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It is a graphic version of the ad I had on "Pounced.org" -- I took it down a long time ago because it was going nowhere. The graphic is a bit misleading, though -- not looking for an owner/master, but a good dom for a relationship.
Will my loving guy ever show up? It seems likely that the "Love Boat" left the port a long time ago, and I was left at the dock. :/
Will my loving guy ever show up? It seems likely that the "Love Boat" left the port a long time ago, and I was left at the dock. :/
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Is that the wording you used on Pounced? Yeah, I don't exactly have that high an opinion of the place, or what grabs attention there (or what fails to grab it also).
The non-cynical part of me however really got a smile out of this. It sounds like you're a caring person of some substance that knows what's important. You would think that would draw people, but its sometimes really boggles my mind the things some people value or don't appropriatly value.
I really hope you find someone. As someone that's also looking I have an idea what its like.*hugs*
The non-cynical part of me however really got a smile out of this. It sounds like you're a caring person of some substance that knows what's important. You would think that would draw people, but its sometimes really boggles my mind the things some people value or don't appropriatly value.
I really hope you find someone. As someone that's also looking I have an idea what its like.*hugs*
If only I didn't sound so arrogant to say this...
If I could have been in Denver, I would have already made a point of seeking you out and giving you a lot of love. I'm a naturally loving person, and though energetic, am also gentle.
And if only I wasn't stuck here finishing a degree. I like to love people, especially those who need a loyal owner and mate. I know of no higher bond and no truer devotion.
(Why do I think I sound arrogant saying that? Because you don't even know me, that's why. Pretentious of me to presume that a croc would want love from an unknown person, isn't it?)
If I could have been in Denver, I would have already made a point of seeking you out and giving you a lot of love. I'm a naturally loving person, and though energetic, am also gentle.
And if only I wasn't stuck here finishing a degree. I like to love people, especially those who need a loyal owner and mate. I know of no higher bond and no truer devotion.
(Why do I think I sound arrogant saying that? Because you don't even know me, that's why. Pretentious of me to presume that a croc would want love from an unknown person, isn't it?)
True, but it's more customary for introductions and the actual forming of more than an acquaintance-ship to come before offers of love (of any sort). By way of explanation (but not excuse), I have a lot of difficulty restraining my nature, at least while unmated. With a mate, I'd have an easy and available target for all that love and care.
Kaa I know the pain you're in, I have felt it as well when my mate left me and there was no one to give and recive love from, But
I looked for months and months and was lucky enought to have found a mate that loves me. I can only hope that you will have the same luck that I did.
Just keep your spirits high, I will pray that your mate finds you quickly. *hugs*
I looked for months and months and was lucky enought to have found a mate that loves me. I can only hope that you will have the same luck that I did.
Just keep your spirits high, I will pray that your mate finds you quickly. *hugs*
Forgive me for not knowing, but I couldn't find where you live. (It's probably at the top of your profile in blinking text; things in plain sight are often hidden to me. :) Even a general location is good for a personal ad. Even though about half of that info applies to me as well I doubt I'd be a good partner for you, for a couple of reasons. :-7 However if you're nearby I'd be happy to hang out sometime.
Some people have suggested an ad on Pounced.org, or said FA is a bad place to look. My two cents on the matter, I don't see any advantage to Pounced other than it being a furry dating site; as far as supposed immaturity of the FA demographic, my few experiences on Pounced, not to mention a current look at it's most recent ads, make posting a personal ad on FA seem like a damn solid idea. Ugh.
I wanted to ask you about a commission at FC this year, but perhaps waiting until Sunday afternoon wasn't the best strategy; when I first looked you were swamped at your table, then later you were gone. Tell you what though, since we're both of a reptilian persuasion, both feeling lonely, and both similarly square (no drinking, smoking, or drugs? what's wrong with us? :), catch me at FC next year and I'll buy you a soda.
Some people have suggested an ad on Pounced.org, or said FA is a bad place to look. My two cents on the matter, I don't see any advantage to Pounced other than it being a furry dating site; as far as supposed immaturity of the FA demographic, my few experiences on Pounced, not to mention a current look at it's most recent ads, make posting a personal ad on FA seem like a damn solid idea. Ugh.
