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"It was his idea. We went to a fetish shop in the city, Kinky Cosmo Fetish Shop. It was really my first time in a shop like that, but not his. He has a very active imagination and thought that we needed to make our sexual activities a little more entertaining. I let him do most of the shopping, to pick out what would be interesting to try out in bed. We left with a bag full of objects and clothes. That night, we decided to try out our new equipment. When I was unpacking the bag, I found many toys and uniforms that I never expected him to pick out. I thought he was going to get something simple, but he took it to the extra mile. His kinks were more complicated than mine. Now we are on the bed. He is naked and waiting to get started while I’m still going through the bag with an unsure look upon my face.
"With a leash attached to his new collar and the other end in my hand, I really had no other words to say to him except 'down boy'..."
Failed Fetish © 2009 Alex Cockburn
"With a leash attached to his new collar and the other end in my hand, I really had no other words to say to him except 'down boy'..."
Failed Fetish © 2009 Alex Cockburn
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I think the key is explaining them to a potential lover before this kind of awkward situation happens. Communication is essential in any relationship, but ten times as much (at LEAST) in a relationship which explores such aspects of sexuality.
Rather than repressing your kinks, try to find someone with similar interests and kinks. Or at least talk about them before you try to do them. If they say 'hmm... that's too far out there for me...' then fine. That's their decision. Don't be discouraged, with billions of people around the world, there's sure to be someone out there who shares your interests
Rather than repressing your kinks, try to find someone with similar interests and kinks. Or at least talk about them before you try to do them. If they say 'hmm... that's too far out there for me...' then fine. That's their decision. Don't be discouraged, with billions of people around the world, there's sure to be someone out there who shares your interests
Thanks kristof and Clyde_Dale for your inputs! I will keep both of those in mind!
It kinda sounds complicated to me. While it prolly shouldn't be expected that your mate will share EVERY interest in common with you, I feel like this is one of those things that if you don't have in common it could make things problematic down the line. Since I'm the regretful type, I'd feel hesitant to risk sharing mai kinks, but then again I'm never really get in those situations in the first place cuz of shyness.
It kinda sounds complicated to me. While it prolly shouldn't be expected that your mate will share EVERY interest in common with you, I feel like this is one of those things that if you don't have in common it could make things problematic down the line. Since I'm the regretful type, I'd feel hesitant to risk sharing mai kinks, but then again I'm never really get in those situations in the first place cuz of shyness.
An old military saying... forgot who originally coined the phrase...
"He fears his fate too much, and all his gains are small
Who will not put it to the touch... to win or loose it all"
In other words, if you never risk anything, you fail by proxy due to lack of attempting to succeed. I can understand shyness... I've gone a few rounds with that myself... just know that there is a difference between "Ewww... get away from me, creep" and "I appreciate the offer, but no thanks". The latter can still be a good friend.
"He fears his fate too much, and all his gains are small
Who will not put it to the touch... to win or loose it all"
In other words, if you never risk anything, you fail by proxy due to lack of attempting to succeed. I can understand shyness... I've gone a few rounds with that myself... just know that there is a difference between "Ewww... get away from me, creep" and "I appreciate the offer, but no thanks". The latter can still be a good friend.
That's great! I'm still planning on getting a pair of handcuffs for my BF, so we can play later. He's not so sure about them though. He doesn't like not being able to move. But he does do very well when I just tell him to hold one position as though he were bound. Very much fun....
Bah, she needs to stop taking it so serious - in the end, it is about being together and doing something totally out there. Nobody says you have to "win" at it, or do it "correctly", or even do it with a straight face...
"Down, boy" is a good thing to start it off with anyway - he looks like he'd like to hear that
"Down, boy" is a good thing to start it off with anyway - he looks like he'd like to hear that
bawwww i feel bad for him. I like how I can look at this and find it funny but also rather disappointing. I like it when a couple finds new ways to make more activities for their sex life, kind of a downer when it doesn't work. Because when two people are on different sexual fields, it usually gets complicated and stale afterwards.
Nyaaaa nothing worse then having a fetish you love more then anything and a partner that doesn't like it and is turned off by it..... *pokes my Kira Tiger* But the sweetest thing is when they try to like it and do it for you anyways with a cute little lewd smile. *hugs my Tiger tight and kisses her* Almost nothing compares to that kind of love.
http://kisenctech.deviantart.com/ar.....Life-154267059 <--It's safe for me to assume that this person stole this image from you, right? If you've got a dA, you can report it and it'll be taken down faster than if I do it....
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