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Just came back from my out-of-town yesterday. I tought I would feel better, but I don't. I'm just really emotionaly & physically tierd. I really don't want feeling the way I feel, I wish so much these emotions would stop, but no matter how much I try, it just wont stop.
So, now, I'm gonna accept what fuck life gives me.
I decided to make a change with my fursona, starting this moment, my fursona has no heart. After all,who needs a heart? who needs emotions? who needs love? Love, didn't work for me, life is a pain for me. If I had my way, I would cut off my heart, cause I hells don't want feeling this way, waking up each morning feeling so weak, so dipress. I'm exhusted.
I'm tierd of people taking advantage of me, using me, playin' me like an instrument. And nothing, I get nothing in return. I'm sick of it, sick of emotions, sick of life.
From now on, Wolfjedisamuel will be a heartless canine
So, now, I'm gonna accept what fuck life gives me.
I decided to make a change with my fursona, starting this moment, my fursona has no heart. After all,who needs a heart? who needs emotions? who needs love? Love, didn't work for me, life is a pain for me. If I had my way, I would cut off my heart, cause I hells don't want feeling this way, waking up each morning feeling so weak, so dipress. I'm exhusted.
I'm tierd of people taking advantage of me, using me, playin' me like an instrument. And nothing, I get nothing in return. I'm sick of it, sick of emotions, sick of life.
From now on, Wolfjedisamuel will be a heartless canine
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Don't do that, theres times you just have to forget and just let it go.
Taking pain with you will only make it worst you have to find a way to relieve this pain and let go. Whatever someone did to you it destroying your natural being.
some things just need to be forgoten or you'll never get by in life.
Taking pain with you will only make it worst you have to find a way to relieve this pain and let go. Whatever someone did to you it destroying your natural being.
some things just need to be forgoten or you'll never get by in life.
Well, the heart has little to do with emotions and feelings. It's a muscle for pumping blood to your brain, which is actually largely more responsible for your feelings and emotions than your heart. So, if you want to get rid of your feelings, what you have to do, is to remove your brain.
noooooooooooooo DX!!!!
I'm not saying you should turn around but definitely a thought would be good man... Is sad that so many things are so terrible in this world ;-;
will you at least keep the ponies inside you?
joke aside, I want to let you know I enjoy your moments in FA, art and journals equally. Take a good look around and don't let your hopes down. I'm sure there i still so much that can be done, even if you say you have tried. Sometimes, all we need is a hand to help us up, no matter how proud or upset we are. Even if it doesn't seem like it sometimes, there's still people who like you and can understand in many ways.
If anything, I've not met a single person who didn't fall into a bottomless pit, but doesn't mean we can't get out. I'm rooting for ya
I'm not saying you should turn around but definitely a thought would be good man... Is sad that so many things are so terrible in this world ;-;
will you at least keep the ponies inside you?
joke aside, I want to let you know I enjoy your moments in FA, art and journals equally. Take a good look around and don't let your hopes down. I'm sure there i still so much that can be done, even if you say you have tried. Sometimes, all we need is a hand to help us up, no matter how proud or upset we are. Even if it doesn't seem like it sometimes, there's still people who like you and can understand in many ways.
If anything, I've not met a single person who didn't fall into a bottomless pit, but doesn't mean we can't get out. I'm rooting for ya
Wow, so basically you're saying that it is pointless to consider how others feel and how one feels as well... so why not use the bloody hell out of everyone in the world without any regard for consequence?
We experience emotions for a reason, whether you choose to believe that or not. There is nothing philsophical about the notion that emotions are pointless. If anything, it seems unwise. To disregard such a large part of us is just... words fail to describe how careless I find it.
Sorry, but sounds like you and I would not get along at all.
We experience emotions for a reason, whether you choose to believe that or not. There is nothing philsophical about the notion that emotions are pointless. If anything, it seems unwise. To disregard such a large part of us is just... words fail to describe how careless I find it.
Sorry, but sounds like you and I would not get along at all.
