If they're ungrateful, it's time to leave and focus on yourself.

I have tried to leave, but it is difficult because of the country where I live and even more because I live in a village where the rent of a house is too exaggerated... However, Im still looking.

Start withholding the money if they aren't going to treat you wish respect. It is unfortunate this is happening to you.

Be strong, and persevere. All darkness requires light to exist....be brighter than the darkness surrounding you. Push back against it, and stand your ground.

It's time to stop letting others walk all over you....and the more you allow it to happen, the more it will happen.

Help your home, but don't give them more than what is absolutely needed. If they want things, they can earn it, just like everyone else.

You got this.

Ive tried to do it, but it's difficult because in spite of that I still love them, even if it seems like I dont, my mother has become inconsiderate and victimizing, my father doesn't care about anything and my sister only gets me into more debt and trouble, and if I don't do what they tell me, they start attacking me saying I'm the bad guy or make me feel like the worst person in the world...

Sometimes I think that the best thing to do is to leave suddenly and from then on they will never hear from me again.

The worst of all, is that I took July to rest or vacation, and more than vacation was more of the same, I had to accept other commissions to be able to have money because oh well... more debts to pay that are not mine.

And what I can say is that you're giving it because of that love. Do not. No matter what they tell you, no matter how much they berate you, you *need* to stand and resolutely say "No." It's hard....but until you do it will never end.

I’m not good at picking words for support, and I don’t have the right to say I understand you.

So I’ll just wish you strength and patience to find the solution that works for you—after all, you’re the most important person to yourself :3

Thank you so much, I appreciate it 🥹

wish i knew what to say to help you feel better

its okay dont worry, thanks for your concern

wish i knew what to say to help
I’ll just wish you strength to find the solution

If you must be the bad guy, then be the bad guy. The role of the villain isn't one you chose, but since the choices are be a silent victim or done the mask of villainy, do so. They have no right to complain if they cannot do for themselves. Don't destroy yourself to appease ungrateful masses. If you love them, you must do so to force them to see the price of their actions and weakness of their dependency. Always remember, love can be poison.