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Yesterday I had a very difficult conversation with my mom, about my wish to wear diapers. She told me other people would start bully me if they were to see me in a diaper, and scream at me that I'm being a little kid. I responded to her that that's exactly what sites like FurAffinity are for -- to share wishes and deep artworks with people who are into the same things, without other outsiders putting a metaphorical stamp on your forehead. Let ABDL's and DL's live their lives, dang it. The conversation with my mum hit hard after she started ranting about me possibly being dirty after I would wear a diaper. I'm not wearing diapers, but I want to. I want to see a society where ABDL's are being accepted in a similar way to how some arguably way more intense types of groups are being viewed, such as gay people. I see literally NO ONE making a fuss over men who fall in love with other men, so why is ABDL so wrong all of a sudden? For the record -- I'm not at all against gay people. Let them do the things they want to do with their significant other. Let them be them. But also let Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers be the way they want to be. I know these types of people are two totally different groups, but they shouldn't be viewed differently in a sense that one group is to be accepted by society and the other isn't. ...or isn't yet.
I just want to be myself, dang it. Without people putting a stamp on me. Wearing diapers is far from the worst thing people can do. I think it's so incredibly weird that ''normal'' people in society group (AB)DL people in with people that those ABDL people don't even WANT to talk to or be compared to. Pedophiles and Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers are two TOTALLY different things, people! Don't get these two things mixed up! I just want to find a group of people I can fit in, and make a movement of people that can prove diaper wearing isn't at all the sexual and unappropriate activity outside people make it out to be. There's a certain stigma that just refuses to leave the ABDL community alone, and I'm quite sick of people judging us Diaper Lovers all the time, just because we're doing certain things that are not viewed as ''normal''. ''Normal'', can mean something for one person, but something completely different for another, and I'm baffled that there are still so many folks who don't understand that. We don't live in the early 2010's anymore, guys. ABDL is a certified community concept now. Live with it, or at least don't stick your nose into things you don't even like with the only reason being that you have already formed a hard-boiled opinion about it all.
I just want to be myself, dang it. Without people putting a stamp on me. Wearing diapers is far from the worst thing people can do. I think it's so incredibly weird that ''normal'' people in society group (AB)DL people in with people that those ABDL people don't even WANT to talk to or be compared to. Pedophiles and Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers are two TOTALLY different things, people! Don't get these two things mixed up! I just want to find a group of people I can fit in, and make a movement of people that can prove diaper wearing isn't at all the sexual and unappropriate activity outside people make it out to be. There's a certain stigma that just refuses to leave the ABDL community alone, and I'm quite sick of people judging us Diaper Lovers all the time, just because we're doing certain things that are not viewed as ''normal''. ''Normal'', can mean something for one person, but something completely different for another, and I'm baffled that there are still so many folks who don't understand that. We don't live in the early 2010's anymore, guys. ABDL is a certified community concept now. Live with it, or at least don't stick your nose into things you don't even like with the only reason being that you have already formed a hard-boiled opinion about it all.
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Thank you very much, GreenPain! I'm feeling better now, but at the point of writing this comment, I have yet to solve something with my mom. Namely tomorrow there will be a coach who I see every Thursday and we'll have a chat about the ABDL topic, both with my mom at home and between my coach and me when we're having a walk in the dunes we often visit via a car ride.
Ehh... no, it's more like someone who visits us every week with the goal of giving me a healthy, sport-based activity for that day, since my parents don't like it if I would use my computer all day and don't do anything else in that period. I'm not at all against outside activities, I really like walking in the dunes, and cycling and stuff! The area around here is really beautiful!
I am so sorry you had to go through this Lay just so you know, you're not alone there are a lot of people that do not understand or accept the aspect and realize that wearing diapers is not bad. Everyone looks at it in a negative way. They all think of it as a sexual fetish or a mental health issue. Well they don't look deeper into a person and really try to figure out why and a lot of us have had a terrible past or life as a young child or a baby. Growing up was not the greatest for a lot of users me, especially and sometimes certain things help us get through life everyday. I mean there are way way worse things out there to be into
example ( drugs, alcohol, etc) The list goes on but besides the point people usually think diapers are just for babies, but some of us have had some traumatizing experiences growing up. So diapers is one thing that is a escape from reality and helps us calm ourselves and its a comfort item for some And let's not forget the responsibilities of the real world out. There are very controlling they push us to the limit. Tell us how to do things and to escape reality. Sometimes we have to unlock our inner child. Believe me I go through really stressful situations every single day. My mom still doesn't understand why I want to wear diapers even with my health issues as well. She still doesn't get it. She's tried to have me talk to her a couple of counselors but they're no help either and they still don't get it and she asks me all the time. Are you ever going to give this up or outgrow it well probably not. I have been into diapers ever since I was 6-7 years old as far back as I can remember when I was a kid and honestly I see nothing wrong with them. I'm sorry you had to go through this. Just so you know you're not alone, I'm always here The world is filled with people that will judge you turn you away. Tear you down. That's just the way. Society is sadly enough, but you know here there are lots of people here that will accept you for who you are. I'm not one to judge. If you ever need to talk or chat, you know where to find me * gives hugs to you*
example ( drugs, alcohol, etc) The list goes on but besides the point people usually think diapers are just for babies, but some of us have had some traumatizing experiences growing up. So diapers is one thing that is a escape from reality and helps us calm ourselves and its a comfort item for some And let's not forget the responsibilities of the real world out. There are very controlling they push us to the limit. Tell us how to do things and to escape reality. Sometimes we have to unlock our inner child. Believe me I go through really stressful situations every single day. My mom still doesn't understand why I want to wear diapers even with my health issues as well. She still doesn't get it. She's tried to have me talk to her a couple of counselors but they're no help either and they still don't get it and she asks me all the time. Are you ever going to give this up or outgrow it well probably not. I have been into diapers ever since I was 6-7 years old as far back as I can remember when I was a kid and honestly I see nothing wrong with them. I'm sorry you had to go through this. Just so you know you're not alone, I'm always here The world is filled with people that will judge you turn you away. Tear you down. That's just the way. Society is sadly enough, but you know here there are lots of people here that will accept you for who you are. I'm not one to judge. If you ever need to talk or chat, you know where to find me * gives hugs to you*
Thank you so much, Marry. I'm aware that it has been a couple days since I uploaded this picture now, but your comments though quite long are really helping me out. It shows me there are lots of other people who wear diapers, be it because of physical reasons or just to relax. I'm aware you have a condition and I'm not at all judging you for it, that's just part of who you are. I'm really disappointed about the fact that we can't meet each other in real-life since we're so far away (I'm all the way from the Netherlands, and you live... somewhere in the USA if I'm not mistaken?), but sites like FurAffinity allows people like us and many others to still sort of communicate with each other, and that is awesome.