I wanted to ask you about a commission at FC this year, but perhaps waiting until Sunday afternoon wasn't the best strategy; when I first looked you were swamped at your table, then later you were gone. Tell you what though, since we're both of a reptilian persuasion, both feeling lonely, and both similarly square (no drinking, smoking, or drugs? what's wrong with us? :), catch me at FC next year and I'll buy you a soda.
Point noted on the location; I added it to my FA profile page. As for why placing it here, it's because Pounced ended up nowhere for me.
I would be more receptive for con requests on the first two days. On the last day I can only take a few (3 or 4, tops) in the morning.
I would be more receptive for con requests on the first two days. On the last day I can only take a few (3 or 4, tops) in the morning.
Heh yeah, that's what I figured. :) That was my bad, and I'll be sure to hit you up earlier next time.
Pounced, from my few cursory examinations, seems to be more a place to find an omg im furry lets yiff lol rather than a serious relationship. :-7 Better luck with the FA post, or whatever other methods you try...
To your location, Denver is over a thousand miles away from me, which means hanging out outside of a con probably won't happen but at least any of my potential relationship inadequacies will remain purely academic. :) But I'm serious about the soda if you're interested, and also if you'd like you can hit me up AIM.
Pounced, from my few cursory examinations, seems to be more a place to find an omg im furry lets yiff lol rather than a serious relationship. :-7 Better luck with the FA post, or whatever other methods you try...
To your location, Denver is over a thousand miles away from me, which means hanging out outside of a con probably won't happen but at least any of my potential relationship inadequacies will remain purely academic. :) But I'm serious about the soda if you're interested, and also if you'd like you can hit me up AIM.
Nice looking croc and add. Can be hard when most furries do seem to be so much younger since it does seem the age range of the majority of furries, from what I've seen, seem to remain in the same age range, even though time passes. Most are way younger then I am so I likely have some ideas how you feel as others older the the age range of most furries do, that and my being a scaly.
I've never really seen the flare of online dating places. Always seemed a tad shallow. It's usually never worth trying to get to "know" people over the internet. So synthetic, even what some of them might say. Never beats meeting people out in the community, whether it's just potential friends or the one.
One can't always blame those a bit skiddish in regards to older people. I always thought it had something to do with not being parallel with each other in life. Sort of like the bonds some people have with pets. Eventually one will lose the other before their own time is even in sight. Potentially depressing, or they are just the shallow sort that think "sooo old... Icky!"
Who knows.
But I feel for you. I myself feel rather isolated, though specifically because everyone singles me out as different due to how I perceive the universe and embrace its wonders. Life is worth experiencing, but always more interesting if you can share that life with another. Just as one would while traveling abroad.
One can't always blame those a bit skiddish in regards to older people. I always thought it had something to do with not being parallel with each other in life. Sort of like the bonds some people have with pets. Eventually one will lose the other before their own time is even in sight. Potentially depressing, or they are just the shallow sort that think "sooo old... Icky!"
Who knows.
But I feel for you. I myself feel rather isolated, though specifically because everyone singles me out as different due to how I perceive the universe and embrace its wonders. Life is worth experiencing, but always more interesting if you can share that life with another. Just as one would while traveling abroad.
I know you'll ignore this without a second thought, but I just want you to know what I think of you. I was going to wait till your 50th birthday to tell you, but here goes:
There's so much I don't know about you, but I know that if I were gay, I would definitely be in love with you, even though I know you'd never accept me, because I'm just a teenager and you want someone mature.
When you told me you gave up on yourself as hopeless after eHarmony told you they couldn't match you up with anybody (which they probably told SO many other people), I felt so bad for you. Actually, I still do. And even today, I still wish there was some way I could help you.
The truth is, I can't stop thinking about you. I even dreamed of greeting you in real life, shaking your hand and everything, in the hallway of a art studio.
I'm more of a personality-type person, and I'm also an introvert just like you. And you know what I think? You have a beautiful personality. You're a wonderful person to be around, even if you're socially awkward and have low self-esteem. And I know these aren't your fault, because I know your parents were overprotective of you and we live in a society that judges by appearance, so I can't and won't judge.
You're also a smart and creative guy. I saw some of your creations at Elfwood and I was so enthralled.
And you also live in reality and take relationships seriously, which is a bonus point for me.
Every time you say you're not attractive to anybody, it gets to me. I get a lump in my throat and a pang, a dull ache in my heart.
