Stay strong, you can make it through this.

Thanks a lot

It always sucks to end something, it feels like you've put so much time and effort into it and ending it is sort of like giving up on it, but see it more like your favorite shirt. Some shirts are flexible and stretch and some don't, and as you grow and change the ones that don't change or flex with your body anymore are no longer there for you. Bad things happen, things change, and you shouldn't keep someone around if they make you unhappy or uncomfortable. A person isn't a shirt, but they can be around the same amount of time as one, and sometimes the holes are too big to mend. Sometimes it's not you at all.

And if all else fails, remember the sunk cost fallacy doesn't control you and you can start over and be happy again.

Honestly, I did not expect, but your speach really calmed (or at least stabilized) me in some way. I'm not sure if this applies to my situation, but what you said makes me feel a little better. Thanks, this really helps

I don't know your situation so I can only presume. But I know I've been in similar spots and so have other people and they survived it. It stings, hurts like heck, breaking up isn't pretty. But if you can do it and breathe the next day, you can breathe every day after. Doesn't mean you don't get upset, but that's human emotions. We're sentimental beings.

If you need to talk, feel free to note me, I'm good with talking about this stuff usually. Not perfect, but good.

I do not know you or your situation. I only know my journey but I would like to share what I have learned as I have gone through this recently:

Your feelings are and will always be valid. Do not bury any negative or sad emotions but rather, talk them out to those whom you hold dear. Now is the time to just exist and reflect, to let the dust settle so you pick a path to your next adventure. You will be alright in time. It's like recovering from a sickness. It's slow. Some days will be better than others but you will come out stronger and brighter eventually.


"The melting snow might erase these tracks but the journey will always live on in my heart."

Thanks. I really appreciate what you said, especially about emotions. Your words have taken effect