Its a tough thing to go though. From what I understand most relationships that happen while transissioning don't last. I don't know how much truth there is to that but Mine didn't and most Trannies I know had similar issues. I wish you the best though. Its a really hard road to walk down.

:'3 Yeah, I didn't think it would end up lasting. </3 Ah well, gotta move on, and maybe find someone who will love me through and through.

Thanks. It's gonna be hard to break this to my mom. *my dad can go to hell, Idc if he has issues*

No offence but they're a douche if they don't understand your transgender issues. Dump them. They don't really love you for you.

It's hard to understand when you're not the person going through it. And yeah, dumping him cause I just don't see this working out. X'D

That's ridiculous. I can't believe someone would threaten to leave you if you chose to suppress being yourself!
You're better off, my dear. I wish you all the happiness in the world, and I'm sure you'll find everything you desire now that you're more comfortable with your gender.
Switching genders can be extremely confusing with the societal expectations placed upon us at birth.
Though I haven't done it myself, I've been a therapist for those who have during my 4 years as GSA president, and during my group sessions at the local youth center. If you need help, or just want to chat, feel free to note me. <3

didn't choose to suppress yourself*
Ragefit made me typo. xD

Meh, it is a hard thing to accept. He's a great guy, but he honestly would be creeped out by the switch.

I've always known I was guyish, it took me a few years to finally get fed up with gender roles in society, and having to deal with my body. OTL

Thanks, I might note you later. When it's not so cursed late where I am. XD *should be in bed*

Well, I'm always here if you need an ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on. :3

-hands collar wit a lightning bolt on it- i be a good freind and help.be yourself. ive know how yah feel -hugs- -shows my collar with lightning bolt on it too-

:'3 Thanks Chibie.

np ^^

I can see where it would be hard to accept that their other wants to switch genders when they've come to love the gender you are. In the end of it all, you being happy is what should matter. Even if others assume, "You need to just suck it up and live with the fact, you can't always have your way. You're with a great guy. So learn to live with it." they aren't walking in your shoes and living with what is going on through your head everyday. I can't begin to imagine what its like to have your mind acting like a different gender then what your mind wants it to be. -hug- Keep hanging in there...and if it comes to you having to split, I hope that you two can at least leave off on good terms. It would be sad to see you hurt by something that could come back to hurt your decision.