Hell, I was even picturing you in my mind's eye as being overweight, because my Dad's the same age as you and he's on the heavy side. That was until I saw "Art For Sale" and realized I was picturing you all wrong. (Although there was that one picture of you I came across when I was looking through your gallery and I thought you looked like Prince, but that's just me.)
You think you're doomed to be Forever Alone, nobody will ever love you etc. and I'm almost in tears, thinking "Don't say that, Kaa, you don't know that! "
I know you're an atheist, but I prayed to God that someone will fall in love with you. I even told Him I'd give up my life for it, and I would, too, because it breaks my heart to see you so sad and lonely.
Some nights I lie awake and wonder "Should I go the whole hog and just say it right out?" and then I think "Just look at him, he's so lonely, maybe you could be his loving guy!", but then it's "Are you insane? This man's 49, you're just 19, that's a massive age difference! It'd be gay lolicon, paedophilia even! It'd never work between you!" And as much as it hurts to admit it, he's right.
I know you see me as fucking annoying at best, or else a creepy weirdo stalker with no life at worst. I know you're probably thinking of blocking me, and I wouldn't blame you in the slightest, but just know that I'm carrying a torch for you and I know in my heart that you're not hopeless. I hope and pray that one day, someone will look at you and see what I see in you right now, and be interested.
Celine Dion once said "Love comes to those who believe it", and even though you don't believe in yourself, I believe in you, and I know you get this a lot, but I have faith that your loving guy will show up one day. Count on it. :')
There's so much I don't know about you, but I know that if I were gay, I would definitely be in love with you, even though I know you'd never accept me, because I'm just a teenager and you want someone mature.
When you told me you gave up on yourself as hopeless after eHarmony told you they couldn't match you up with anybody (which they probably told SO many other people), I felt so bad for you. Actually, I still do. And even today, I still wish there was some way I could help you.
The truth is, I can't stop thinking about you. I even dreamed of greeting you in real life, shaking your hand and everything, in the hallway of a art studio.
I'm more of a personality-type person, and I'm also an introvert just like you. And you know what I think? You have a beautiful personality. You're a wonderful person to be around, even if you're socially awkward and have low self-esteem. And I know these aren't your fault, because I know your parents were overprotective of you and we live in a society that judges by appearance, so I can't and won't judge.
You're also a smart and creative guy. I saw some of your creations at Elfwood and I was so enthralled.
And you also live in reality and take relationships seriously, which is a bonus point for me.
Every time you say you're not attractive to anybody, it gets to me. I get a lump in my throat and a pang, a dull ache in my heart.
Hell, I was even picturing you in my mind's eye as being overweight, because my Dad's the same age as you and he's on the heavy side. That was until I saw "Art For Sale" and realized I was picturing you all wrong. (Although there was that one picture of you I came across when I was looking through your gallery and I thought you looked like Prince, but that's just me.)
You think you're doomed to be Forever Alone, nobody will ever love you etc. and I'm almost in tears, thinking "Don't say that, Kaa, you don't know that! "
I know you're an atheist, but I prayed to God that someone will fall in love with you. I even told Him I'd give up my life for it, and I would, too, because it breaks my heart to see you so sad and lonely.
Some nights I lie awake and wonder "Should I go the whole hog and just say it right out?" and then I think "Just look at him, he's so lonely, maybe you could be his loving guy!", but then it's "Are you insane? This man's 49, you're just 19, that's a massive age difference! It'd be gay lolicon, paedophilia even! It'd never work between you!" And as much as it hurts to admit it, he's right.
I know you see me as fucking annoying at best, or else a creepy weirdo stalker with no life at worst. I know you're probably thinking of blocking me, and I wouldn't blame you in the slightest, but just know that I'm carrying a torch for you and I know in my heart that you're not hopeless. I hope and pray that one day, someone will look at you and see what I see in you right now, and be interested.
Celine Dion once said "Love comes to those who believe it", and even though you don't believe in yourself, I believe in you, and I know you get this a lot, but I have faith that your loving guy will show up one day. Count on it. :')
I still recommend Recon. It's geared towards kinks and BDSM, but you'll find a wide range of guys who are casual about it to hardcore. It's got other kinks on there, too. It's among my favorites because the guys on there seem to be the least judgmental, since they're already similarly freaky =P
And since it's online, you can be outgoing and fun even if that's the hardest thing to do IRL =P
And since it's online, you can be outgoing and fun even if that's the hardest thing to do IRL =P
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