brought me to watch Meet The Feebles at Califur and in it was some cute porcupine puppet that couldn't pronounce his R's. He was just a real sweetie. :D He was like the only innocent romantic male in the whole movie.Anyways, compared to the dumb flirting I do online I feel like I'd be a huge let down to anyone sweet like that, but I guess it's also pretty unrealistic to think that there are people that are actually as distanced from sexuality as they are in movies or cartoons.
Even so, I guess I wouldn't be cut out for it, sex is a part of life and I guess I'm too flirty for unbelievable innocence. :B
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Don't worry about how ya sound, someone that can say what they want and not care is very tough. :D
I had someone romantic in person before! But then when we were far away ofline he got too lonely... so even if you do find someone really nice, just getting to be close to them can still be difficult. D:
Hehe, that's life. ;P
I had someone romantic in person before! But then when we were far away ofline he got too lonely... so even if you do find someone really nice, just getting to be close to them can still be difficult. D:
Hehe, that's life. ;P
That's actually quite the way to be in a relationship. :)
My wife and I often find ourselves at our happiest when we are just enjoying times together. No expectations, nothing forced, just two people who are in the same room together watching TV, or playing Mario Kart, or sharing stories.
Quite honestly, I feel the real trick to a relationship is not looking for one. Rather, you follow your feelings and develop a great friendship with someone. Eventually, you come to realize that you enjoy just being around one another and don't require other people to have good times together. Once this happens, the next step from "friendship" to "relationship" can begin.
As for sex, well, it happens. However, you can still be "innocent" about it. I mean, people don't neccessarily need to jump out of nowhere and say, "LET'S DO IT!" Sometimes just a simple moment like sitting with each other, a few words taken in special context, and the holding of hands can result in a most unexpected encounter. There's also the possibility of just saying something goofy that ends up being taken as flirty and, well, TA-DA! It's all about being yourself and seeing where each encounter takes you that can turn something innocent into something more. ;)
The true key to success in anything is just having the confidence in yourself to, well, be happy with yourself. Project that joy of you and others will be infected by it and the doors of opportunity will open. Don't worry so much about adapting to what you may think other people may want to see, because, if they don't like you as is, it won't work anyway. Go forth and do not fear being a "let down." Just be you and you will be loved. :)
My wife and I often find ourselves at our happiest when we are just enjoying times together. No expectations, nothing forced, just two people who are in the same room together watching TV, or playing Mario Kart, or sharing stories.
Quite honestly, I feel the real trick to a relationship is not looking for one. Rather, you follow your feelings and develop a great friendship with someone. Eventually, you come to realize that you enjoy just being around one another and don't require other people to have good times together. Once this happens, the next step from "friendship" to "relationship" can begin.
As for sex, well, it happens. However, you can still be "innocent" about it. I mean, people don't neccessarily need to jump out of nowhere and say, "LET'S DO IT!" Sometimes just a simple moment like sitting with each other, a few words taken in special context, and the holding of hands can result in a most unexpected encounter. There's also the possibility of just saying something goofy that ends up being taken as flirty and, well, TA-DA! It's all about being yourself and seeing where each encounter takes you that can turn something innocent into something more. ;)
The true key to success in anything is just having the confidence in yourself to, well, be happy with yourself. Project that joy of you and others will be infected by it and the doors of opportunity will open. Don't worry so much about adapting to what you may think other people may want to see, because, if they don't like you as is, it won't work anyway. Go forth and do not fear being a "let down." Just be you and you will be loved. :)
Hehe, that's what I'd think! :3 I'm sure some people want constant excitement and action.. but I think if you can be with someone whether things are like that or not and just be glad you're with them, then that's what's important. (:
I agree with it being best when you don't try to look for love or a relationship... something internal and gradual I think is much more solid. I guess that's why rebound relationships usually don't work out - since there's something they really and and once they don't have it they have to cling to something else... I think? And worse off, it's more likely that you want what you lost and are looking for it in someone else. :B
Hmm.. I think that sounds about right to me too! I guess everyone's kinda different about sex in hteir own way, so I'm sure some would still have an innocent sort of approach to it. :3
I'll keep trying to work on these things, at least I get to learn a lot through talking to you and my other pals and a bit through experience too!
I agree with it being best when you don't try to look for love or a relationship... something internal and gradual I think is much more solid. I guess that's why rebound relationships usually don't work out - since there's something they really and and once they don't have it they have to cling to something else... I think? And worse off, it's more likely that you want what you lost and are looking for it in someone else. :B
Hmm.. I think that sounds about right to me too! I guess everyone's kinda different about sex in hteir own way, so I'm sure some would still have an innocent sort of approach to it. :3
I'll keep trying to work on these things, at least I get to learn a lot through talking to you and my other pals and a bit through experience too!
