you did the rigth thing though and as pissy as it gets, im proud :] (though i neevr talk to you owo; )

Doesnt feel right.. After ignoring us for so long.. It seems right to just do the same to him.

you were the bigger person in this situation

Aw, don't let him get you down. If anyone's the black sheep, I'd say it's him! Besides, you're smart and talented, and I have a feeling you've done more good with your abilities than he has. As for having an on-line boyfriend, your far from the only person who's in a relationship like that. These days, long-distance relationships seem to be more and more the norm, at least from what I've seen. I dated someone for something like seven years, and we were only in the same house together for a year and a half. So the hell with what he thinks.

On a more positive note, the art is really beautiful. I love the simplicity of it, and how it really puts across a feeling of bleakness and sadness. It's a pity that these feelings came from something that happened to you, but that makes the art that much more powerful.

I suppose.. he lives on his own, is getting a job, and is getting married.. me i live on my own, cant work, and only socialize online.. yes im just a jet black sheep.

thanks..

You get to sleep in late. D:

I always sleep in late...mostly because I always stay up late.

Alas...something I can't afford with my morning classes... :T

-hugs-

Erf... I learned a while ago that if the phone rings while I'm asleep, it's almost never a good sign.

Yeah.. usually.. my mom sometimes calls early though and if I dont answer she gets mad at me...x.x

Well that was rude of your brother, he should be glad you have a relationship.

Anyway the art here is well done as always, great job. *hugs*

Oh hunny, Ia m so proud of you. That was terribly brave of you. I could never have done that ever.

I would have been so mad and ashamed of my parents *grr* I mean how could they .. biut I guess that is just how parents are supposed to be *sigh*.

But you my dearest foxy are a brave woman

blah.. if being brave makes me feel shitty.. id rather just hide under the blankets and let the phone ring..

*pulls the covors up and hides under there with you* I get the same reaction from my family about my boyfriend an have something like you have with you brother but with other family memembers.... *sigh* May I hide with you then?

Yeah.. its not a good feeling.. and I dont deal with being abandon very well, and thats what it feels like.. Of course you can hun, there is plenty of room. -scoots over.-

*hugs* you should have asked why he did not have a heart for six or seven years to payback your parents gone and payed your sister some long over due respect?

and told him to fuck off with his unimpressed feelings about you having an online boyfriend?

I should have.. but having just been woken up, and hearing my brother.. even though he abandoned me and was a jerkoff the last few years.. i still love him. So it didnt really cross my mind at the time.

T^T damn cause he may be a jerk to you but he seems like a complete fucking ass hole to be outta the blue saying hi and then judge you for having an online boyfriend.

He didnt really judge verbally. It was just how he kind of chuckled and the tone when he said "oh alright." and then didnt really comment on it.

oh........ well is it bad i still think hes an a-hole even if i made the mistake? :<

and i sorry about the mistake foxxian.

I dont mind.. he is a jerk.

*hugs*

I could compare members in my family that are dysfunctional and rather hurtful, as well as in-laws, yet it won't really do anything positive. In the end, it's best to just forgive and forget. A bad phone-call will keep you up for hours thinking and thinking about all kinds of things relating to that particular person. You don't have to know why it's a slumberless night, though I look at it like having a chip on your shoulder. Brush it off and move forward.

Easier said than done, I know. You sound unsure about yourself really. If you're in an online relationship and his reaction bothers you, then you're not sound about your relationship. Embarrassed might be a closer approach, but it's only my assumption. At any rate, your art is beautiful and you sound like someone with a good head on their shoulders. It's your brother, the blood has called, now it's time for you to nod and move along.

Again, easier said than done. I wish the best, either way.

I would have just told him to piss off and hung up on him.

This is quite radical way but when I'm in serious need to sleep a bit longer I just turn all phones off...

Really nice li'l sketch Foxxian... even if it during a thing you didn't want (the phone call),,,, Your sketch is really nice and well done...Aaaaww we really see that you're tired an you were starting to drift to dreamland.... Awww *hug you*

*sigh* Somehow it's always the same. It seems it's always the backstabbers, liars and jerks that get the rewards, the money, the partners ... and not the people who should (I experienced that myself lately -.- ).
But still .. you stood your ground and you alone were honest so thats something to be proud of.

Aside from that, I really like the sketch. Really captures this "Aww gawd, who is it nooooow" moment

The picture is very good, with the emotion very evident. As to family, they can be...difficult...at times. The only thing that I can say is that he is your brother, and as such you should still love him. Doesn't mean that you have to trust him, or even really like him, but you should love him as he is of your blood.

I would say something about forgiveness, grudges and stress but that would be a "Pot, meet Kettle" situation, so I'll just keep my muzzle shut on that.

Oh dear, I'm sorry.

I can't really give you any advice since I'm the sort of person who would do what your brother did and break all contact with his family (I have my reasons), but I can say I really hope everything goes okay with you.

As for the picture, well, if I commented on all your work, I would probably say the same thing since they're amazing and they always make me stop to think.

Hope you feel better. <3