Thats not what i said at all. I realize almost no one thinks the way i do therefor i have to always keep their feelings in mind. Where as I personally feel that getting upset/sad does nothing but waste time and energy. Im not against feeling good/happy though, obviously.
"[...]why not use the bloody hell out of everyone[...]" Because im not a complete asshole, but that has nothing to do with emotions, that has to do with respect with has more to do with the brain than the heart (they are both in the brain but you know what i mean.)
Its not like im bottling up my emotions, i simply acknowledge that im feeling a particular way then just sort of ignore/get over it.
And its not like im just completely uncaring either. There is a difference in caring about people and letting my emotions get the better of me.
I feel like its more of a 'zen' inner peace, im certainly not going around flipping people the bird and telling them to blow me.
Yes, we do feel them for a reason, but my argument is that we dont really need to feel them...Sorry, im not very good at explaining this kind of stuff. To put it bluntly i think the need to have emotions tell us what to do rather than logical thinking is a bit of a bad thing.
*i could go into a long rant about my outlook but its not really important, long story short, call my a nihilist if you want.*
No need to apologize, i know we wouldnt get along, you seem to take things way too seriously.
Either way i would prefer if you didnt jump to conclusions or put words in my mouth.
"[...]why not use the bloody hell out of everyone[...]" Because im not a complete asshole, but that has nothing to do with emotions, that has to do with respect with has more to do with the brain than the heart (they are both in the brain but you know what i mean.)
Its not like im bottling up my emotions, i simply acknowledge that im feeling a particular way then just sort of ignore/get over it.
And its not like im just completely uncaring either. There is a difference in caring about people and letting my emotions get the better of me.
I feel like its more of a 'zen' inner peace, im certainly not going around flipping people the bird and telling them to blow me.
Yes, we do feel them for a reason, but my argument is that we dont really need to feel them...Sorry, im not very good at explaining this kind of stuff. To put it bluntly i think the need to have emotions tell us what to do rather than logical thinking is a bit of a bad thing.
*i could go into a long rant about my outlook but its not really important, long story short, call my a nihilist if you want.*
No need to apologize, i know we wouldnt get along, you seem to take things way too seriously.
Either way i would prefer if you didnt jump to conclusions or put words in my mouth.
Man i hate im going on a bit of a rant about this, but a quick google search helped me find something to help explain...
http://www.reddit.com/r/Buddhism/co.....ly_nihilistic/
"I am maybe guessing that the reason why I may have said a zen master does not get angry/sad etc, is because I see anger as being like a wave in the ocean. For those who have not cultivated wisdom, the wave comes and picks them up, throws them around, slams them into the ground, they hit their head on a rock, start bleeding and suffer.
Whereas for a person who has cultivated ultimate wisdom, the waves pass right thru them. They feel the wave and are completely, immediately aware of it, but the wave is powerless to move their mind. They don't get picked up, thrown around or slammed to the ground, therefore they do not suffer because of it. However, that does not necessarily mean that the waves stop coming.
So as for the way I view it, getting angry is equivalent to getting picked up by the wave and thrown around. If one defines "getting angry" as being tossed around by the wave, then would it be accurate to say that a wise one does not "get angry"? Which, for me, does not deny the existence of the wave and does not try to assert that the waves stop coming."
I am not Buddhist, and certainly not a "zen master" but this is a fine way of explaining how emotions work for me.
http://www.reddit.com/r/Buddhism/co.....ly_nihilistic/
"I am maybe guessing that the reason why I may have said a zen master does not get angry/sad etc, is because I see anger as being like a wave in the ocean. For those who have not cultivated wisdom, the wave comes and picks them up, throws them around, slams them into the ground, they hit their head on a rock, start bleeding and suffer.
Whereas for a person who has cultivated ultimate wisdom, the waves pass right thru them. They feel the wave and are completely, immediately aware of it, but the wave is powerless to move their mind. They don't get picked up, thrown around or slammed to the ground, therefore they do not suffer because of it. However, that does not necessarily mean that the waves stop coming.
So as for the way I view it, getting angry is equivalent to getting picked up by the wave and thrown around. If one defines "getting angry" as being tossed around by the wave, then would it be accurate to say that a wise one does not "get angry"? Which, for me, does not deny the existence of the wave and does not try to assert that the waves stop coming."