Indeed. And, in the end, what really counts is that you never give up on yourself.
I was a total reject to the opposite sex all my years and felt I'd never find anyone who'd appreciate an overly creative (wacky), blind guy. Then, out of nowhere, I met my wife and, to this day, she gives me actual praise for being who I am and for what I can accomplish.
I look forward to hearing of the day you find yourself that special someone, Oxnard. Whoever it is will certainly be a most fortunate soul to have the opportunity to spend their days with such a dedicated and creative individual.
I was a total reject to the opposite sex all my years and felt I'd never find anyone who'd appreciate an overly creative (wacky), blind guy. Then, out of nowhere, I met my wife and, to this day, she gives me actual praise for being who I am and for what I can accomplish.
I look forward to hearing of the day you find yourself that special someone, Oxnard. Whoever it is will certainly be a most fortunate soul to have the opportunity to spend their days with such a dedicated and creative individual.
As a Christian, I contemplate how a child is produced from the passionate love between a mother and father. I believe that sex is innocent and proper within a (unrelated) man and woman who really and truly regard each other as family -- having no intention of leaving each other or seeing other partners (the thing marriage is supposed to be about). This is how I believe friendship works.
My belief is that marriage is a result of friends becoming best friends who eventually learn they feel best to wake up to each other in the morning and are eager to be together at night. There is trust, communication, and determination to make sure "Until Death Due us Part" remains this and nothing less.
Sadly, it seems society, largely celebrities, have made marriage into a joke and, well, it gets tossed aside like it was just a car you got bored with or toy that you stopped liking because you found something better.
*Shrugs*
Sadly, it seems society, largely celebrities, have made marriage into a joke and, well, it gets tossed aside like it was just a car you got bored with or toy that you stopped liking because you found something better.
*Shrugs*
I'm sure ya probably mean well buddy. (: It just sounds like maybe you're really in character talking about friendship, but it kinda sounds judgmental in a not-so-good way. I dunno if you know Yosh-e-o, but he's been dealing with marriage and divorce issues, so it's uncomfortable seeing someone dig around in comments and talk to him about things that might trouble him further. Just don't go overboard, I suppose. :3
D'aww, thanks. (: Well I guess I wasn't very flirty since I only really thought of ya as a friend. (You were taken or crushing on someone most the time we talked anywho!)
But it was fun opening up with ya online and seeing ya twice in person too. :B That one girl that came with us the first time still mentions how much fun she had.
But it was fun opening up with ya online and seeing ya twice in person too. :B That one girl that came with us the first time still mentions how much fun she had.
Was crushing and still am, yeah, but that doesn't mean you can't be all flirty :P It's definitely been an interesting 6 years (Yeah it's been that long, crazy eh?), and there's been plenty of fun times and more to be had I'm sure. You should come spend a day with us in disneyland whenever we go again :D
I wish I had a computer that grew out of a beanstalk. 8D
And psh, who cares if you're not a good flirt in person? Although I'm sure they'd be disappointed given what they expect from you, at least this gives anyone a heads up. :3
And I enjoy the style you used on this picture; the shading on the porcupine and the lineart is wunderbar. :D
GOOD JERBLES
And psh, who cares if you're not a good flirt in person? Although I'm sure they'd be disappointed given what they expect from you, at least this gives anyone a heads up. :3
And I enjoy the style you used on this picture; the shading on the porcupine and the lineart is wunderbar. :D
GOOD JERBLES
Beanstalk computer stands are so stylish! Just don't bump into it! ;O;
Oh, no, I can flirt a lot in person too, and do it without even noticing, or to genders I didn't mean to give signals too!
Thanks! :3 I wasn't sure what to do, I took a picture of this instead of scanning but the lines were awful... so I just kinda picked a tool and redid it. :B
GREAT JERBLES
Oh, no, I can flirt a lot in person too, and do it without even noticing, or to genders I didn't mean to give signals too!
Thanks! :3 I wasn't sure what to do, I took a picture of this instead of scanning but the lines were awful... so I just kinda picked a tool and redid it. :B
GREAT JERBLES
OnO your never loose around ME!
There is something to be said for developing a lovable character that doesn't get involved in porn. I think I'd like to do a story like that someday. I'm not sure I could resist the urge to make them have sex with someone though. Like if it fit with the story and the character and everything. o3o
There is something to be said for developing a lovable character that doesn't get involved in porn. I think I'd like to do a story like that someday. I'm not sure I could resist the urge to make them have sex with someone though. Like if it fit with the story and the character and everything. o3o
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