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Yes, that is correct. And I think it's a fitting description: Proud, Padded, and Perfectly Me!
I know had already uploaded this, I'm reuploading it again, for certain reasons.
Another addition that I'm sneaking in out of the planned upload order.
It's not Pride month and but it is a picture that I wanted to have for a quite a while, but never actually came around to commissioning.
And then one of my favorite artists,
brownpanda , opened slots for those kind of themed pictures (not YCH, just Pride themed pictures) and I snagged one, a couple of months ago.
So the obvious, I am but a kidfur and partially a Diaperfur. Or at least a grown-up padded für
So if you have a problem with Babyfurs, Kidfurs and Diaperfurs: Either stay away or Deal...with...it... And put your hateful comments where the sun never shines!
And, of course, I stand with my big LGBTQIA+ family!
With a new addition!
Because I recently discovered that I'm not only pansexual, but also asexual.
I also realized that being asexual and being kinky is not mutually exclusive.
Seriously, realizing my asexual side helped me a lot and some puzzle pieces fell into the right places.
And I understand why I feel what I feel and why I (over-)reacted the way I did.
Lucky for me ... I also have the most amazing partner
kuraiko who fully supports me.
So I asked the lovely artist if she would make some edits to the original picture, which she did. Thanks you very much!
And I love how that one came out. It's the perfect mix of being proud, having confidence, being determined not to back down from anything ... but also a big load of comfort, safety and love. Also that soft looking hoodie, the big blanket flag and comfy bandana are lovely.
And it is awesome that the artist added Sammy as an extra dose of all those thing...and Sammy is even sporting an asexual button, to show support of his big padded bearkitty.
Thank you very much!
I know had already uploaded this, I'm reuploading it again, for certain reasons.
Another addition that I'm sneaking in out of the planned upload order.
It's not Pride month and but it is a picture that I wanted to have for a quite a while, but never actually came around to commissioning.
And then one of my favorite artists,
brownpanda , opened slots for those kind of themed pictures (not YCH, just Pride themed pictures) and I snagged one, a couple of months ago.So the obvious, I am but a kidfur and partially a Diaperfur. Or at least a grown-up padded für
So if you have a problem with Babyfurs, Kidfurs and Diaperfurs: Either stay away or Deal...with...it... And put your hateful comments where the sun never shines!
And, of course, I stand with my big LGBTQIA+ family!
With a new addition!
Because I recently discovered that I'm not only pansexual, but also asexual.
I also realized that being asexual and being kinky is not mutually exclusive.
Seriously, realizing my asexual side helped me a lot and some puzzle pieces fell into the right places.
And I understand why I feel what I feel and why I (over-)reacted the way I did.
Lucky for me ... I also have the most amazing partner
kuraiko who fully supports me.So I asked the lovely artist if she would make some edits to the original picture, which she did. Thanks you very much!
And I love how that one came out. It's the perfect mix of being proud, having confidence, being determined not to back down from anything ... but also a big load of comfort, safety and love. Also that soft looking hoodie, the big blanket flag and comfy bandana are lovely.
And it is awesome that the artist added Sammy as an extra dose of all those thing...and Sammy is even sporting an asexual button, to show support of his big padded bearkitty.
Thank you very much!
Category Artwork (Digital) / ABDL
Species Bear (Other)
Size 842 x 1200px
File Size 477.2 kB
Welcome to the ace club! Oddly enough it seems to be one of the harder self-discoveries to accept and almost have to reconcile with or validate within the scope of being interested in kink and the like, and being in a fandom as sexually active as this one, there's an underlying subconscious assumption in the fandom, I think, that everyone is just okay with whatever (like a default assumption of pansexuality instead of heterosexuality like wider society), and so you can feel like, "well, surely if Im into kink thats often associated with sex, that must mean Im also fine with the sex itself, right?"
