Dealing with Eviction attempt
2 weeks ago
General
Right so
Last time I posted about how the housemate was trying to get a restraining order on two of the household. That thankfully didn't pan out for her. However she has decided to instead serve us with a (non legally actionable) eviction notice. Lot of reasons why it won't stick, but after doing so she called the police to the house, claiming she felt threatened by the rest of us and did not feel safe there. The police confirmed the eviction isn't actionable, and that she'd have to formally go through the court and file for unlawful residence, though that won't do anything as long as her husband wants us to be able to stay here, which he does. The police left, she is now staying with a friend, along with having taken the two dogs in the household. This was two days ago.
Divorce filings between them is in progress, lawyers are being contacted, etc etc.
Currently I don't have anything legally filed against me. But as you can imagine, between this and overtime hours at work, I am very stressed and have not been able to get art done. I'm still trying, but it's a slow process. This all has been escalating over the course of months and I am very burned out from it all and wondering what we've done to have this treatment from her.
So apologies, and I will do what I can to keep working on art. I'm also exploring ideas for changing up the monthly image set on my subscribestar to instead continuing to do black and white (at least starting out) comics. Got a lot of ideas brewing on that. The desire to art is there, it's just a matter of energy and motivation due to unrelated stressers.
Last time I posted about how the housemate was trying to get a restraining order on two of the household. That thankfully didn't pan out for her. However she has decided to instead serve us with a (non legally actionable) eviction notice. Lot of reasons why it won't stick, but after doing so she called the police to the house, claiming she felt threatened by the rest of us and did not feel safe there. The police confirmed the eviction isn't actionable, and that she'd have to formally go through the court and file for unlawful residence, though that won't do anything as long as her husband wants us to be able to stay here, which he does. The police left, she is now staying with a friend, along with having taken the two dogs in the household. This was two days ago.
Divorce filings between them is in progress, lawyers are being contacted, etc etc.
Currently I don't have anything legally filed against me. But as you can imagine, between this and overtime hours at work, I am very stressed and have not been able to get art done. I'm still trying, but it's a slow process. This all has been escalating over the course of months and I am very burned out from it all and wondering what we've done to have this treatment from her.
So apologies, and I will do what I can to keep working on art. I'm also exploring ideas for changing up the monthly image set on my subscribestar to instead continuing to do black and white (at least starting out) comics. Got a lot of ideas brewing on that. The desire to art is there, it's just a matter of energy and motivation due to unrelated stressers.
SlickDratini
~slickdratini
Hey old friend, I'm glad that things didn't pan out for the one requesting the restraining order and eviction. It's terribly difficult to see people breaking down, but at least you and the other affected people in the household aren't at fault or have to suddenly find another place to live. It sounds like this situation is between the two going through the divorce, and that you just happened to be there when the estrangement turned into derangement. There's not much you can do but be there for the people around you... I just hope those dogs are okay in her hands. If she remotely cares about them, they should be fine, but know that this situation isn't and has never been your fault, okay?
Falken12
~falken12
DAMN. I am SO sorry you're caught up in all of this drama. You take care of yourself, the rest of us can be patient
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