hey!!! I know I've been gone for some time again,,, I do have art to post, I just. stayed off of FA for some time.
in the past... 2 months??? 3 months??? I've gotten transphobic comments every now and then. I don't know if you saw any of them but I usually deleted them and blocked the users right when I saw them, because nobody needs to read that- including me- and I'm not exactly on this website to educate random strangers who approach me with aggression or ridicule to begin with.
but I think it's... gotten to me? I don't know, the random people saying I was a clown for using male pronouns for MY OWN sona were alright I suppose, the random people saying "you are a woman" under posts were just dumb and I kinda shrugged, but what really got to me was one transguy who commented to call me a trender and to detransition because I was "obviously a girl"???
when actually I have posted in the past about how I don't like to show any femininity or weakness irl and use this profile and my art on here sort of to express what I'm trying to hide in my everyday life. People who only know me on here don't know who I am IRL- and that's ok!!! but its very weird to me that people think I'm personally absolutely like the small grey-pink cat I draw on the funny animal website and feel the need to attack me personally.
idk I just. I'm gonna try to get back on here, I'm gonna try to post bit by bit, I just wanted to explain my absence haha
in the past... 2 months??? 3 months??? I've gotten transphobic comments every now and then. I don't know if you saw any of them but I usually deleted them and blocked the users right when I saw them, because nobody needs to read that- including me- and I'm not exactly on this website to educate random strangers who approach me with aggression or ridicule to begin with.
but I think it's... gotten to me? I don't know, the random people saying I was a clown for using male pronouns for MY OWN sona were alright I suppose, the random people saying "you are a woman" under posts were just dumb and I kinda shrugged, but what really got to me was one transguy who commented to call me a trender and to detransition because I was "obviously a girl"???
when actually I have posted in the past about how I don't like to show any femininity or weakness irl and use this profile and my art on here sort of to express what I'm trying to hide in my everyday life. People who only know me on here don't know who I am IRL- and that's ok!!! but its very weird to me that people think I'm personally absolutely like the small grey-pink cat I draw on the funny animal website and feel the need to attack me personally.
idk I just. I'm gonna try to get back on here, I'm gonna try to post bit by bit, I just wanted to explain my absence haha
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I don't have any issues with educating people even, but if someone just shoots a "YOU NEED A DICK TO BE A FEMBOY!!!! YOU ARE JUST A GIRL" at me, thats not a person who wants to be educated
thats a person who could literally be anywhere else on the world wide web but decides to be right here on the profile of furaffinity user "Zandler" to be mean about a 2D cartook cat in shorts
and while thats all very funny honestly it also made me feel insecure after some time aa,,, i think im back now, tho!!
thats a person who could literally be anywhere else on the world wide web but decides to be right here on the profile of furaffinity user "Zandler" to be mean about a 2D cartook cat in shorts
and while thats all very funny honestly it also made me feel insecure after some time aa,,, i think im back now, tho!!
Ah, I see. Either way those kind of people would be emotionally exhausting to deal with and that sucks. :\
Glad to you're still around though, I always enjoy your art as my alt account
Bananabirdboy and will keep supporting you until the end of time. :)
Glad to you're still around though, I always enjoy your art as my alt account
Bananabirdboy and will keep supporting you until the end of time. :)
Glad to see you about again, am sorry you had to deal with people being dickheads, but as hard as it might be to do in the moment when it's happening just gotta remember for each one there's plenty more people who love and accept you for who you are around you 🙌
You're also absolutely valid regardless of what people say, I can only imagine that's hard to keep in mind in the face of such things but that is always true />w>\
Do take all the time you need easing back into the swing of things of course -3-\
You're also absolutely valid regardless of what people say, I can only imagine that's hard to keep in mind in the face of such things but that is always true />w>\
Do take all the time you need easing back into the swing of things of course -3-\
Heya man, I really hope you are fine. I'm sorry that you had to deal with such people, really. Those people... I could talk for days about how people like that just exist to be anoying, people who just spread hate and stuff. It just makes me sick, specially knowing what you've gone thru from what you said on other posts. And, just like some more guys are doing, I just wanna say that I hope it stops and that you feel better. We fully support you!!
good to see you back!
its really disheartening when other trans folk put down their fellow trans siblings just because of how they express gender differently.. its not fair at all
it was really shitty of him to say those things to you because they arent true at all! just know there are tons of people here who support you and are here to back you up!
its really disheartening when other trans folk put down their fellow trans siblings just because of how they express gender differently.. its not fair at all
it was really shitty of him to say those things to you because they arent true at all! just know there are tons of people here who support you and are here to back you up!
thats the thing- they dont even know how I express myself. I do a lot more different art than what I post on here, my art on this page is kind of "themed" if that makes sense??? so they don't even see ALL of the art I make, but they assume they know how I act and look irl, which is. quite odd, honestly.
and thank youu!! ;3; I still wanna delete all of that when I can bc we already got enough nasty stuff online, no need to see gross comments _everywhere_ u3u
and thank youu!! ;3; I still wanna delete all of that when I can bc we already got enough nasty stuff online, no need to see gross comments _everywhere_ u3u
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