a self-therapy doodle and uhm. announcement? i guess?
I hope it makes sense;;
and that you guys like he/him kira ;a;
I hope it makes sense;;
and that you guys like he/him kira ;a;
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*thumbs up and support*
People are always changing, especially because of the people around them. So right now, you're at the current you, but the next you may be around the corner. People take time to better themselves, you're no different. So keep at it, you'll be fine if you're being you.
People are always changing, especially because of the people around them. So right now, you're at the current you, but the next you may be around the corner. People take time to better themselves, you're no different. So keep at it, you'll be fine if you're being you.
Congrats!~ The important thing is to see what works for you, and that's okay! My partner is genderflux/nonbinary!~
Just try to think of yourself like a puddle... You could be water today, and people should treat you like water today... You could be ice tomorrow, and people should treat you like ice when you are. You don't treat an ice spot like water regardless of whether it may or may not be water tomorrow, right? You treat it like ice because right now it is ice. And that's okay.
People learn and grow. Past selves can often be awful, try not to dwell on it too much. You've learned from the mistake and you can do better now.
Best of well wishes towards you and your own
Just try to think of yourself like a puddle... You could be water today, and people should treat you like water today... You could be ice tomorrow, and people should treat you like ice when you are. You don't treat an ice spot like water regardless of whether it may or may not be water tomorrow, right? You treat it like ice because right now it is ice. And that's okay.
People learn and grow. Past selves can often be awful, try not to dwell on it too much. You've learned from the mistake and you can do better now.
Best of well wishes towards you and your own
Hey, you’re not a fake. You’re a person. Adjectives/labels conform to *you*, not the other way around. It took a lot of courage to post this, and I commend you for that.
Now, a semi-coherent word of caution, just because I care about you in what limited capacity I have as an internet stranger: Just because something feels good doesn’t mean it’s good for you. I’ve seen many people fall into this trap, and they don’t end up better off for it. Affirmation/validation, for example, isn’t always a good thing, even though it feels amazing. Think about the difference between “confidence” and “pride”. What is good is the truth. Be honest with yourself, and let people be honest with you, even the negative things, and you will have a good idea of the way to being truly happy. Sometimes the only way to really know something is to experience it.
Maybe this message will be helpful, maybe it’s unnecessary in your case. Again, I don’t really know you. Either way, I wish you the best.
Now, a semi-coherent word of caution, just because I care about you in what limited capacity I have as an internet stranger: Just because something feels good doesn’t mean it’s good for you. I’ve seen many people fall into this trap, and they don’t end up better off for it. Affirmation/validation, for example, isn’t always a good thing, even though it feels amazing. Think about the difference between “confidence” and “pride”. What is good is the truth. Be honest with yourself, and let people be honest with you, even the negative things, and you will have a good idea of the way to being truly happy. Sometimes the only way to really know something is to experience it.
Maybe this message will be helpful, maybe it’s unnecessary in your case. Again, I don’t really know you. Either way, I wish you the best.
Congrats!!!
You’re amazing and I know well how hard it can be to internally accept that a label might work, even if all the evidence is there.
I was umming and uhhing for a while about if I should use the term asexual, even though I knew that I don’t experience sexual attraction to other people. But then I just was like, “ok, yes, I’m asexual” and it felt so good to say it.
But just as was said in the comic, if you find that the label doesn’t work for you, that’s ok! Better to know then never know and you can step forward more confident in yourself then before. 💜💜💜
You’re amazing and I know well how hard it can be to internally accept that a label might work, even if all the evidence is there.
I was umming and uhhing for a while about if I should use the term asexual, even though I knew that I don’t experience sexual attraction to other people. But then I just was like, “ok, yes, I’m asexual” and it felt so good to say it.
But just as was said in the comic, if you find that the label doesn’t work for you, that’s ok! Better to know then never know and you can step forward more confident in yourself then before. 💜💜💜
The best time to learn about yourself is whenever you're ready. If you weren't ready before, don't too be upset with little Kira, they weren't as strong or smart as your are now. It's an adult problem that requires experience and can be hard to get figured out.
Talk to friends you trust about it, it's what helped me figure my own gender out.
Talk to friends you trust about it, it's what helped me figure my own gender out.
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