But, nope, its not always like that, and it can come as a difficult (even shocking) surprise to yourself and others around you, especially in reacting so viscerally to sexual contact in a way you yourself didnt expect, so it requires a long road of introspection and identity-molding to be able to internally accept and embrace this new aspect of yourself that, initially, seemed so contradictory to everything else about yourself, even it isnt actually
But Im just rambling, and a lot of it is just my own experiences, but thats to say that, even if this is literally the first time Im commenting and the first time youve ever learned of my existence at all, I as a random outside observing stranger, as someone who's also gone through the process of recognizing my asexuality, Im proud of you :3
But, nope, its not always like that, and it can come as a difficult (even shocking) surprise to yourself and others around you, especially in reacting so viscerally to sexual contact in a way you yourself didnt expect, so it requires a long road of introspection and identity-molding to be able to internally accept and embrace this new aspect of yourself that, initially, seemed so contradictory to everything else about yourself, even it isnt actually
But Im just rambling, and a lot of it is just my own experiences, but thats to say that, even if this is literally the first time Im commenting and the first time youve ever learned of my existence at all, I as a random outside observing stranger, as someone who's also gone through the process of recognizing my asexuality, Im proud of you :3
It took me several months to come to terms with it, understand it myself and then find the words to explain it to my partner.
Including that whole kinky vs sex thing, which took me a bit to explain correctly. That I am certainly one thing and enjoying that (just in a different way), but without needing the other.
And he understood me, processed it and now stands firmly behind me, supports me and is happy that I am comfortable with myself and my feelings.
Which took away a big worry.
And it just feels ... right and that is amazing. Funny that I had to be almost 30 to realize that I am not straight, more years to understand that I was pan and not bi... and then, with 47, realizing that what felt weird all the time, was just me being on the asexual spectrum.
And thank you for you message! Yes, you popped up in my feed for the first time every... but that doesn't take anything away from you message, from what you described from your own experience and your words of support.
You have my heartfelt thanks for that!
Including that whole kinky vs sex thing, which took me a bit to explain correctly. That I am certainly one thing and enjoying that (just in a different way), but without needing the other.
And he understood me, processed it and now stands firmly behind me, supports me and is happy that I am comfortable with myself and my feelings.
Which took away a big worry.
And it just feels ... right and that is amazing. Funny that I had to be almost 30 to realize that I am not straight, more years to understand that I was pan and not bi... and then, with 47, realizing that what felt weird all the time, was just me being on the asexual spectrum.
And thank you for you message! Yes, you popped up in my feed for the first time every... but that doesn't take anything away from you message, from what you described from your own experience and your words of support.
You have my heartfelt thanks for that!
Aye, everybody goes at their own pace depending on a whole slew of factors within each individual life path, I know retirees who only got the chance to really introspect about their gender or sexuality after finally being away from work. As for me, it also took me several months, at least three semesters worth, plus an identity crisis along the way, to fully come to terms with my own asexuality. I cant really say much on the duration of acceptance of my plethora of other queer identities since, well, to put it vaguely for the sake of safety (cuz Im paranoid like that), Im hovering at around half your age, so not nearly the same amount of time had to mull over all the other labels. But, Im sure Ill have plenty of other revelations in the future, just as you have.
Do take care! And adorable art as always, Minette does incredible work, and a BIG shoutout to your partner as well for being so cool :3
Do take care! And adorable art as always, Minette does incredible work, and a BIG shoutout to your partner as well for being so cool :3
Thank you again for your encouraging words and support! And I also wish you all the best on your continuous journey through your life and I hope it will be a great one!
And I agree, Minette doea great work, no matter if it's my Kid Sona or my grown up, I always love coming back to her.
And if course I agree with you on my partner.
He accepted it right away, asked a little time to process it (which is fair!), wrapped his head around the idea quickly...and was supportive from the start and I we both think we can make this work beautifully ^^
And I agree, Minette doea great work, no matter if it's my Kid Sona or my grown up, I always love coming back to her.
And if course I agree with you on my partner.
He accepted it right away, asked a little time to process it (which is fair!), wrapped his head around the idea quickly...and was supportive from the start and I we both think we can make this work beautifully ^^
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