**Giggles!**
Being an adopted child means all the world to me. That means I was blessed twice over, first for the gift of life and then secondly, and most important of all, was to be chosen to this fantastic family. While I try to make sure I speak well of both Mom and Pop, Pop was very much like a mixture of Gibbs from NCIS and Steve Rogers, also known as Captain America from Marvel Comics, and just a touch of the Batman for that extra allure. Pop came from an unspoken father who left his mother when he was born and then later, the man who he would call Pop too, took his life when the gentleman found out that he had cancer, done in with his service revolver. Pop was the one who found him ... Later Pop would enlist into the Navy for a good chunk of his adult life and marry Mom and have my Big Sister. I would come along in the early 1970s, but I honest to God do NOT remember my family before the family now, if that makes sense. Mom, Pop, and my Big Sister are and were the only family I needed. However, like most families, we had our problems. If you have been keeping up with me since I started creating journals and posting stuff, you probably know the story of me finding out I was adopted. My Big Sister, in a pique of rage, told me that Mom and Pop ought to trade me back to K-Mart for a better kid since I was adopted there thanks to the "magical blue light special!" Oh, how upset I was! Pop went after my Big Sister for that ... imagine Godzilla hitting Tokyo after coming out of the ocean ... oh yes! It was ugly like a Rollingstones group photo!
And that's just one of the wild stories told about Pop!
Pop and the MGB full of cats ... and Pop vs The Boyfriend! are two other good stories too. But they are all told with love by yours truly. Pop was a gentle man most of the time, though he did serve with extra distinction when keeping an eye on Mom when she was out signing her Historical Romances at various booksellers. Oh yes, Mom hit Walden Book Sellers's best seller's list a number of times too, so she was very popular ... and a local star too!
Israfel Vincent, Taffy as she was nicknamed by her Pop and known to friends too, have larger than life parents too. Her father, like mine, served as a Naval pilot and then became a Marine as well, while earning extra distinction fighting Nazis in World War II with her Mom as well. Her mother, a decorated Colonel in the Airforce, was originally a librarian and then later an archeologist before the war. She signed up too, but into the Airforce, and fought along side her later-to-be husband against the Axis Alliance. Later, they would have adventures throughout the world, often dealing with pockets of Nazi sympathizers and other people of like minded thinkers, saving the world many times as well. Now, while for Taffy, her mother is still around, no one knows where her father is ... even her mother has no clue.
So, like me, Taffy tries to remember her father with the greatest of memories and of honor too.
This was an extra special "Thank you!" from my good friend and fantastic artist,
Narwhal_Iv
Thank you for the extra, honey!
Being an adopted child means all the world to me. That means I was blessed twice over, first for the gift of life and then secondly, and most important of all, was to be chosen to this fantastic family. While I try to make sure I speak well of both Mom and Pop, Pop was very much like a mixture of Gibbs from NCIS and Steve Rogers, also known as Captain America from Marvel Comics, and just a touch of the Batman for that extra allure. Pop came from an unspoken father who left his mother when he was born and then later, the man who he would call Pop too, took his life when the gentleman found out that he had cancer, done in with his service revolver. Pop was the one who found him ... Later Pop would enlist into the Navy for a good chunk of his adult life and marry Mom and have my Big Sister. I would come along in the early 1970s, but I honest to God do NOT remember my family before the family now, if that makes sense. Mom, Pop, and my Big Sister are and were the only family I needed. However, like most families, we had our problems. If you have been keeping up with me since I started creating journals and posting stuff, you probably know the story of me finding out I was adopted. My Big Sister, in a pique of rage, told me that Mom and Pop ought to trade me back to K-Mart for a better kid since I was adopted there thanks to the "magical blue light special!" Oh, how upset I was! Pop went after my Big Sister for that ... imagine Godzilla hitting Tokyo after coming out of the ocean ... oh yes! It was ugly like a Rollingstones group photo!
And that's just one of the wild stories told about Pop!
Pop and the MGB full of cats ... and Pop vs The Boyfriend! are two other good stories too. But they are all told with love by yours truly. Pop was a gentle man most of the time, though he did serve with extra distinction when keeping an eye on Mom when she was out signing her Historical Romances at various booksellers. Oh yes, Mom hit Walden Book Sellers's best seller's list a number of times too, so she was very popular ... and a local star too!
Israfel Vincent, Taffy as she was nicknamed by her Pop and known to friends too, have larger than life parents too. Her father, like mine, served as a Naval pilot and then became a Marine as well, while earning extra distinction fighting Nazis in World War II with her Mom as well. Her mother, a decorated Colonel in the Airforce, was originally a librarian and then later an archeologist before the war. She signed up too, but into the Airforce, and fought along side her later-to-be husband against the Axis Alliance. Later, they would have adventures throughout the world, often dealing with pockets of Nazi sympathizers and other people of like minded thinkers, saving the world many times as well. Now, while for Taffy, her mother is still around, no one knows where her father is ... even her mother has no clue.
So, like me, Taffy tries to remember her father with the greatest of memories and of honor too.
This was an extra special "Thank you!" from my good friend and fantastic artist,
Narwhal_Iv Thank you for the extra, honey!
