I can't understand a lot of normal human emotions and such
A girl I was rather good friends with all through highschool is having a kid and I just found out and I got nauseated
I feel so out of it for this intense.... hatred of kids
I just honestly feel like they ruin everyone's lives
[That is MY feeling, I'm not asking for your arguments so please don't give them, AT ALL]
And I can't get over it, and it just seems to be getting worse
And it makes me totally anti-social with girls who are expecting or have kids
I feel really bad about this, it's like I feel racist or sexist but can't help it
And it's going to definitely hurt my relationships with people as I get older and can't accept the fact that I'm amongst people who are of an acceptable age to have kids
I still have that mentality like... I'm a freshmen in highschool and getting knocked up makes you fucking stupid and hated and ruined
I really want to move into the middle of no where with Pros and not have to deal with people
People are going to hate me as we get older
A girl I was rather good friends with all through highschool is having a kid and I just found out and I got nauseated
I feel so out of it for this intense.... hatred of kids
I just honestly feel like they ruin everyone's lives
[That is MY feeling, I'm not asking for your arguments so please don't give them, AT ALL]
And I can't get over it, and it just seems to be getting worse
And it makes me totally anti-social with girls who are expecting or have kids
I feel really bad about this, it's like I feel racist or sexist but can't help it
And it's going to definitely hurt my relationships with people as I get older and can't accept the fact that I'm amongst people who are of an acceptable age to have kids
I still have that mentality like... I'm a freshmen in highschool and getting knocked up makes you fucking stupid and hated and ruined
I really want to move into the middle of no where with Pros and not have to deal with people
People are going to hate me as we get older
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I'm sorry, but it's that right there that pisses me off.
"I'm sure when you get older and you meet someone special you're view will change"
Even though afterward you added the other bit, it's that first part that infuriates me.
People don't see the fact that I just have NO compassion in me for children. It's not a teen-drama thing either considering I've always felt this way and it's constantly gotten to be a more determined feeling as the years pass.
I have a million reasons to not want children but the fact is I just don't have a maternal instinct towards children.
And thanks for having confidence in my current relationship =/
Don't take this wrong, it's just an issue I have and I'm not mad with you.
"I'm sure when you get older and you meet someone special you're view will change"
Even though afterward you added the other bit, it's that first part that infuriates me.
People don't see the fact that I just have NO compassion in me for children. It's not a teen-drama thing either considering I've always felt this way and it's constantly gotten to be a more determined feeling as the years pass.
I have a million reasons to not want children but the fact is I just don't have a maternal instinct towards children.
And thanks for having confidence in my current relationship =/
Don't take this wrong, it's just an issue I have and I'm not mad with you.
its very weird to find out your friend is having a kid already....
Ever since i got out of high school ( which was like... almost 3 1/2 years nowt, i got a shit load of friends having babies already. Made me feel awkward as fuck. They are still too young to have a child so early in life. But my mum had me when she was 16, the best thing for her though, it put her life back in track and my mom and dad stayed together. They are a rare case since most never stay that long. But yeah sometimes kids aren't for everyone D: I know i want a little parasite, but a long time from now....
Ever since i got out of high school ( which was like... almost 3 1/2 years nowt, i got a shit load of friends having babies already. Made me feel awkward as fuck. They are still too young to have a child so early in life. But my mum had me when she was 16, the best thing for her though, it put her life back in track and my mom and dad stayed together. They are a rare case since most never stay that long. But yeah sometimes kids aren't for everyone D: I know i want a little parasite, but a long time from now....
People are assholes no matter where you go. I feel more angry at people expecting that don't even have their shit together themselves. If you can't support your own self then how can you support a baby on top of that. It's not only unfair to the child but a huge stress burden on yourself. I don't really feel the baby is the problem more so the person who is raising it. It just seems like the worse people have babies and the kids turn out to be complete assholes as their parents were. On top of that, those who do have their shit together have to pay for it because we have to pay our tax dollars to these people so they can buy $300 in Pizzas, Chips, Soda, and seafood on foodstamps that they can only get because they have ... said child.
I don't much care for children either.
Especially boys. >.> I swear to God, they don't know how to control the volume of their voices at that age.
I almost killed a kid in McDonalds.
It's probably just that highschool always seems 'like yesterday'.
How do you feel about a thirty year old couple who makes a concious descion to have a kid?
Let's say, they've been married since they were 18, they both have well paying jobs and they can take care of the kid
completely.
Is it still upsetting?
:o
Especially boys. >.> I swear to God, they don't know how to control the volume of their voices at that age.
I almost killed a kid in McDonalds.
It's probably just that highschool always seems 'like yesterday'.
How do you feel about a thirty year old couple who makes a concious descion to have a kid?
Let's say, they've been married since they were 18, they both have well paying jobs and they can take care of the kid
completely.
Is it still upsetting?
:o
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