That's fucking awful. I'm sorry this has happened to you and in your server.

Dam the rabbit hole goes deeper and deeper.

That freakish lowlife doesn't deserve to be spoken under the title of "shiny umbreon" That thing
only deserves to be titled "scum" :)

Damn, now I'm just realizing I too was a potential target, cause the 'goldyura' acted the exact same way to me when they first messaged me: somewhat friendly, quickly devolved to lewd, the n dipped without another word.

Thankfully it never led to anything further, and that's a bullet I dodged without realizing.

I'm super shocked on how many people have been impacted by this individual. Like the number is too big to count...

Well, rest assured, I'm thankfully not involved any further than the brief interaction I had with them, plus I hold no ill will towards you about any of this. Hell, I'm just sad for you that you gotta deal with all this BS. You poor lil' dragon ; ~ ;

-head pat -

after he had been kicked out of your circle he somehow managed to find his way into the circle of a friend of mine becoming a mod in his server as well. this exposing has completely shattered my friend's trust in him and he's been scrubbed entirely from the server

This is awful. I feel bad for you. As someone who is new to being 18, I hope to never encounter this person.

I did some bad things before, but not as awful as this. Holy shit.

You're massive for coming towards with this, stay safe ;_; I hope this behavior is a pattern for some people to catch on !!

Yikes

I go by Shiny Umbreon, and let me tell you, this scared this shit out of me until I remembered I would rather drive off of an overpass than ever commission stuff like that lol

this is all really extremely gross and it annoys me how people can be like this, iv had an old friend get art of us doing nsfw stuff without my consent to try to get between me and my bf.
not only did they hurt us both but also the artist felt so guilty after finding out what they just did as they had no idea.

I really realllllly f*ing dislike people who have this super friendly aura around them that also has a lewd side that they keep throwing casually and jokingly at people cuz it causes me to be so paranoid cuz iv seen how they get so nasty when you dont respond to their lewd attempts the way they want to, they get passive aggressive n go around just trying to get tell people that you were rude to them or whatever to get them against you in this gross sick manipulative way.
Or that they'd try to gaslight you into thinking that you need to say yes cuz thats what you want and its something "deep inside" you wanna do n blames your cultural/traditional upbringing for your doubts

I just cant really believe that people that are this shitty exists in such large amounts

Am sorry about all of this happening to you and all of what happened before.

I think we all have a lewd side and those that are friendly should also be seen as they have it too. There's friendly people and then there's too friendly. The worst part is having something like this happen to you, and it boils down to people not respecting you as in its only a means to an end for their friendliness, and it's wrong for people to get between you and an SO like that. There's a lot of selfish people that balance out the selfless ones. We're more at times to get hurt by close people at times, but I guess it shows that there's an alarming number of people like that around here, and it's kinda scary.

i didnt mean that anyone that is lewd is bad cuz im an adult too n obviously within the same nature
i meant that it scares me to think about why would they even say such things to me and how would they react if i turn them down cuz i get too anxious n paranoid about it at this point.
almost making me wanna go with it just to not make them feel bad.

Oh I get what you mean. It's just something to remember and it's kinda sad that in most cases everyone has to second guess someone being nice if there's not something ulterior for it. It comes down to what they say here on the whole respecting boundaries and friends will. You shouldn't worry yourself to death on it, and while your situation could give you PTSD by itself. I know it would for me if someone tried to get between me and an SO it would give me a reason to be paranoid too.

I think the hardest thing for anyone is you have to stick to your guns and tell people no. When you are a kind person you don't want to hurt anyone and make them happy, but above all else YOU have to be happy too. I think people forget that one.

This sort of thing makes me beyond uncomfortable. Some people I've had the misfortune of getting to know in the fandom throughout the years have made me acutely aware of how hard I find it to stand my ground, especially when they make an intentional effort to poke holes in boundaries I set up to protect myself, and leaving me with years worth of guilt.

It's one of the reasons why I specifically don't list that I'm actually on the spectrum. Because I fear that my lessened ability to recognize lying and manipulation, combined with an innate desire to please everyone around me will inevitably result in more disreputable people reaching out to get something out of me.

Idk, maybe I'm just rambling nonsense now. But all of this has just resulted in me finding it harder to deal with people in general, not to mention meeting new ones. Looking back I probably could have used someone to tell me what you have stated here: that real friends will simply respect your boundaries.

Sounds like several people I know. Damn manipulators.

I personally hope karma gets these creeps in the end. I'm sorry you and the people on your Discord had to deal with this.

I am so sorry this has happened to you, people really need to grow up.

感觉有点可怕，最近要注意休息xwx（Google translation：Feel a little scared, recently take care of rest）