I am not Buddhist, and certainly not a "zen master" but this is a fine way of explaining how emotions work for me.
Well, then I hate to say it but the way you commented before REALLY made it sound like you were completely turned off from emotions in general. So yes, poor wording on your part. And yes, a bit hasty on my part to assume what you meant but hard to see that when one has not much to work with.
Honestly, I have had friends in the past who just shut themselves out because they are tired of hurting, then they change into these apathetic shells who then eventually disappeared off the face of the earth never to be heard from again, thus why I react vehemently to such things. I have seen it get destructive for many, and for me, it felt like you were encouraging someone to just become an apathetic husk.
Also, do not assume me a fool either because I do have a good head on my shoulders. For one, I realize that emotions and logical thinking need to balance each other out. We have both abilities for a reason and despite what you say, we need them both. I have this belief in balance and not acting in one extremity over the other, in this case, we'll say that logical thinking occupies one end of the spectrum and emotions on the other. Both have their benefits and both have their weaknesses given certain situations.
Now, do I always succeed in keeping this balance?
Nope. I would be lying otherwise.
But I still do my best to...
Honestly, I have had friends in the past who just shut themselves out because they are tired of hurting, then they change into these apathetic shells who then eventually disappeared off the face of the earth never to be heard from again, thus why I react vehemently to such things. I have seen it get destructive for many, and for me, it felt like you were encouraging someone to just become an apathetic husk.
Also, do not assume me a fool either because I do have a good head on my shoulders. For one, I realize that emotions and logical thinking need to balance each other out. We have both abilities for a reason and despite what you say, we need them both. I have this belief in balance and not acting in one extremity over the other, in this case, we'll say that logical thinking occupies one end of the spectrum and emotions on the other. Both have their benefits and both have their weaknesses given certain situations.
Now, do I always succeed in keeping this balance?
Nope. I would be lying otherwise.
But I still do my best to...
...But yes, both can temper each other very well, logic and emotions.
Also, I do see "respect" very much tying into emotions. For you see, this is how I see it, and you can correct me if you find something flawed in this, but if one has no regard or respect for their own feelings (not saying that you do not as you have made it clear you do), then how is one to have respect for how someone else might be feeling? Afterall, respect is even a feeling & emotion when you think about it. Can one not feel respected? ;)
Plus, one thing that did set me off before, before you explained your stance, is that you used the term philsophy. However, the term philsophy itself translates to & means the love of wisdom. If one has no emotions or feelings, or does not make use of them, then one does not love. If one does not love, how does one truly understand philsophy?
So yes, even I didn't fully explain myself as well as I should have. I admit that.
Anyway, you spoke your rebuttal peacefully and here is my response to that. You have a more clear head on your shoulders than I thought. You honestly just came off like an angsty emo 17 year old to me at first.
Also, I do see "respect" very much tying into emotions. For you see, this is how I see it, and you can correct me if you find something flawed in this, but if one has no regard or respect for their own feelings (not saying that you do not as you have made it clear you do), then how is one to have respect for how someone else might be feeling? Afterall, respect is even a feeling & emotion when you think about it. Can one not feel respected? ;)
Plus, one thing that did set me off before, before you explained your stance, is that you used the term philsophy. However, the term philsophy itself translates to & means the love of wisdom. If one has no emotions or feelings, or does not make use of them, then one does not love. If one does not love, how does one truly understand philsophy?
So yes, even I didn't fully explain myself as well as I should have. I admit that.
Anyway, you spoke your rebuttal peacefully and here is my response to that. You have a more clear head on your shoulders than I thought. You honestly just came off like an angsty emo 17 year old to me at first.
Also, you and I make a similar point at different moments in our comments here, just through somewhat different methods. Basically, about acknowledge when you feel a certain way but then get over it.
I tend to be the same way because, for example, let's say I feel depressed. It would be easy to let that depression get the better of me. Instead, I do acknowledge, get a cry or expression of the sad side of it out of me, examine what caused it and move on with a plan of strategy.
