I want is someone who makes me feel whole, not a relationship that drains me.
2. I respect people who stick to their word and keep promises, and those who can see both sides of a story while still having an opinion.
I might answer the others later, I spent a lot more time on that first one than originally intended. xD