Have dated twice... and may be almost thrice, just to find out that someone has already had a DAMN WIFE! The last one I dated stated that "women are sickening", therefore he "switched button". I tried to think positive, but the "after sex" care was also... like "Wham Bam thank you ma'am!" that recently I feel abandoned or something. But when I asked if we were an item or not, he said that I overreacted and didn't answer clearly. I believe if he's given a stern option, he would likely not to choose me. We've been in long distance but I got no messages or nothing from him. So i guess it's over.
I feel mentally unstable right now, and this foul feeling grows bigger and deeper inside me. I decide not to have an intimate relationship with whoever right now. Some are gay-for-pay, or just to have fun, for eventually going back to their girlfriend or looking for women to screw. Sorry guys, i'm not in the mood of being funny with this comic.
I just dunno why I have turned into a very bitter person lately. A bi just wanted to have a short fun time, another bi wanna have an escapism from his wife, and the last one just wanted an ass to screw because he thinks women are sickening.
And you asking me why I'm going biphobic? Seriously, I'm guessing bisexuals are not half-gay. They are straight people in denial and wanna have a taste of a gay a bit. Society pressure will make them straighter anyway, so why bother?
Sorry guys, I guess I'm not such a neutral person I used to be anymore...
*technically speaking, this was drawn using MACROMEDIA FLASH 8 and finished in Adobe Photoshop CS2.
I feel mentally unstable right now, and this foul feeling grows bigger and deeper inside me. I decide not to have an intimate relationship with whoever right now. Some are gay-for-pay, or just to have fun, for eventually going back to their girlfriend or looking for women to screw. Sorry guys, i'm not in the mood of being funny with this comic.
I just dunno why I have turned into a very bitter person lately. A bi just wanted to have a short fun time, another bi wanna have an escapism from his wife, and the last one just wanted an ass to screw because he thinks women are sickening.
And you asking me why I'm going biphobic? Seriously, I'm guessing bisexuals are not half-gay. They are straight people in denial and wanna have a taste of a gay a bit. Society pressure will make them straighter anyway, so why bother?
Sorry guys, I guess I'm not such a neutral person I used to be anymore...
*technically speaking, this was drawn using MACROMEDIA FLASH 8 and finished in Adobe Photoshop CS2.
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I dont believe in bisexuality to be honest, but people is free to choose and all that, still they should be carefull whit what they do,be bi doesnt mean they are free to screw whit gay people.
Know a little how ya feel, anyways I hope you get better and go trough this, and awsm job whit the pic.
Know a little how ya feel, anyways I hope you get better and go trough this, and awsm job whit the pic.
I personally think bisexuals are either confused, in transition, or nymphomaniacs who don't care what the gender is as long as they can tap it...
And I don't mean any of that in a negative way. More of a "this is the way I've seen it happening around me my entire life, so it's all I know."
Biphobia would only be if you were AFRAID of bisexuals like homophobics are AFRAID of homosexuals...
And I don't mean any of that in a negative way. More of a "this is the way I've seen it happening around me my entire life, so it's all I know."
Biphobia would only be if you were AFRAID of bisexuals like homophobics are AFRAID of homosexuals...
I also find it hilarious that bisexuals think they're being discriminated against by the gays and the straights... I mean... grow up. Gays think people are trying to turn them straight, straights think people are trying to turn them gay, and now bisexuals think both sides are ganging up on them...
I don't care what sexuality you began with, what you are now, or what you'll be tomorrow... be more confident in yourself and your sexuality.
I don't care what sexuality you began with, what you are now, or what you'll be tomorrow... be more confident in yourself and your sexuality.
Statistics aren't exactly trustworthy when they can be made up right on the spot rather easily...
And of all my straight, gay, and bisexual friends, the bisexual ones have consistently been the ones hopping from relationship to relationship with barely a breath in between... the straight and gay friends I have often have "dry spells" where they can't seem to find someone to be with, but I've never known any of my bisexual friends to be "between boy/girlfriends."
I don't need psychological analysis when I have behavioral studies... and as I said, I don't have anything against bisexuals, just like I don't have anything against gays. I still love them like I love all my friends, unconditionally.
As for the reason I consider them either confused, in transition, or nympho is pretty simple. It's how my friends have always been. Some began straight, turned bisexual, then returned to being straight when they got older. Some began straight, turned bisexual, then became gay once they've figured out that is what they want. And I've known a couple who were bisexual simply because they had given up on one gender for the moment and moved towards liking the other gender to fill the void.
I've never known anyone to be truly and purely bisexual, with no preference for a specific gender, and I've never known anyone bisexual who had a lower libido than myself or my gay friends. I know that doesn't mean it doesn't exist, but it influences me to believe that it isn't uncommon for bisexuals to be confused, in transition, or a bit on the nympho side of things.
I'm not saying ANYTHING about who you are as a bisexual. Don't take my opinion personally. It's just my experience with my friends, none of whom think my opinion of them is unfair.
