Your not the only one who has to deal with that. They need to just let us have space and let us focus on what we want not what they want.

She doesnt do it all the time; she respects my space....I just feel like that when she does it...but what I dont get is that I told and EXPLAINED to her why I cant get a job right now,, and yet whenever I ask her for something more than once, she does it. So, Im just gonna stick to what Im doing now till I graduate.

That sounds like the right thing to do. I guess it is just a parent thing that they do?

Yeah....she's always been like that, but I still love my mom. I dont know what I would do with out her though.

I still miss my mom. I still love her even though she is not with us.

welll yeah but there comes a time when you gota learn what battles to fight and you gota let the kids be them selves there not robot drones that are told were to work and how to live also when parent is a die hard alchoholic like my mother was it made its more diffacult and at times down right impossible to talk to with out getting frustrated and giving up

i know the feeling my mother was the same way even when after i found a job she still wasn't satisfied it was always a compatition she felt she was better than me it was always "when you gonna get a real job i have a real job i work full time you do nothing you have a measily part time job grow up"!! she had no responsability it seamed for anything it was all my fault when things didn't get done

Yeah...my dad is kinda like that too. but he dont bitch as much as he did though. He works 8 hours a day at min wage (7.25/hr) now, because in 2007 he got laid off from his job that he worked at for over 20 years and worked odd/part-time/temp jobs all over till he got where he's at today. He understands how hard it is to find a good job and stick with it.

I know the feeling of it sis X3