Like said, seems to have been misinterpretation here and nothing more.
I tend to be the same way because, for example, let's say I feel depressed. It would be easy to let that depression get the better of me. Instead, I do acknowledge, get a cry or expression of the sad side of it out of me, examine what caused it and move on with a plan of strategy.
Like said, seems to have been misinterpretation here and nothing more.
And yes, I can be a very serious guy at times. But that's all you have seen of me. I have a very playful fun side too. Just this is not a scenario that warranted that side to come out. Maybe if were a John Waters film instead, heh.
But no, this seemed like a pretty serious topic for discussion so there was no playtime as it were.
But no, this seemed like a pretty serious topic for discussion so there was no playtime as it were.
Kind of hard to be emo when i said im "anti-emotion." Yeah you're right i maybe should have explained better since im not technically anti-emotion, but i honestly didnt expect anyone to call me out on it. (i really should change my name, 'the undertaker' gives the wrong impression)
And i can understand how you would think im telling him to become some apathetic hermit (which arguably might not be a bad thing for some, i think i would enjoy that life very well) but you also said "Sorry to sound cold hearted but then why continue living?" which is pretty much just saying "kill yourself then."
And i never said i dont feel love, in fact i said im all for "good emotions" but i dont want to allow them to sway my judgement. Falling in love with someone who wouldnt be good for me, for example.
As for respect, i respect peoples actions and stances, not if they are happy or sad. Its a bit of a problem explaining because the word "feel" implies emotion when you may not want it to. "I feel like this anatomy is off" as apposed to "I feel like crap" for example.
I respect that you stand by your beliefs but arent hard headed about them.
And like you, im not constantly acting the way i say i try to... I contemplate romantic relationships, i get angry when things dont go as i planned, i get sad when a friend is having problems. But the way i look at it, only the last one is worth paying attention to. Which goes to what you were saying about balancing the two extremes, some might think i shouldnt pick and choose what to feel and what to let flow by but thats how i have grown to do things.
Its not like i had some massive heartache that made me lose my mind (not implying anything about the artist here, *cough cough*) its just after alot of thought about the matter this is what i ended up thinking.
And i can understand how you would think im telling him to become some apathetic hermit (which arguably might not be a bad thing for some, i think i would enjoy that life very well) but you also said "Sorry to sound cold hearted but then why continue living?" which is pretty much just saying "kill yourself then."
And i never said i dont feel love, in fact i said im all for "good emotions" but i dont want to allow them to sway my judgement. Falling in love with someone who wouldnt be good for me, for example.
As for respect, i respect peoples actions and stances, not if they are happy or sad. Its a bit of a problem explaining because the word "feel" implies emotion when you may not want it to. "I feel like this anatomy is off" as apposed to "I feel like crap" for example.
I respect that you stand by your beliefs but arent hard headed about them.
And like you, im not constantly acting the way i say i try to... I contemplate romantic relationships, i get angry when things dont go as i planned, i get sad when a friend is having problems. But the way i look at it, only the last one is worth paying attention to. Which goes to what you were saying about balancing the two extremes, some might think i shouldnt pick and choose what to feel and what to let flow by but thats how i have grown to do things.
Its not like i had some massive heartache that made me lose my mind (not implying anything about the artist here, *cough cough*) its just after alot of thought about the matter this is what i ended up thinking.
In your comment below you make the argument that life without emotions is no life at all. i dont see how there is no room for philosophical discussion there. Different people have different views on what constitutes a life worth living, different views on what constitutes human nature.
I would rather live as an "unfeeling machine" than end my life like a fool.
I would rather live as an "unfeeling machine" than end my life like a fool.
I'm sorry to hear that, Herr Samuel... I know I don't really know you that well, and this probably means very little, but I really do hope things get better for you, and you'll have reason to have a heart again. Until then, put it somewhere safe... you never know when you might need it... or find that little ray of sunshine in a cloudy world.
"You see, I feel sorrier for you than I do for him because you'll never know the things that love can drive a man to. The ecstasies, the miseries, the broken rules, the desperate chances, the glorious failures, the glorious victories. All of these things you'll never know simply because the word love isn't written into your book."