And of all my straight, gay, and bisexual friends, the bisexual ones have consistently been the ones hopping from relationship to relationship with barely a breath in between... the straight and gay friends I have often have "dry spells" where they can't seem to find someone to be with, but I've never known any of my bisexual friends to be "between boy/girlfriends."
I don't need psychological analysis when I have behavioral studies... and as I said, I don't have anything against bisexuals, just like I don't have anything against gays. I still love them like I love all my friends, unconditionally.
As for the reason I consider them either confused, in transition, or nympho is pretty simple. It's how my friends have always been. Some began straight, turned bisexual, then returned to being straight when they got older. Some began straight, turned bisexual, then became gay once they've figured out that is what they want. And I've known a couple who were bisexual simply because they had given up on one gender for the moment and moved towards liking the other gender to fill the void.
I've never known anyone to be truly and purely bisexual, with no preference for a specific gender, and I've never known anyone bisexual who had a lower libido than myself or my gay friends. I know that doesn't mean it doesn't exist, but it influences me to believe that it isn't uncommon for bisexuals to be confused, in transition, or a bit on the nympho side of things.
I'm not saying ANYTHING about who you are as a bisexual. Don't take my opinion personally. It's just my experience with my friends, none of whom think my opinion of them is unfair.
I was bisexual... I had a wife... I have kids, that I'd like to see again...
though now: I am gay... a wanting bottom... and I live with my Boy Friend.
but these are all things that I am opened and front about, with just about anyone... and I couldn't really careless what others think about me, based on any of it.
though now: I am gay... a wanting bottom... and I live with my Boy Friend.
but these are all things that I am opened and front about, with just about anyone... and I couldn't really careless what others think about me, based on any of it.
Join the club. After so many kids I know suddenly were "bisexual lol", I realized that most of them are playing both fields just for a fad, attention, or because they can't get any on one side of the spectrum, so they gotta try both.
I hate the idea of in between, especially when they say "I'm bi but I like guys/girls more" Then you're gay/hetero, stop being greedy. Also, polygamist bi furs make me rage. Just because you like both sexes, doesn't mean you get to hump and bump every single person you see.
Don't feel bad about having an opinion.
I hate the idea of in between, especially when they say "I'm bi but I like guys/girls more" Then you're gay/hetero, stop being greedy. Also, polygamist bi furs make me rage. Just because you like both sexes, doesn't mean you get to hump and bump every single person you see.
Don't feel bad about having an opinion.
"Also, polygamist bi furs make me rage"
Wow. Just wow. This was exactly almost happening to me. I was almost becoming a mistress for someone who had had a girlfriend. He also made a move to me and sadly, I fell into the trap.
Ironicly, he was the first one who made me feel fall in love too, though.
Wow. Just wow. This was exactly almost happening to me. I was almost becoming a mistress for someone who had had a girlfriend. He also made a move to me and sadly, I fell into the trap.
Ironicly, he was the first one who made me feel fall in love too, though.
To be honest it's a shame that such people are out there. People that "turn" be because they're tired of woman and just want to shove their dicks into someone again. So you are not to blame for the thoughts in your head.... they made you think like that. I can understand why you feel messed up.
I'd would suggest you to take a break and think about this stuff. I mean if you really enjoy male company or not. And yes.... I know this question is not easy.
I'd would suggest you to take a break and think about this stuff. I mean if you really enjoy male company or not. And yes.... I know this question is not easy.
damn man...that just sucks. with that kind of impression i can see why people get pissed at bisexuals. I think one benefit to being flat out gay or flat out straight is that it limits us to one section of the population and some sense of limits defining who's an option and who is not. as a bisexual there really isn't much of a limit other then incest. Everything is a gray area.
It takes a special person to be able to balance bisexuality and limits. Unfortunately there arn't to many true representations i know off. Those who are bisexual i do know tend to favor open relationships and one-night-stands...not leaving much room for something serious. But then there are those whom are pan-sexual- attracted to anyone whom they have strong emotional bond with and even then that gets tricky when you try to distinguish a line between a lover and a best friend.
I dunno how easy it is where you live- but here in america people give up so much personal info online that you can know who they are and what they are about before even meeting them. its as fascinating as it is scary. who needs big brother government when we do it to ourselves?
anywho that my banter. enjoy.
It takes a special person to be able to balance bisexuality and limits. Unfortunately there arn't to many true representations i know off. Those who are bisexual i do know tend to favor open relationships and one-night-stands...not leaving much room for something serious. But then there are those whom are pan-sexual- attracted to anyone whom they have strong emotional bond with and even then that gets tricky when you try to distinguish a line between a lover and a best friend.
I dunno how easy it is where you live- but here in america people give up so much personal info online that you can know who they are and what they are about before even meeting them. its as fascinating as it is scary. who needs big brother government when we do it to ourselves?
anywho that my banter. enjoy.
