See, ever since that day in GSA when my friend mentioned Polyamory, I've been wondering about myself. Many of my relationships have ended with my falling for someone outside of the relationship and feeling terrible about it. Maybe I'm greedy, a thought that haunts me much of the time, or maybe it's something else. Maybe my love isn't something that gets divided every time I meet someone new and amazing, but instead expands to surround that new person. I surround myself with wonderful people that I care about. Is it so wrong to love more than one person? Please don't be harsh. I'm being honest about my life here, not just fucking around. This is the best way I could visualize what I feel.
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Makes absolute perfect sense to me. :3
I have a lot of people that I share my love with.<3
Though there's only one girl I can truely, fully give myself to and belong to. I am still her's at the end of the day and she knows that and I know that.
So there's nothing wrong with loving others as well.
You can only truely, purely give yourself once, but love can be given freely.<3
I have a lot of people that I share my love with.<3
Though there's only one girl I can truely, fully give myself to and belong to. I am still her's at the end of the day and she knows that and I know that.
So there's nothing wrong with loving others as well.
You can only truely, purely give yourself once, but love can be given freely.<3
I lived my life feeling terrible that I loved at least one other person than the one I was dating at the time, but then I met the guy I'm with now, and he told me I should know it's possible to love more than one person at the same time, and love EACH them with your WHOLE heart. I still think that my love is boundless yet divided, rather than the other kind, but I respect his outlook on life and I have come to the conclusion that everyone has to personally decide what they believe in, whether than means changing to someone else's idea or keeping your own.
my boyfriend would be the same way...he just doesnt know that i like other guys too...it would break his heart...
he lost quite a few girlfriends in the past because they dumped him for someone else...
but i know in my heart that i love him more than anything else in the world, and nothing can change that!
and i agree with RienKarrot, just tell him that you love him MORE than the others!...thats what i would do^^
he lost quite a few girlfriends in the past because they dumped him for someone else...
but i know in my heart that i love him more than anything else in the world, and nothing can change that!
and i agree with RienKarrot, just tell him that you love him MORE than the others!...thats what i would do^^
it's fine to love more than one person sweetie, but its not ok to keep it a secret. especially if you love him that much... it's hard to help him understand that he's got nothing to worry about, but honesty and open communication are necessary for a relationship. it's like this, if this is someone you might want to share your life with, then you've got to let them into your life. my mate and i have had some troubles, but the only way to work through them is with honesty and a lot of talking.
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