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Since I know people are going to quibble with me on the first one: The old 7 years rule is not quite accurate. More info here: http://www.dogyears.com/
Also, whenever I see anyone say they're going to be together forever I get kind of an 'unsinkable ship' vibe. Know what I mean, Vern?
Since I know people are going to quibble with me on the first one: The old 7 years rule is not quite accurate. More info here: http://www.dogyears.com/
Also, whenever I see anyone say they're going to be together forever I get kind of an 'unsinkable ship' vibe. Know what I mean, Vern?
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Most of the relationships I see inside the fandom that use the 'mates for life' tag are three things: male-male, young and immature. It was a poke at how as boys we're predispositioned to work hard on the hunt and have no idea what to do when we finally get there. :P We obviously don't have a monopoly on foolishness, but it's impossible not to notice in numbers.
One thing that kinda reminds me of the mates thing is how defensive or weird people get when you mention that they may not be with whoever they're with forever. 8D I know it's weird and that it makes sense why people would get defensive about it - you have to believe in your relationship for it to be a good one, but I till think it's just kinda odd.
Well, saying "oh you may not be together forever" randomly to a couple (which I've seen people do) while technically true, is kind of a dick move.
Of course, I'm a divorcee... but it was a relationship that I was involved with for 5 years long distance and hitched for four! So that sort of counts?
Of course, I'm a divorcee... but it was a relationship that I was involved with for 5 years long distance and hitched for four! So that sort of counts?
Of course the above chart, I think, applies mpore to teenagers (or the emotionally immature); when I was in high school, I totally wrapped myself and my life around my girlfriend, proposed, and figured she'd always love me as much as I loved her.
Then, when I graduated a year after her, and worked on getting an apartment that would be big enough for us both, still allow her to able able to attend the same high school for her senior year, and be close to my job, she stopped talking to me and cheated on me with a friend. And then dumped me. For forgiving her.
She recently sent me a friend request on Facebook. O_o
Then, when I graduated a year after her, and worked on getting an apartment that would be big enough for us both, still allow her to able able to attend the same high school for her senior year, and be close to my job, she stopped talking to me and cheated on me with a friend. And then dumped me. For forgiving her.
She recently sent me a friend request on Facebook. O_o
i think it can depending on the situation and relationship, cause there are so many types of loves... difficult and must stand the test of time, some unrequited and others stone solid in your heart, but in the return it's always worth it ^^ you can learn alot from it too ^^
what's funny about this comment is that my hubs an i were really awesome friends (like... cohorts in crime sometimes... we always got into mischief in high school, lol nothing illegal of course, haha. we were still really innocent) before he asked me out halfway through school. an we've been together for 5 (almost 6) years now (2 years married) XD
being friends first is definitely a plus to most relationships. cause it helps to have things in common and have a good base relationship before rushing into something serious if it comes to that ^^ but that's a personal opinion ^^ it is different for everybody of course. ^__^
being friends first is definitely a plus to most relationships. cause it helps to have things in common and have a good base relationship before rushing into something serious if it comes to that ^^ but that's a personal opinion ^^ it is different for everybody of course. ^__^
last one is sad but true XD
thanks god im an exception to that rule, finding true love was easy for me, i just had to move to the other side of the world,learn a new language in 6 months, be almost arrested for beating someone to protect a girl, then, asking this girl out after a month...
thanks god im an exception to that rule, finding true love was easy for me, i just had to move to the other side of the world,learn a new language in 6 months, be almost arrested for beating someone to protect a girl, then, asking this girl out after a month...
I go into my relationships now with the sense that hey, I'm 23, this will probably not last forever. If it does, hurrah, but in all likelyhood, it won't. I enjoy the relationship for what it is and I do the art thing and the goofy stuff, but if things aren't working out it doesn't matter.
Also, I find that it's especially bad to go into a relationship thinking you can "rescue" someone. Horrible idea.
Also, I find that it's especially bad to go into a relationship thinking you can "rescue" someone. Horrible idea.
Well this is why I'd love to be with my boyfriend and marry him someday, but the key word is someday and the implication is that if shit happens and we're not perfect for each other then that's just it.
Still, the fact we don't really fight or conflict about much is pretty promising. The only issues we've had lately is parents. :/
Still, the fact we don't really fight or conflict about much is pretty promising. The only issues we've had lately is parents. :/
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