Bisexuality is such a hassle for everyone. I think bisexuals should at least try to identify as more gay or more straight, because no matter how bi you are, you're gonna have a preference as far as sex goes. Dont feel bad about being "biphobic" Because in all honesty it's hard not to be afraid of the instability that can come along with a relationship with a bisexual. And if there really are bisexuals who are split 50-50, why not date another bisexual? It seems like bisexuals always drift towards the ends of the spectrum rather than mingling with their own niche.
No, no no no! It's genius! The same thing goes for mulattoes. I mean, seriously, people shouldn't be able to say they're part of a minority if they can pass for white! You totally know they're just doing it for grant money. Like I totally knew this dude whose mom was Jewish and dad was Aristopalean or some shit like that, and he could totally scam both sides! I was all like "hey, it's so not fair that you get like 9 Christmas presents and still get to keep your foreskin!" He stopped talking to me because he knew I was right.
I'm surprised at the negativity surrounding the concept of bisexuality. It's rather disheartening actually. One can't be sexually attracted to both males and females? What's with this mindset that one has to be chosen.
The only choice that's going to be made is whether or not this PERSON is going to be your one and only. If they happen to be MALE or FEMALE does not and should not matter.
The only choice that's going to be made is whether or not this PERSON is going to be your one and only. If they happen to be MALE or FEMALE does not and should not matter.
I don't view bisexual ( especially in this case, you) as a bad people like a common bad guy. More like "less trusted" in romantic term.
Though, my prejudice is not without a reason. When first dated one, I don't have any bad thought about bisexuality.
Until there's (almost) THREE times my date bombed big time because... what you have read on the description.
My prejudice is based on a very bad experience i have with bisexuals. It will be very hard to make me think otherwise until I have found a very solid reason or proof if they can be trusted after all.
I'm not demanding any of you, though.
Though, my prejudice is not without a reason. When first dated one, I don't have any bad thought about bisexuality.
Until there's (almost) THREE times my date bombed big time because... what you have read on the description.
My prejudice is based on a very bad experience i have with bisexuals. It will be very hard to make me think otherwise until I have found a very solid reason or proof if they can be trusted after all.
I'm not demanding any of you, though.
That's just the thing. I understand bad people. They exist no matter what sexuality that they say they are.
But just remember: Gays aren't necessarily associated with monogamy. To some, gays are promiscuous and overly-feminine. I would think those people are wrong too.
I think you'd be better off not worrying about labels but instead worry about the person. Because I can guarantee that at some point yer gonna get fucked over by a gay guy too and not in the sexual sense. :\ I hope it doesn't happen, but no one is innocent.
But just remember: Gays aren't necessarily associated with monogamy. To some, gays are promiscuous and overly-feminine. I would think those people are wrong too.
I think you'd be better off not worrying about labels but instead worry about the person. Because I can guarantee that at some point yer gonna get fucked over by a gay guy too and not in the sexual sense. :\ I hope it doesn't happen, but no one is innocent.
can you really believe that all bisexuals are "less trusted" in terms of Romance if you had not known each and every bisexual there is to know? people are people no matter how you describe it. there will always be the loyal, disloyal , and other variety of people (including Bisexual) who are like that. life and love is a lottery especially if your picky.
if you want keep on going and believe in what you want (especially that we all have to make a choice), do it ,but comparing to you and me which one of us has a better understanding to which sex i would like to be with or has preference to? it's like saying , do you want an apple or do you want melon? not all of us can make a choice but there are some who do like and choose both.
the only real problem is as you state , ur experience. it's something that'll always speak more than anything else, but somethings fade away eventually , right? but it'll only get harder if you keep this mindset
if you want keep on going and believe in what you want (especially that we all have to make a choice), do it ,but comparing to you and me which one of us has a better understanding to which sex i would like to be with or has preference to? it's like saying , do you want an apple or do you want melon? not all of us can make a choice but there are some who do like and choose both.
the only real problem is as you state , ur experience. it's something that'll always speak more than anything else, but somethings fade away eventually , right? but it'll only get harder if you keep this mindset
You could check my journal for details. It could be you're having a easier way of what society wants where as gay people just would feel miserable to deal with.
May be it's just me, but mostly when you (or bisexuals) have decided who you're gonna fall in love with, some people would easily make a line if you're reachable or not so they could focus looking for someone else.
And if they insist you must have a girl friend, it might be they have a high hope on you. If you have chosen a girl anyway, they will list you off for the same reason above.
That's in my viewpoint though.
May be it's just me, but mostly when you (or bisexuals) have decided who you're gonna fall in love with, some people would easily make a line if you're reachable or not so they could focus looking for someone else.
And if they insist you must have a girl friend, it might be they have a high hope on you. If you have chosen a girl anyway, they will list you off for the same reason above.
That's in my viewpoint though.
I have read your journals so I'm aware. I just usually think "Man, what a jerk". I never thought or cared that the person was bisexual; just that they were being dishonest and manipulative.
As for "deciding who to fall in love with" ... you can't decide that. You can decide who you will love, but falling in love is nothing one decides.
