I can't say anything new, because everything has already been said a million times. All I can do is express my deepest condolences and donate to the funds to help the civilian population (for helping the army, I may be put in prison). Although even if it were possible to donate to the army, I wouldn't. All the media are lying to us. Wherever you are, you are surrounded by propaganda.
Each country distorts information to match its image. Objectionable information is suppressed or censored. They tell us all the time about fakes and transfer responsibility to other countries (the car that ran over civilians according to the Russian media is Ukrainian, according to the Ukrainian media is Russian. who to believe? chance to guess 50%). The conclusion is that everyone is lying to us. and not without reason. Any government needs the loyalty of its citizens, to be trusted by them.
But some Aunt Zina doesn't need all this. it has no purpose to present information profitably. Therefore, she simply says - residential buildings are being bombed. And I believe her.
Civilians suffer the most from the war. They are defenseless and surrounded. They are afraid for their lives and the lives of their loved ones. Many have nothing but an alarming suitcase, and that will have to be abandoned in case of danger. And then you'll be left with nothing. And who will deal with it?
I ask you to help the civilian population in any way you can. From the world by a thread - and we will collect on a sundress. Many have friends and relatives in Ukraine, and a friend is known in trouble.

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