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This... is actually a vent pic I needed to get done. Red is my fursona, so it makes sense to put him there... except that Red in his canon doesn't have issues like this... I on the other hand, do.
kaboozlefaThis... is actually a vent pic I needed to get done. Red is my fursona, so it makes sense to put him there... except that Red in his canon doesn't have issues like this... I on the other hand, do.
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The voices speak loudly but say so little.
They try to wiggle into your head with a smudge of a grain of truth but they offer no real solutions, no real constructive criticism, just point out flaw after flaw like some arm chair director.
Such voices are best left ignored or spent on actual productivity, self contemplation, hanging with friends actually making yourself happy : o. Don't listen to em dude! Hope you feel better..
They try to wiggle into your head with a smudge of a grain of truth but they offer no real solutions, no real constructive criticism, just point out flaw after flaw like some arm chair director.
Such voices are best left ignored or spent on actual productivity, self contemplation, hanging with friends actually making yourself happy : o. Don't listen to em dude! Hope you feel better..
It's true we all make mistakes and juge ourselves but being ourselves and dealing with our flaws is not a weakness. Showing our flaws and making errors can help us build ourselves to greater hights and become a better person.I always enjoy seeing other people art to see what I can't do and this shows I'm not perfect and have much to learn even if someone seids you draw amazing or it's perfect. I know it's hard to love yourself and what you do but if you draw something you do have enjoyment and passion for it remember no ones perfect and I will be a support of your work always from the fan letter guy.
Hope you understand what I seid and this helps😃
Hope you understand what I seid and this helps😃
We all have ton of issues we're all trying to work out. It can be hard, too. Most of us just put a mask on and hide how we feel everyday in our lives, but eventually the feelings of mistakes and wrongs can get the better of us fast. Though that's basically normal in the world. Everything can't always be right. If they were, then this world would be far pass its potential. And yet it isn't. But doesn't mean learning from our mistake is wrong. By doing that, we could actually feel better about ourselves and go through life easily and not feel so guilty. From before, we all have problems, but does not mean they can't be worked out and solved. I hope whatever is bugging and solved soon.
On the last place I worked at, the managers pointed out that they've noticed how hard I am on myself, but this is sadly something that just shows up randomly several times a week, and there's no way for me to control it. Nor will it ever go away ultimatly as it's a mental disability. It's there for life.
I never said I hated them, nor have I talked shit bout them behind their backs. I just have difficulty controlling my tone and... with how much mom's nagged on me over the years, I often think 'okay what is she gonna yell at me this time for?' even though she doesn't yell at all.
As one being diagnosed with Asperger's myself, I understand how it and depression/anxiety tend to go hand-in-hand. I know coping with it can be difficult, and even dealing with others treating you like a nutcase sometimes since they don't know. I know about those little voices in the back of your mind as well, and they sometimes drive me to complete panic if I feel like I messed up. Sometimes since I speak bluntly I hurt someone without realizing too late and feeling like a jackass afterwards...
I do understand how you feel, but try not to let it take hold of your life. There are always people who are willing to lend an ear or shoulder to lean on.
I do understand how you feel, but try not to let it take hold of your life. There are always people who are willing to lend an ear or shoulder to lean on.
As you can ready one reply above, I wasn't diagnosed with it until about 1½ year ago. I accidentally lost a friendship from one really fucking bad joke, and I made someone quit at work after being too blunt or something. As she stormed out and slammed the door, all I said after that was 'What did I do!?'
They mainly only show up when I fuck up in some way, or I get guilt tripped. I wonder if you're as easy to guilt trip as me...
They mainly only show up when I fuck up in some way, or I get guilt tripped. I wonder if you're as easy to guilt trip as me...
I was diagnosed with it when I was four, and yeah, that's pretty much what it's like. But the other end of what it's like, at least for me, is short-term memory just kind of...disappearing. Important thoughts fading in and out like weird ghosts or stars, and when I need them, sometimes, they're just not there. And I accidentally make people mad over it. Plus, there's the whole voices thing that happens, but it doesn't happen quite as often, comparatively speaking. When it does happen, though, it gets pretty bad...
I don't have a solution for you, but I'm already considering taking anger management classes, because if there's one thing people like me with Asperger's are good at, it's getting very, very angry. And I really just want that to stop. So if you feel like you need any outside help of some sort, then go for it. Otherwise, the ball's in your court. But I hope you've had a fairly good life living with Asperger's so far.
I don't have a solution for you, but I'm already considering taking anger management classes, because if there's one thing people like me with Asperger's are good at, it's getting very, very angry. And I really just want that to stop. So if you feel like you need any outside help of some sort, then go for it. Otherwise, the ball's in your court. But I hope you've had a fairly good life living with Asperger's so far.
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