If I had found a great woman before I found a great man, I'd most likely have stuck with her. And we'd both talk about how hot Vin Diesel is. :P
As for "deciding who to fall in love with" ... you can't decide that. You can decide who you will love, but falling in love is nothing one decides.
If I had found a great woman before I found a great man, I'd most likely have stuck with her. And we'd both talk about how hot Vin Diesel is. :P
I can see how the relative freedom of a bisexual person in having relationships can be a source of resentment. It's one form of jealousy, since it does look like something seemingly unfair.
That said, I like cock, but harbour no ill feelings for people who can give as much affection to a man as s/he would a woman. The B fills out the LGBT well. More the merrier.
Yeah but it's really screwed up cause just like a gay person, being bi isn't anything I chose to be except to use the term to describe myself, you know?
I appreciate your open-minded but it's not really a freedom per se. Unlike what many on this thread seem to believe, there are monogamous bisexuals. If that's what you meant by freedom anyhow.
I appreciate your open-minded but it's not really a freedom per se. Unlike what many on this thread seem to believe, there are monogamous bisexuals. If that's what you meant by freedom anyhow.
Black and White make up and gang up on Green, or something like that, right? XD
Yeah, I know it's no less easy nor free, but some people see something threatening in anybody with a quality (in this case, a sort of "allegiance" in sexual orientation) they can't pin down. I can't say I understand this dread, though; I think it's cool that you guys can remove the whole gender thing when it comes to getting partners.
Yeah, I know it's no less easy nor free, but some people see something threatening in anybody with a quality (in this case, a sort of "allegiance" in sexual orientation) they can't pin down. I can't say I understand this dread, though; I think it's cool that you guys can remove the whole gender thing when it comes to getting partners.
Kitty..., first and foremost..., besides I apologize once again for another long post of mine..., I recommend you to rate this comic for Mature Audiences, just in case ...
Okay, now going to the point: it's true that having three bad relationships in a row could disturbs anybody... I would be pretty disturbed if I was in your shoes, to be honest ... However, if you let that embitter you, believe me, you'll be the only one who will be on the losing end, no matter how much other people, and specially your friends, try to help you out...
Also, like I've told you before, despite all these guys who dated you were "bisexuals", that what happened with you had nothing to do with bisexuality!...
Okay, I don't blame you because what you feel towards bisexuals right now... But you must understand that not everybody is interested in a serious relationship, and that equally includes straights, gays, bisexuals, transexuals, and many other people... However, I assure you that there are A LOT more of people who are interested in a serious relationship, including gay people, and even bisexual ...
In resume, I don't think it's a matter of sexuality, kitty..., but a matter of faithfulness... And, if any of those guys who dated you wasn't interested in having a serious relationship with you, specially the last one ("YOU SUNNAVA!!" )..., that's THEIR PROBLEM, and not yours...
And no, kitty, it's not wise trying to make it your own problem, because it will end DESTROYING your spirit, I'm afraid... And, if it ends destroying your spirit, you will LOSE permanently the chance of love and being loved by some other guy who really WANTS that... And be sure that guy is still out there, no matter if we don't know right now who could be that guy in the end... And if that guy FINDS you, and you REJECT him because you don't want to love anyone else, who do you think will be the BIG looser, besides that guy?!
Sorry all the babbler, Ryuu... But I think, and I'm sure, that you have enough qualities for finding the man you've been looking for... Just take your time to heal yourself of all that shit you've lived and, after you're completely healed, keep looking for someone else!...
Just don't stop, please, because nobody of us, including your friends, and including me, wants that you become an embittered man or, even worst, another CYNICAL GAY MAN, or at least a frustrated one... Keep that in mind, please, because nobody of us is prepared for MISSING YOU already, okay? *hugs*
A Fav!! (But As a Sign of Support.) =^^= Don't give up, please, because we don't want to lose you .
Okay, now going to the point: it's true that having three bad relationships in a row could disturbs anybody... I would be pretty disturbed if I was in your shoes, to be honest ... However, if you let that embitter you, believe me, you'll be the only one who will be on the losing end, no matter how much other people, and specially your friends, try to help you out...
Also, like I've told you before, despite all these guys who dated you were "bisexuals", that what happened with you had nothing to do with bisexuality!...
Okay, I don't blame you because what you feel towards bisexuals right now... But you must understand that not everybody is interested in a serious relationship, and that equally includes straights, gays, bisexuals, transexuals, and many other people... However, I assure you that there are A LOT more of people who are interested in a serious relationship, including gay people, and even bisexual ...
In resume, I don't think it's a matter of sexuality, kitty..., but a matter of faithfulness... And, if any of those guys who dated you wasn't interested in having a serious relationship with you, specially the last one ("YOU SUNNAVA!!" )..., that's THEIR PROBLEM, and not yours...