- McCoy, to Spock
- McCoy, to Spock
Sorry to sound cold hearted but then why continue living?
If you wish to feel no pain, etc, you are asking to be completely numb.
You become nothing more than a hollow human shell... an empty vessel... a husk.
Does that honestly sound like an ideal state of being to you?
Sorry but no matter how low I have been, I do not yield.
I take my time to grieve it from my system, I move on and end up stronger & wiser due to it...
...without shutting myself off or doing something as blind as tuning out from everything around me or what I feel.
Whether you realize it or not, what this piece of art is expressing comes with a very high price.
You really want to pay that toll?
If you do, be my guest.
But I would pray it wouldn't be too late to get a refund if you find out it's not what you want.
If you wish to feel no pain, etc, you are asking to be completely numb.
You become nothing more than a hollow human shell... an empty vessel... a husk.
Does that honestly sound like an ideal state of being to you?
Sorry but no matter how low I have been, I do not yield.
I take my time to grieve it from my system, I move on and end up stronger & wiser due to it...
...without shutting myself off or doing something as blind as tuning out from everything around me or what I feel.
Whether you realize it or not, what this piece of art is expressing comes with a very high price.
You really want to pay that toll?
If you do, be my guest.
But I would pray it wouldn't be too late to get a refund if you find out it's not what you want.
ummmm how about buck yourself up realize that you are a good person. If people arent liking or loving you then they dont deserve your friendship.
Find fun things to do that you know you enjoy computer games, drawing, WW2 army gear.
just take it easy and get back on track. You seriously dont want to go down the path you are about to start going. Ive been there its horrible.
Find fun things to do that you know you enjoy computer games, drawing, WW2 army gear.
just take it easy and get back on track. You seriously dont want to go down the path you are about to start going. Ive been there its horrible.
Would it make you happy that in my dream you stood outside my house with a megaphone and said "THIS IS THE PONY POLICE, WE HAVE YOU SURROUNDED." until i came outside? Because it's true. Hat and all. Weird dream(HOE DID YOU KNOW WHERE MY HOUSE WAS?!) and it was nifty.
Then i wake up, browse fa, and see you so upset D: *facecling* i'm sorry life can suck. :<
.....when life gets ya down, know whatcha gotta do?
Then i wake up, browse fa, and see you so upset D: *facecling* i'm sorry life can suck. :<
.....when life gets ya down, know whatcha gotta do?
I know exactly how you feel, it feels like you've poison some times, it burns and leaves a bitter taste in your mouth, your blood feels thick, your emotionally and physically tired and life just sets you off. People will call you heartless, but they should have listened when it mattered.
Hey there, from what I can gather, you and I are the same in that way.
What I've learned over time is that people who uses others will end up being used themselves, or karma will pay them back.
I bet right now everything is seeming to be crushing you under it's weight, but I believe your strong enough to step pass it all.
Don't let yourself give up, because if you do, as I was told once, you let others win over you.
What I've learned over time is that people who uses others will end up being used themselves, or karma will pay them back.
I bet right now everything is seeming to be crushing you under it's weight, but I believe your strong enough to step pass it all.
Don't let yourself give up, because if you do, as I was told once, you let others win over you.
I hope you cope , dude. I know how it feels. As a child i had a very tough life. I got through it though, and look at me now, I'm 20, have a nice little house, seargent in the army. So if you get through it, it will be alot better. Say "I AM SAMUEL, NOTHING AND NOBODY CAN CONQUER ME!!!!! Hope you are better!
This is where I have a bit of a stint.
First off, Emotions are NOT inherently bad! The world jsut displays them as a source of weakness. And as sad as it is, more people are willing to believe the world's ideal view than to define their own. I'm not sure what exactly triggered this with you, but I can almost gurantee that's the root of it.
As far as people "stepping all over you" I know how you feel. I didn't come out of it with a "hate-all" attitude though. Instead of saying "F@#$ emotions," I said, "F@#$ the world!" Seriously, most depression I see in people nowadays is because they're either not as popular as the media suggests they should be, not as accomplished as they think, or don't have the status that comes with a relationship. But who should be the one to define it? Surely not them!
