It's not an abnormal thing or even disrespectful by the way, on the festival of death. For centuries, there was, well... the death penalty for anyone being caught celebrating this peculiar holiday, because of the nasty, "undying" memory of Ancernan's cult of death. But the Festival of Death has nothing to do with it. Does eating nearby the tombs cruelly taunt the dead buried there? well... it does, as much as it infuses life vibes down in their necropolis... that is to say, it does nothing at all. They're dead regardless.

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