And no, kitty, it's not wise trying to make it your own problem, because it will end DESTROYING your spirit, I'm afraid... And, if it ends destroying your spirit, you will LOSE permanently the chance of love and being loved by some other guy who really WANTS that... And be sure that guy is still out there, no matter if we don't know right now who could be that guy in the end... And if that guy FINDS you, and you REJECT him because you don't want to love anyone else, who do you think will be the BIG looser, besides that guy?!
Sorry all the babbler, Ryuu... But I think, and I'm sure, that you have enough qualities for finding the man you've been looking for... Just take your time to heal yourself of all that shit you've lived and, after you're completely healed, keep looking for someone else!...
Just don't stop, please, because nobody of us, including your friends, and including me, wants that you become an embittered man or, even worst, another CYNICAL GAY MAN, or at least a frustrated one... Keep that in mind, please, because nobody of us is prepared for MISSING YOU already, okay? *hugs*
A Fav!! (But As a Sign of Support.) =^^= Don't give up, please, because we don't want to lose you .
awww bless but dont give up on relatiobship completely just yet, just take some time.
Truth is bi-sexualls usually turn out to be gay in the end with a few others probabaly confused, my best best is doesn;'t matter what type of person they are, always try. Sometime it take a while before you find someone to be happy with.
for me who once consider myself "bi" in the end myscale is leaning towards more gay relationship since i feel far more happy, although it took a few heartachaches along the way befor ei finnaly found someone I'm happy with
Truth is bi-sexualls usually turn out to be gay in the end with a few others probabaly confused, my best best is doesn;'t matter what type of person they are, always try. Sometime it take a while before you find someone to be happy with.
for me who once consider myself "bi" in the end myscale is leaning towards more gay relationship since i feel far more happy, although it took a few heartachaches along the way befor ei finnaly found someone I'm happy with
Awww, chin up Ryuu-san, hohoemi wo misete kudasi. :3 It was just bad luck to end up with the wrong people to be with. I don't really think sexuality had a factor in all of this, nor did you do anything wrong, it was mostly those people's stupid choices.
Just keep looking for that one person. You'll never find out if that one person is actually someone bi if you dismiss all of them. Besides, you're not the only person who has to wade through the cruel sea of bad people just to find that someone, I'm sure there are others who go through the same thing, and the root of it all would be whether both sides are interested in a serious relationship or not. Maybe you should look into that first before getting too attached to someone who may not really be interested, and if it doesn't work out, you can move on.
"Aruki tsuzukeyou," "ganbatteru," "akiramenaide," and all those inspirational words in japanese. >w> Hontou na ai wo motome tsuzukeyou to, shiawase wo mitsuketa~ ^w^
I could say it in english but everybody else already did. >w>
Just keep looking for that one person. You'll never find out if that one person is actually someone bi if you dismiss all of them. Besides, you're not the only person who has to wade through the cruel sea of bad people just to find that someone, I'm sure there are others who go through the same thing, and the root of it all would be whether both sides are interested in a serious relationship or not. Maybe you should look into that first before getting too attached to someone who may not really be interested, and if it doesn't work out, you can move on.
"Aruki tsuzukeyou," "ganbatteru," "akiramenaide," and all those inspirational words in japanese. >w> Hontou na ai wo motome tsuzukeyou to, shiawase wo mitsuketa~ ^w^
I could say it in english but everybody else already did. >w>
You've been used. Plain and simple. Would it make a difference if all these men were with other men behind your back? i don't think it would. Personally, I refer men myself but I have been known to be with women whome i found i had a connection with.
Love is Love no matter who you're with. Lust is lust and it doesn't matter who you take to bed (as long as it it a person who can consent legally) I'm sorry you were hurt. I've been there. All I can say is that Life goes in cycles and you will find someone special who won't hurt you I hope its soon dude
By the way, Its a great Pic
Love is Love no matter who you're with. Lust is lust and it doesn't matter who you take to bed (as long as it it a person who can consent legally) I'm sorry you were hurt. I've been there. All I can say is that Life goes in cycles and you will find someone special who won't hurt you I hope its soon dude
By the way, Its a great Pic
I love how people here are saying I don't exist, or I'm just indecisive because of the list of people I've been with. Sexuality isn't so black and white, and furries of all people should be able to appreciate the irony of trying to claim it is.
I personally believe in the Kisney scale, that very few people are entirely gay or straight, and most fall somewhere on a spectrum in between. Like you could be a gay male, but still find some women attractive. But, on the same logic, people can be right in the middle and be just about equal for men and women.
To me, denying bisexuality exists is like when Ahmadinejad said that gays don't exist in Iran. Just like a homosexual can just have an innate feeling that they are gay, somone can know by either self-exploration or from observing their own tendencies that they are equally attracted to both men and women. They don't need to "prove" anything to anyone to consider themselves Bi, the same way a hetero or homosexual shouldn't have to "prove" their sexuality based on someone else's perceptions.