...
... sorry if I'm rambling here, but I've talked with several friends and associates who have had the same problem. All seem to come to a simple core stereotype.
If you wanna chat about this in private, I got MSN and Skype.
First off, Emotions are NOT inherently bad! The world jsut displays them as a source of weakness. And as sad as it is, more people are willing to believe the world's ideal view than to define their own. I'm not sure what exactly triggered this with you, but I can almost gurantee that's the root of it.
As far as people "stepping all over you" I know how you feel. I didn't come out of it with a "hate-all" attitude though. Instead of saying "F@#$ emotions," I said, "F@#$ the world!" Seriously, most depression I see in people nowadays is because they're either not as popular as the media suggests they should be, not as accomplished as they think, or don't have the status that comes with a relationship. But who should be the one to define it? Surely not them!
...
... sorry if I'm rambling here, but I've talked with several friends and associates who have had the same problem. All seem to come to a simple core stereotype.
If you wanna chat about this in private, I got MSN and Skype.
It's cold but true, but it's not necessarily gotta be taken in a negative light, despite always needing to combat life, there is also the reprive, good food, good friends, and good times, one is fortunate if they can point to one person and know without a doubt they can trust them. I've been told I'm a cold calculating unopinionated bastard by my own family because of my opinion on certain things that should be done in my point of view for the homestead's wellbeing [among denying my sister's return and eventual resulting damage to the house since] and like many I dread my job but I take time to enjoy games, comedy clubs and dear god do I love good food, it's those small things that help me along in life, without those small things, I'd have lost my marbles long ago
Well I'm fairly dead emotionally speaking, but that's part of my fatalist views. Would the decision to be here instead of here change the outcome, or would life simply change the device which is meant to end you? Thus I figure, enjoy what you can. Though living in a state of fear anger or depression certainly isn't a good way to experience things. Let the wound heal and carry on as best you can, aye?
You're still young and have a life ahead of you. Pain doesn't vanish over night. Life is always a tricky construction, but keep in mind that every decision you take will have an influence on your next decision. You shouldn't take a rash decision while being blinded with pain. Take your time about your thoughts. You've got all the time in world for that.
you know what I do when I feel sad, I:
'just keep swimming, just keep swimming, swmming, swimming. . . "
But seriously I know little about relationships, cus no girl gives me a chance. I try so hard, but at the end of the day I end up like the germans at the battle of Britin; shot down.
'just keep swimming, just keep swimming, swmming, swimming. . . "
But seriously I know little about relationships, cus no girl gives me a chance. I try so hard, but at the end of the day I end up like the germans at the battle of Britin; shot down.
In my 20 years I've tried 5 times to follow through with this scene. So I feel you, here are three songs that may help if not try going on youtube and just listen to diffrent songs from the 70's.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdKjEHfHINQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVLFlkehGuU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gOCNxjMHSpc
After all life flows and so must we. Beside you've got great art skills, I would Maim for such an ability.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdKjEHfHINQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVLFlkehGuU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gOCNxjMHSpc
After all life flows and so must we. Beside you've got great art skills, I would Maim for such an ability.
You know looking at this I feel alot of emotion both negative and sadness. All I can say man life is a fucking bitch and like u said it will be here until ur last breath.. Unfortunatly I felt like this many times and just fucking had enough but eventually I finally say fuck it and move on and just hit it head on....Drawing for me sometimes in my release and what I feel is in each piece I draw. Which is exactly what u did here.. Of course uve probably heard that alot on the piece alone! Well anyway if u need anything man u know where my profile is! --Mitsi1991
It's fine to feel things, and the emotions are there for a reason. Especially anger, it's important, but sadly not subtle, and understanding why that feeling arises is a key step to getting what it causing the problem out of your life. Hurt, heartache, I can't help you there. I don't know why it's necessary to feel love backlash.
