The kashie has often the issue to send messages. It doesnt matter where and how. Or what it is about, and what we could gain. We struggle to do, and even with a bit more comfort, like replying to a individual we are comfy with, there is usually a little resistance, as long we arent at least 85% sure that everyone seeing it is ok with it in some way.
No, its not that we will take bad massages to our heart, but its rather aout the act of replying or commenting and so on.