Here's how I like to explain it. If you don't sleep more people outside your ethnic or racial group, does that make you a racist? After all, if you weren't racist, you'd wouldn't be staying mostly within your own group, right? Same goes for sexuality. Who you've dated is based on more factors than just personal preference, so to say "you've dated 3 guys but only 1 girl, so you must be totally gay but in denial" isn't a fair jugement to pass on someone.
I don't let the people I choose to be with define who I am, but at the same time it makes me sad that so many people would seek acceptance but dismiss others so quickly.
I personally believe in the Kisney scale, that very few people are entirely gay or straight, and most fall somewhere on a spectrum in between. Like you could be a gay male, but still find some women attractive. But, on the same logic, people can be right in the middle and be just about equal for men and women.
To me, denying bisexuality exists is like when Ahmadinejad said that gays don't exist in Iran. Just like a homosexual can just have an innate feeling that they are gay, somone can know by either self-exploration or from observing their own tendencies that they are equally attracted to both men and women. They don't need to "prove" anything to anyone to consider themselves Bi, the same way a hetero or homosexual shouldn't have to "prove" their sexuality based on someone else's perceptions.
Here's how I like to explain it. If you don't sleep more people outside your ethnic or racial group, does that make you a racist? After all, if you weren't racist, you'd wouldn't be staying mostly within your own group, right? Same goes for sexuality. Who you've dated is based on more factors than just personal preference, so to say "you've dated 3 guys but only 1 girl, so you must be totally gay but in denial" isn't a fair jugement to pass on someone.
I don't let the people I choose to be with define who I am, but at the same time it makes me sad that so many people would seek acceptance but dismiss others so quickly.
Just be Asexual like me. It's better that way.
Also, I can see where you're coming from. Bisexuality seemed to be a mainstream norm after all my friends left high school. Half of them jumped on the bandwagon and ran around screwing everything, but thankfully the other half kept to heterosexuality and as an unfortunate side effect, continue to add to our already overpopulated world.
TL;DR We all end up jaded by life experiences. I'm sure you can pull past this hardship though.
Also, I can see where you're coming from. Bisexuality seemed to be a mainstream norm after all my friends left high school. Half of them jumped on the bandwagon and ran around screwing everything, but thankfully the other half kept to heterosexuality and as an unfortunate side effect, continue to add to our already overpopulated world.
TL;DR We all end up jaded by life experiences. I'm sure you can pull past this hardship though.
That's true; asexuality isn't really something that comes naturally.
Well, just do whatever comes naturally to you; don't try to change yourself. Personally, I think that if you like someone, you like them. Gender doesn't matter for the most part; that's just some stigma that's been forced onto everyone by society, but I don't know too much about it. I've never been a romantic sort of person, so IDK.
Well, just do whatever comes naturally to you; don't try to change yourself. Personally, I think that if you like someone, you like them. Gender doesn't matter for the most part; that's just some stigma that's been forced onto everyone by society, but I don't know too much about it. I've never been a romantic sort of person, so IDK.
Seems more like you’ve just had a run of bad luck with people with allot of baggage than a bi thing.
Unfortunately, in relationships we have to cope with each other’s past and all that goes with it; and sometimes the other person just turns out to be a jerk.
Try not to be so down.
Unfortunately, in relationships we have to cope with each other’s past and all that goes with it; and sometimes the other person just turns out to be a jerk.
Try not to be so down.
i guess it natural to feel like that, but why r u lookin for someone to love so desperately? sry but i see it that way, i do believe that bisexual ppl do like both genders, i dun think they're gay in denial, most likely the guys u dated were most likely gay in denial, but that does not apply for everyone that have sex with both women and men, they do enjoy embrace both women and men, they're not confused, sayin that would be like sayin im confuse cuz i like men, maybe im in no position to give a critique but thats how i feel and think, after all u must rememberthat ur dealin with MEN and we MEN are natural born jerks, some are born with low jerkiness some are not, think of that
I can't understand bisexuals at all. Its nice in theory: being able to love anyone for themselves regardless of gender; but we all know that's not the way it really works. I try not to think of it in the Latino way [giver is not gay (not bi) because he is fucking like a man, receiver is gay because he is taking role of woman; and most of the time being a woman = bad in general] but I found it hard to believe that someone can really like both sexes in a sexual way truly and isn't just looking for any hole to screw. I'm with you, pick a side.
It's hard to find someone you feel a deep connection with who isn't a total ass. Good luck finding that person! If the old hand gets tired, however, there's always craigslist (or equivalent in your country I hope), that way you both know what it is going in (just don't forget the condoms). Though that also leaves you feeling empty afterward... :(
It's hard to find someone you feel a deep connection with who isn't a total ass. Good luck finding that person! If the old hand gets tired, however, there's always craigslist (or equivalent in your country I hope), that way you both know what it is going in (just don't forget the condoms). Though that also leaves you feeling empty afterward... :(
Maybe I am wrong but I don't believe in Bisexuality. I think that sexuality is not as simple as prefering both chocolate and strawberry. I have notcied that people that says "I am bisexual" are
1) experimenting a fad because they don't know what is that
2) they are GAYS but don't want to fully admit it
I don't believe the "yeah I had a girlfriend but decided to embrace an alternative lifestyle" ....