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A lovely bouqe for a lovely lady
The analogy of the flower can be applied to her
The young speed must be buried and forced to grow in adversoty so it can become either a beautiful flower or a strong tree
When i was in the army i saw plenty of that
Fathers
Sons
Grqnd parents
Daugthers
And lonely hollows like us hoping and praying to be with the ones who they love the most
Dear israfel here is such a brave girl
A bouque
A gift an honor to the fallen
Just to hope he was missing in action
*rp* maybe want me to make some calls sweetie?
Amazing job and story keep it up dear!
The analogy of the flower can be applied to her
The young speed must be buried and forced to grow in adversoty so it can become either a beautiful flower or a strong tree
When i was in the army i saw plenty of that
Fathers
Sons
Grqnd parents
Daugthers
And lonely hollows like us hoping and praying to be with the ones who they love the most
Dear israfel here is such a brave girl
A bouque
A gift an honor to the fallen
Just to hope he was missing in action
*rp* maybe want me to make some calls sweetie?
Amazing job and story keep it up dear!
Thank you so much for those kind words. Both of my folks are buried in Jacksonville Memorial Cemetery and got full military honors as well. I did get to speak there, very impromptu since my Aunt Sara, my mother's sister, said, "I better not be the only one who speaks." To which I said, "If that's not a cue, I don't know what is."
I know what that was
It was a daré and speech competición to ease the nerves
Damn aunts shennanigans off the roofs XD
Yeah
I was invited to a militar memorial once and the other was a middle field burial
God i almost stuttered twice there
Sad thing we dont have such fancy and honorable place to rest
Or even rest at all
I salute your family members
They served in good iron will and with honor your country
It was a daré and speech competición to ease the nerves
Damn aunts shennanigans off the roofs XD
Yeah
I was invited to a militar memorial once and the other was a middle field burial
God i almost stuttered twice there
Sad thing we dont have such fancy and honorable place to rest
Or even rest at all
I salute your family members
They served in good iron will and with honor your country
**Giggles!**
Thanks, honey. It was not easy, especially for Mom who suffered from panic attacks, paranoia, and a few other things that no one in the family spoke about. While I love my mother, I never really understood what was going on. That generation kept silent about what was happening in their lives. I had my suspicious of what happened from the bits and pieces I'd heard and even seen over the years. Pop explained some of it later as did my Big Sister, who actually acted incredulous that I didn't know. I told her I was uninformed and kept in the dark about it. Wives serve as much as the husbands, just in a different arena.
Thanks, honey. It was not easy, especially for Mom who suffered from panic attacks, paranoia, and a few other things that no one in the family spoke about. While I love my mother, I never really understood what was going on. That generation kept silent about what was happening in their lives. I had my suspicious of what happened from the bits and pieces I'd heard and even seen over the years. Pop explained some of it later as did my Big Sister, who actually acted incredulous that I didn't know. I told her I was uninformed and kept in the dark about it. Wives serve as much as the husbands, just in a different arena.
During several psycology jobs i found
When there is a sudden loss of the main pilar of sanity of a person
Everyone have one and depending the ítem/ person/routine/ memory and the level of madurity of the subject can be affected in their lifes
Example: a man loses his mother and gets depresed but then he loses the las pilar of sanity (his dog last gift from her mother) and got 2 levels of hysteria andallucinations
Most tradicional role marriages tend to suppress this need of a pilar when relying in the husband/ wife
Its normal after sudden hard trauma like natural dissaters war famine migración etc to develop traces of deep scaring trauma( like when a single mother seems his son go to universoty example) and when the pilar is missing this traces can lead to paranoias allucinations nervous ticks weird manners
all the way to
Full blown parkinson autism
Split personality dementia
Suicidal atempts and even cognitice dissonances
The idea of ( with all respect sweetie) your mother having traces of nervos overloads ( panic and anxiety) hyperventilations and other minor yet unnoticed symptoms can lead to major traumas
This effect is nicknamed shared pstd
Kids who suffer a divorce are one example more common of this effect
If you want me to explain a bit more and what you can do or help you to put pieces together
Tell me
Keep that shinny side up!
When there is a sudden loss of the main pilar of sanity of a person
Everyone have one and depending the ítem/ person/routine/ memory and the level of madurity of the subject can be affected in their lifes
Example: a man loses his mother and gets depresed but then he loses the las pilar of sanity (his dog last gift from her mother) and got 2 levels of hysteria andallucinations
Most tradicional role marriages tend to suppress this need of a pilar when relying in the husband/ wife
Its normal after sudden hard trauma like natural dissaters war famine migración etc to develop traces of deep scaring trauma( like when a single mother seems his son go to universoty example) and when the pilar is missing this traces can lead to paranoias allucinations nervous ticks weird manners
all the way to
Full blown parkinson autism
Split personality dementia
Suicidal atempts and even cognitice dissonances
The idea of ( with all respect sweetie) your mother having traces of nervos overloads ( panic and anxiety) hyperventilations and other minor yet unnoticed symptoms can lead to major traumas
This effect is nicknamed shared pstd
Kids who suffer a divorce are one example more common of this effect
If you want me to explain a bit more and what you can do or help you to put pieces together
Tell me
Keep that shinny side up!
No, actually I took a few classes in Psychology back when I was studying to be a teacher. Your statements made me think of some of the stuff I had forgotten, but it's been over thirty years for me since I took those classes. If memory serves, I actually might have hit the third level recently with the building of stress and the efforts of my healing without a doctor's aid ... so, you might say that within the past five years, I have gone through a lot. Still, I have my faith and hope that things will work out for the better. Like tempering steel. :)
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