Discord exit
3 weeks ago
General
So i just deleted discord off of my arting machine.
Tried out Stoad on and off since last weekend...which is seeing a big influx.
Like i literally joined one of 3 servers listed as furry and that one went from under 400 to over 1000 users in a week.
Matrix has...no fury servers listed....which seems weird when the running joke is that furries run all the tech.
But i just created that handle (and of course plain old mot was already taken) maybe i am just not looking in the right spot.
edit: account deleted, if a "mot" contacts you on discord sometime later, it wont be me.
Tried out Stoad on and off since last weekend...which is seeing a big influx.
Like i literally joined one of 3 servers listed as furry and that one went from under 400 to over 1000 users in a week.
Matrix has...no fury servers listed....which seems weird when the running joke is that furries run all the tech.
But i just created that handle (and of course plain old mot was already taken) maybe i am just not looking in the right spot.
edit: account deleted, if a "mot" contacts you on discord sometime later, it wont be me.
FA+

Now we’re paying the consequences of their blind stupidity.
I for one won’t be leaving Discord and there are people who have already found ways to prove that you’re an adult without the need of having to submit either a selfie of your face or a picture of your government issued photo ID.
Death Stranding, or using the systems that are already in place from the beginning. D.o.B. in the Family Center setting in the Discord Account settings.
https://x.com/luzlavoid/status/2024603067555954864?s=46&t=IRkuOh8h8MvugyPMnMupCQ
Governments forget that when it comes to making laws for technology. Is that those laws they try making are just a precautionary measure to allow them time before making new laws that better fit the technology.
Instead those laws become completely outdated and obsolete before the ink of the letter of the first word has even had a chance to dry.
There will never be a time where laws made by people who don’t understand technology will ever actually match the technology that’s being used at the time the laws are made.
i was very disgusted by discords blatant false information and deleted my account within the hour.
But I still don’t know if it is true or not. But I understand your stance and choice in leaving Discord.
The crazy thing though is that currently they don't send the video anywhere. Instead, you download the age verification AI analysis tool to your device and it does the verification on your machine. This is 100% insecure since you control your machine, not them, and so people have already made tools to hack the test and force a positive result. All it sends back is pass or fail, no video. For now!
But I heard that Discord just might actually go back on The whole ID/facescan to confirm if you’re an adult. Because of the massive pushback from the public and its users. And then you have people canceling their nitro, I get the feeling that it might actually make them listen and not go through with it.
we’ll just have to wait and see.
Although Discord is still going through with the Age verification thing. But other than that. I hope it still keeps the ID and Age verification stuff on hold for as long as it can.
you got either these two open sourced platforms fluxer or stoat.. there's also matrix/element and signal (signal is too private like only if you have a small group)
https://x.com/luzlavoid/status/2024603067555954864?s=46&t=IRkuOh8h8MvugyPMnMupCQ
Also , if you dont verefy you are put with children in same groups , so literaly handling children to predators as all they have to do is...nothing.
And its not as if my username was sacred, there could be an imposter at any time spinning a story about how i lost access and such.
I can't be 100% sure this is the case, Discord is a black box, but it is the standard and default, from my studies anyways.
I suppose at least they have the datapoint that you were pissed off enough with them to delete your account!
I can't directly enforce deletion from their datacentres but if they are doing business in the EU, they also have to abide by their laws and can only hold my information for as long as it is necessary to provide me their service. I am sure they can widen that to keeping the info stored for other users i interacted with since it would be jarring if all of a sudden all things i ever said on the platform got removed from all the logs.
Regardless, to point was to make a statement.
It sucks the statement is neccesary, though. I hope the others learn from it, since I imagine it's too late for Discord even if they changed course.
I'm a bit too late, though. I was going to suggest you add your non-Discord contact info to your profile on Discord so that folks can find you, if they don't have any non-Discord contact info for you already. Like, I can see this so I'm good, but I dunno who might be out there that'll just lose you now. But, you already deleted your Discord account.
Well, I suppose it's probably unlikely anybody especially important would only know you on Discord, and be unable to find you otherwise. ^.^;;
Matrix is an odd one. I found one furry matrix homeserver when I was looking, hosted by these folks https://furryrefuge.com/ but I couldn't actually connect to it. The matrix client I was using, element, said it wasn't correctly set up. Looking again, it's not even listed on their chat apps, so maybe they gave up on hosting it.
Of course, it doesn't help that what rooms (the equivalent of Discord servers) are available based on which Matrix Homeserver you're on and which other homeservers your homeserver connects to. It's similar to Mastodon and the Fediverse, which has the benefit that a big corp doesn't own everything, and the detriments that it's confusing and some randos own each part of it.
Probably the worst thing though is that there ARE public furry rooms (servers) on the matrix.org homeserver (the default/easiest/basic homeserver) and if you do a search for public rooms with the search term furry, nothing comes up! Basically unusable. At this point I forget how I actually managed to find and join the Furry Tech room, too, and that was just a few days ago.
I don't know why it's like that. It's open source so I'd look into it myself and try to help, but everything I've been hearing suggests Stoat (formerly Revolt) does everything good Matrix does, and does it better, so I might just help with that instead. Plus, it seems to be where most furries are going. But, I'm still looking into various places. My list of social/chat apps and options has 26 things to check out just so far!
And yeah there are very few who only contacted me through discord and i always maintained that my FA is my one big social media presence...and i am not that hard to find on here.
i did find a furry server on matrix on the Snoonet homeserver-network-whatever which seems to be a catch-all for the NSFW ones. though it is veeeery quiet.
The most sure way to contact me is by email, but it's probably the worst way to contact me for anything more than finding a better place to contact me. Everyplace else, I don't really trust them not to give me the boot with no warning with or without reason.
As for Discord, well, I'm not happy what they're doing, but that goes for so much of the corposphere that I just have to deal with it. The fact is, they've become such a standard that I'm perpetually at the max limit of 100 Discords, split between furry servers and the official servers for games and publishers, and professional servers related to my interests and work. Before all this mess I was thinking of setting up a second Discord account just to cheat the server limit, to split off the game and professional servers so I could join more on both sides!
They managed to replace web forums for the most part, even as people complained and complained about it, and here they go messing up their golden goose.
And here i got overwhelmed by 6 and had to mute half of them.
I tend to restrain myself only because of the limit. I'd be in a lot more, otherwise. But, it's weird to need to be 'in' them at all, when most of them are basically text forums like you used to host on a website. ^.^;;
I'm not thrilled with Discord either, this is acute, and I've told the Discord servers that I own, that they will be dismantled and deleted this year.
Yea I use Discord etc..from.uk..
Totally against the THINKOFTHECHILDRENACT..AKA ONLINE SAFERY BILL..I seen ads on tv from phone companies with Internet..like this is perfect..the goverment needs to talk to these..like can pause ur kids WiFi.. only alow them to go onto safe sites etc..
Why didn't the goc in uk do that stuff..instead the adults get punished...and facial recognition..hooboy..
It's discrimination..it doesn't recognise some people..so yea ur locked out..