BS I say. You were closeted and now you got out. End of story
1) experimenting a fad because they don't know what is that
2) they are GAYS but don't want to fully admit it
I don't believe the "yeah I had a girlfriend but decided to embrace an alternative lifestyle" ....
BS I say. You were closeted and now you got out. End of story
That was my opinion, once.
I met a guy that was bi, and it was almost impossible to say that he was gay, but didn't wanted to admit, neither some guy who was just experimenting.
It's weird but, he had a girlfriend AND a boyfriend. It was somekind of open relationship y'know?
And JESUS he really loved the both of them, I mean, REALLY loved
I just can't see the way like they liked each other like some super friendship because it couldn't be, no way sir!
Why do you have to be attracted to only one gender? The human head is too way complex to be such a limitation.
That is what I believe ._.
I met a guy that was bi, and it was almost impossible to say that he was gay, but didn't wanted to admit, neither some guy who was just experimenting.
It's weird but, he had a girlfriend AND a boyfriend. It was somekind of open relationship y'know?
And JESUS he really loved the both of them, I mean, REALLY loved
I just can't see the way like they liked each other like some super friendship because it couldn't be, no way sir!
Why do you have to be attracted to only one gender? The human head is too way complex to be such a limitation.
That is what I believe ._.
Because that bi-person dominates them BOTH! He has privilege to choose either one of them. the girl might be considered normal to like him likewise. But the man who loves him? Society will ignore it and claim it as abnormal. The bi-person could be happy with both. the gay guy, is NOT!
The bi-person would take a safe route of society by liking the girl and dissing the gay. Eventually.
The bi-person would take a safe route of society by liking the girl and dissing the gay. Eventually.
Wait... the comic WASN'T intended to be funny? Is... is it bad that I laughed?? ^^;
Uh... anyhow, sorry to hear about how things turned out with your last couple of guys. Reading the comments and the sparked debate going on within them, though, has been pretty interesting, speaking from the perspective of one of the subjects of said debate. ... I'm tempted to jump into the argument myself, but the people above me already made mentioned all the points I was thinking of making.
But anyhow, screw all that. I just hope that ya eventually do luck out and find someone who'll make you happy and bring you back to your usual, perky, cheerful, kitty-ish self. :3 Embittered emo kitty ain't nearly as fun. :P
Uh... anyhow, sorry to hear about how things turned out with your last couple of guys. Reading the comments and the sparked debate going on within them, though, has been pretty interesting, speaking from the perspective of one of the subjects of said debate. ... I'm tempted to jump into the argument myself, but the people above me already made mentioned all the points I was thinking of making.
But anyhow, screw all that. I just hope that ya eventually do luck out and find someone who'll make you happy and bring you back to your usual, perky, cheerful, kitty-ish self. :3 Embittered emo kitty ain't nearly as fun. :P
Well, everyone got his opinion, but he got singed. You gotta learn of that.
To me there are these alternatives, there is Bi, and gets it on with whatever gender, or the percentage thing, in which someone could say he/she is x % gay / y % straight, or there are people who think with its gonads, and live to the satisfaction of that part of their anatomy.
To me there are these alternatives, there is Bi, and gets it on with whatever gender, or the percentage thing, in which someone could say he/she is x % gay / y % straight, or there are people who think with its gonads, and live to the satisfaction of that part of their anatomy.
From the overrated labels, I found at least three things the same.
They seem to be ashamed of any boyfriend status they were(?) having, as if the boyfriend is/was a disgrace to them, they (the Boy Friend) have to be taken like "nothing happened", "you don't exist" or "we didn't do it so get lost".
Seriously
They seem to be ashamed of any boyfriend status they were(?) having, as if the boyfriend is/was a disgrace to them, they (the Boy Friend) have to be taken like "nothing happened", "you don't exist" or "we didn't do it so get lost".
Seriously
I kinda of understand your point. For me it's hard too to find a person that reches my perspective of the ideal lover. If they're gay they're girly to a freaking out point and if they are manly they're bisexuals, married or experimenting but not looking a male companion. Why I cannot find a gay partner that is manly? Or a bi looking really for a male partner and not just some kind of adventure? But maybe a bi would be painful since he can return to the "other" side whenever he felt and that ould leave me alone, and I'm pretty emotive.
I know it's sad but don't worry, they say the harder the way the better ending it will have. Sometimes when your love way is hard and sad it ends up calm and pleasant. It's just matter of having hope.
I know it's sad but don't worry, they say the harder the way the better ending it will have. Sometimes when your love way is hard and sad it ends up calm and pleasant. It's just matter of having hope.
