So I don't talk with my family a whole lot nowadays (my parents definitely had a problem with the whole 'ABDL' thing), but we're still cordial enough to talk a few times a year. No visits though; they live several states away and that suits me just fine. I'm also not a real fan of the holidays either; seasonal depression or something along those lines. They'll usually send me some cookies and gift cards around Christmastime, but my sister sent a card along as well. It's just a standard card off the shelf, except for this little drawing she included inside.
Now, I don't talk with my sister too much, but we still have lines of contact with each other. She still lives with my parents and (to my knowledge) doesn't know about any of my kinks or quirks. I haven't even talked to her about being a furry either; the most she would've ever seen of my work is whatever I set my Discord and Steam pictures to be. Yet, here we are- a cute little doodle of my Neo Bunny in a holiday card.
What would my life have been like if my parents were just a bit more open-minded and my mom wasn't so quick to try and send me to psychiatrists to 'fix' me or threaten to send me away for good? What would it have been like to still hold a close bond with my family instead of breaking away in a move born of self-preservation? I don't know for certain, but I'm glad there's still someone there that I can share a connection with, as faint as it may be. I'm glad my sister has continued to draw and improve; it's a real inspiration for me to keep going too.
Now, I don't talk with my sister too much, but we still have lines of contact with each other. She still lives with my parents and (to my knowledge) doesn't know about any of my kinks or quirks. I haven't even talked to her about being a furry either; the most she would've ever seen of my work is whatever I set my Discord and Steam pictures to be. Yet, here we are- a cute little doodle of my Neo Bunny in a holiday card.
What would my life have been like if my parents were just a bit more open-minded and my mom wasn't so quick to try and send me to psychiatrists to 'fix' me or threaten to send me away for good? What would it have been like to still hold a close bond with my family instead of breaking away in a move born of self-preservation? I don't know for certain, but I'm glad there's still someone there that I can share a connection with, as faint as it may be. I'm glad my sister has continued to draw and improve; it's a real inspiration for me to keep going too.
Category Artwork (Traditional) / All
Species Rabbit / Hare
Size 2000 x 1400px
File Size 2.31 MB
thats the question isnt it? What could things be like if more people had parents that had compassion and understanding. I don't understand how you can either birth or raise something from its infancy and when conflicts arise become so estranged and mad at the kid you just ship em off like ruby frank did (weird abusive mom youtuber who sent her kid to some sort of camp for bad kids) I've known some people for 5 years and I've had blowout arguments or decisions that i dont agree with they've made but im still there. It's so easy.
I really pity some people, to look at a young kid as your enemy. Thats how those types of parental dynamics feel.
its kinda sad, you grow up with this idea your supposed to learn, forgive, forget and move on. I can write a thousand pages worth of terrible shit my mom has done and been completely forgiven for by my family
but when I and my oldest brother made mistakes, we were pretty much thrown to the wolves. At the end of the day it seems like less and less people our age are dealing with it. I'm so glad to see it, theres this like group on fb for parents whos kids hate them for being toxic and the amount of self pity and hypocritical shit that is posted on there is c r a z y.
I really pity some people, to look at a young kid as your enemy. Thats how those types of parental dynamics feel.
its kinda sad, you grow up with this idea your supposed to learn, forgive, forget and move on. I can write a thousand pages worth of terrible shit my mom has done and been completely forgiven for by my family
but when I and my oldest brother made mistakes, we were pretty much thrown to the wolves. At the end of the day it seems like less and less people our age are dealing with it. I'm so glad to see it, theres this like group on fb for parents whos kids hate them for being toxic and the amount of self pity and hypocritical shit that is posted on there is c r a z y.
ALSO, parents whoa constantly lecture us about how they were different, why are we do so difficult, why cant we just have money or not struggle emotionally. it really feels liketheres this huge disconnect between boomers and us.
all we need is one person in our corner and you'd think it'd be parents but having kids is an obligation to them, when they turn 18 boot em. Its genuinely like they feel nothing towards their kids
all we need is one person in our corner and you'd think it'd be parents but having kids is an obligation to them, when they turn 18 boot em. Its genuinely like they feel nothing towards their kids
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