You're welcome! Lay I do apologize if my comments are quite long, but I'm saying what I think and what comes from the heart and I appreciate you understanding my medical condition
It is sad and disappointing. We can't actually meet in real life ( and you are correct, I do live in the USA, the western part of the USA)
And I totally agree. Fa is a wonderful place, even if they have some unreasonable unjustifiable and absurd rules. But at least we can communicate, which is brilliant and it's nice to be here because I can find so many people that have likes for diapers and have so much in common with me which makes life so much easier. And I don't have to worry about being judged for who I am. I feel welcomed here and I feel I will not be turned away
It is sad and disappointing. We can't actually meet in real life ( and you are correct, I do live in the USA, the western part of the USA)
And I totally agree. Fa is a wonderful place, even if they have some unreasonable unjustifiable and absurd rules. But at least we can communicate, which is brilliant and it's nice to be here because I can find so many people that have likes for diapers and have so much in common with me which makes life so much easier. And I don't have to worry about being judged for who I am. I feel welcomed here and I feel I will not be turned away
Thank you for your kind words, and I also feel for you. I can speak from experience that I've had situations like the one you described here as well, though not the thing about persons outside my friend group. It's confound to only my family and the potential coach or two. There's one coach in particular that really understands my wish to wear diapers and is all for it, but we both know that if he'd allow me to wear diapers, he could get into trouble with my parents.
But I'm grateful that we have fandom sites like FurAffinity to let our imaginations and desires flow. FA is a place where no one will judge us, whatever interests we may have.
But I'm grateful that we have fandom sites like FurAffinity to let our imaginations and desires flow. FA is a place where no one will judge us, whatever interests we may have.
as a queer person, I definitely want to be allies with people in abdl groups since both groups are treated similarly - accused of being predators, as if we are only deviant hypersexual beings. I know that just isn't true.
Though I personally wouldn't say it's really acceptable to be gay / queer still (corporations trick people into thinking this exists through their PR strategies and manipulation of mass media... same with how they fake being accepting of people with disabilities; it's usually fairly shallow and performative kinds of inclusion if any at all, nothing to be envious of sadly).
I'm visually impaired so I have less things to do in my life, I have to avoid strobes so I can't play a lot of games or watch movies with everyone else. So I find myself reading a lot of things online including age regression and diaper play or really anything i come across. I read it all. It's cool stuff, I love the ability to go to another, happier place where you can be vulnerable and experiment with various ranges of emotions and sensory experiences.
Anyways, I think it's really courageous that you started that conversation with your mom, and though I am sorry it didn't turn out the way you may have wanted, I gotta commend you on your bravery. Screw being normal and screw conforming to arbitrary standards! I agree, let people live!
Though I personally wouldn't say it's really acceptable to be gay / queer still (corporations trick people into thinking this exists through their PR strategies and manipulation of mass media... same with how they fake being accepting of people with disabilities; it's usually fairly shallow and performative kinds of inclusion if any at all, nothing to be envious of sadly).
I'm visually impaired so I have less things to do in my life, I have to avoid strobes so I can't play a lot of games or watch movies with everyone else. So I find myself reading a lot of things online including age regression and diaper play or really anything i come across. I read it all. It's cool stuff, I love the ability to go to another, happier place where you can be vulnerable and experiment with various ranges of emotions and sensory experiences.
Anyways, I think it's really courageous that you started that conversation with your mom, and though I am sorry it didn't turn out the way you may have wanted, I gotta commend you on your bravery. Screw being normal and screw conforming to arbitrary standards! I agree, let people live!
Wow, that's a very nice and uplifting comment! Thank you! It's going better, but there are those moments where I still feel hurt because of not getting to be who I really want to be. But those moments are an exception rather than a usual experience, fortunately.
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