I'm a bigger person. I'm trying to loose the weight. Part of it's for health and part of it's because I honestly don't find my weight attractive. The one thing I most tired of is people telling me that "oh you're beautiful the way you are". I disagree. Not because of my weight. But because of my mind set.
If I was happy and confident w...ith the weight I was at. I'd be beautiful. But I'm not confident and happy with my body. To me. True beauty is confidence in ones self.