If they're gay they're girly to a freaking out point and if they are manly they're bisexuals, married or experimenting but not looking a male companion. Why I cannot find a gay partner that is manly? Or a bi looking really for a male partner and not just some kind of adventure? But maybe a bi would be painful since he can return to the "other" side whenever he felt and that ould leave me alone, and I'm pretty emotive
Are you sure you're not my doppelganger?
Are you sure you're not my doppelganger?
Don't know. If you're childish for your age, like games mainly for the story and not for the bloodshed, and like romantic yet somehow pervy stories, Then maybe one of us was borned by the reflection of the other in a magical mirror. Hey, good plot for an story, gotta go to write something...
Also, I'm practicing my drawing but I'm still not as good as some persons (Ahem...You). But I'm keeping my head up because I know someday I will be a good fur/yaoi/manga artist. I'm good at literature works like stories and even giving cool names to my chars (plenty of people likes those names) like my main char: Lance Von Alden (Gosh, I will never be tired of this name, so cool!)
Haha. Maybe. *Run away to a safe spot and send smoke signals*. But there is a theory about Dopplegangers that said that if there are two equals in one dimension then every other dimmension would balance the equation making two equals too. So maybe, just maybe, the universe won't explode if we have contact with each other, but for precautions...*Gives hand to shake using latex gloves*.
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NOOOOO!!!!
Argh!! What!!??
DArn i cant kept it inside 4 ever... soon or later it will blowup to anyway...
I...
I....
FElt THE SAME as this Comic!!
Atleast i still fightin the dark side of me...
Dark Side: U will never surpass me! hahahaHAHAHAHA!!!!
LIght Side: Fight it! i know u were not distorted! ... couse u not suppose 2 be like that!
argh!! WAAAHH!!
Dark Side: Hahahaha.. i know u enjoy it hahaha accept it!
Light Side: NO!! Think Straight ! u nor meant to be like that..
But ... but how?.....
Light Side: Belief The ONE!.. U not like That!...
ooo... kay i DO my Best to endure...
Dark Side:!!! What!... i c..... let c bout that!.... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
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NOOOOO!!!!
Argh!! What!!??
DArn i cant kept it inside 4 ever... soon or later it will blowup to anyway...
I...
I....
FElt THE SAME as this Comic!!
Atleast i still fightin the dark side of me...
Dark Side: U will never surpass me! hahahaHAHAHAHA!!!!
LIght Side: Fight it! i know u were not distorted! ... couse u not suppose 2 be like that!
argh!! WAAAHH!!
Dark Side: Hahahaha.. i know u enjoy it hahaha accept it!
Light Side: NO!! Think Straight ! u nor meant to be like that..
But ... but how?.....
Light Side: Belief The ONE!.. U not like That!...
ooo... kay i DO my Best to endure...
Dark Side:!!! What!... i c..... let c bout that!.... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
My my, you remind me of myself a kind of decade ago.
I don't mean to be discourage you but, believe me. Denial never works. My father's a relatively pious Imam. I spent some times in religious school and boarding house , day and night (and between) and believe me, it worsened and eventually, i [url=http://www.furaffinity.net/view/1994232/]came out[/url, thanks to someone who was reluctant to do the same and I ended up trashed alone.
I don't mean to be discourage you but, believe me. Denial never works. My father's a relatively pious Imam. I spent some times in religious school and boarding house , day and night (and between) and believe me, it worsened and eventually, i [url=http://www.furaffinity.net/view/1994232/]came out[/url, thanks to someone who was reluctant to do the same and I ended up trashed alone.
You seem to have your censor option ON. Go here ( http://www.furaffinity.net/controls/settings/ ), and in View Mature Artwork, set the option to YES.
And go to the same link again.
And go to the same link again.
Dark ? maybe..... but in every pitch dark there is blink of light... and in the bright light there is shadow.....
suddenly it came out... hahaha
LS: Heh heh
DS: Hahaha
LS: There always a hope...
DS: There always a pest...
can both of you Shut The FU$% UP... stop messin with my mind... to noisy rite now!....
LS:.......
DS:.. CANNOT!! Denied! hahahhahaha... now you enter the dark side... submit fully!
Argh!...
suddenly it came out... hahaha
LS: Heh heh
DS: Hahaha
LS: There always a hope...
DS: There always a pest...
can both of you Shut The FU$% UP... stop messin with my mind... to noisy rite now!....
LS:.......
DS:.. CANNOT!! Denied! hahahhahaha... now you enter the dark side... submit fully!
Argh!...
WOW!!! i dint xpect it be that dark... waaayyy tooo dark... hahahhahaha!
DS: YEs YES YES YES!!!!
LS: NO ! No! No!... (i cant just sit here and watch.. must do somethin or this worsening)
HEEHEHHEEHEEHeeehee!!!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! (evil lough - flawlessly. [with thunder effect at the back])
DS: YEs YES YES YES!!!!
LS: NO ! No! No!... (i cant just sit here and watch.. must do somethin or this worsening)
HEEHEHHEEHEEHeeehee!!!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! (evil lough - flawlessly. [with thunder effect at the back])
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