Anyhow, if it helps, most emotions are chemical reactions that last about a minute and a half. If they last longer, you're doing something to perpetuate it. Think about something else, do something else, breathe deeply and change locations.
I don't have a whole lot of uplifting things to say. Life will keep throwing the same problem at you till you learn to deal with it.
Anyhow, if it helps, most emotions are chemical reactions that last about a minute and a half. If they last longer, you're doing something to perpetuate it. Think about something else, do something else, breathe deeply and change locations.
I don't have a whole lot of uplifting things to say. Life will keep throwing the same problem at you till you learn to deal with it.
first of all, gerat drawing
but some really sad background :O i know life can be really hard sometimes :/ i think everybody goes through this in their life, but the sun will shine again :) you just need some patiance :hug: this will get better sooner or later <3 life has his hights and deeps like a rollercoaster and after every downhill ride come better times :)
if you need to talk to someone i´m always there for you <3
but some really sad background :O i know life can be really hard sometimes :/ i think everybody goes through this in their life, but the sun will shine again :) you just need some patiance :hug: this will get better sooner or later <3 life has his hights and deeps like a rollercoaster and after every downhill ride come better times :)
if you need to talk to someone i´m always there for you <3
The sad truth is the world is a f****d up place it may seem like every ones just out to tear you apart and throw you in a ditch the thing is though it's not those things you need to worry about its the people and things that do matter dwelling and wallowing in a pit of your despair never solved any problems won any battles so on etc.
My point is emotions define us all. Who we are don't let others destroy who you are.
I was hit by a car while riding my bike home woke up in the hospital but I got back up and brushed it off like nothing.
my final point is your only beaten if you refuse to keep fighting for your right to be happy.
My point is emotions define us all. Who we are don't let others destroy who you are.
I was hit by a car while riding my bike home woke up in the hospital but I got back up and brushed it off like nothing.
my final point is your only beaten if you refuse to keep fighting for your right to be happy.
A little late to the party but I understand. But I'm one of those resilient types. Smiling and gladly carving my heart into pieces for the sake of others. My last year of ridiculous crap was for once enough to get me down for awhile, but Furry Fiesta recharged me.
I'm not tough or superman. I'm not braniac or uber mature (well, who knows lol). But I've just learned to concentrate on whats important and handle the bad while dwelling on it as little as possible. Whether it be kind words of a friend, chilling with people online, a convention, the GOOD family that you have, etc. There are so many good things you could be doing instead of being an emotional, drained, heap that wants to do nothing but mope and cry into your bed. Or wants to cast off emotion, which I feel is denial of negative emotion. I've been there.
Life gets bad, it gets ugly, it gets stupid ugly sometimes. But the good is always there too, we just stop seeing it when we get focused on the bad. Even worse we become part of the problem, creating less good for ourselves, preventing less bad, and even creating our own bad unintentionally and unknowingly.
You've got a full page of random people who cared enough to lend an ear and a word right here alone. *hugs* hang in there and do your best to appreciate what you still have and strive to prevent the bad and create/experience more good. You'd be amazed how much perception, mind set, and perspective alone changes things :). But still, even without that. *hugs hugs hugs* again :3
I'm not tough or superman. I'm not braniac or uber mature (well, who knows lol). But I've just learned to concentrate on whats important and handle the bad while dwelling on it as little as possible. Whether it be kind words of a friend, chilling with people online, a convention, the GOOD family that you have, etc. There are so many good things you could be doing instead of being an emotional, drained, heap that wants to do nothing but mope and cry into your bed. Or wants to cast off emotion, which I feel is denial of negative emotion. I've been there.
Life gets bad, it gets ugly, it gets stupid ugly sometimes. But the good is always there too, we just stop seeing it when we get focused on the bad. Even worse we become part of the problem, creating less good for ourselves, preventing less bad, and even creating our own bad unintentionally and unknowingly.
You've got a full page of random people who cared enough to lend an ear and a word right here alone. *hugs* hang in there and do your best to appreciate what you still have and strive to prevent the bad and create/experience more good. You'd be amazed how much perception, mind set, and perspective alone changes things :). But still, even without that. *hugs hugs hugs* again :3
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