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I lost someone very dear to me today. I feel like I lost a part of myself.
You'll be missed, QuasiSkunk. More than words can describe.
You'll be missed, QuasiSkunk. More than words can describe.
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I knew him from way back when I was going to cons all the time. The last time I saw him was MFF 2009 or so. I would usually run into him at MFF, MFM, AC (back when it was still at the Adam's Mark). He was one of the folks who I always remembered and who always remembered me, you know? There was like a 5-year break from conventions before MFF 2009, but he still knew me when I came up and said hi. Like we'd just talked the day before or something. And I have to figure he was like that for a lot of folks. He just seemed to care about other people. He was always volunteering however he could, helping with this or that, whether it was a small event or a big con. He was always kind to folks. I never heard him talk bad about someone else behind their back, you know?
One time we had a sort of camping trip furry con thing... I forget where exactly. A lot of the folks from St. Louis were there so I think it was in Missouri. This was early 2000's. We had this whole little camping area rented out. He was showing off what seemed like it must be his most prized possession, this little tiny bottle of musk that he was absolutely not going to open. X) I dunno where he got it. I remember us all having tents set up and stuff. I think we had campfire stories one night, and maybe we went to a cave system on the last day. Not a lot of people, maybe 50 or so? I know I went really last-minute, relatively quick trip from where I was living at the time. But, yeah, again, talking to him it was always like we'd just left off from the last conversation.
The interesting thing is that I don't remember *how* I met him exactly. It wasn't like somebody introduced me, I don't think. I didn't have some "in" lol. He was just always approachable. You didn't have to be "important" for him to talk to you, and I don't think he ever considered himself "important" even though he was. He was a humble dude. I never saw him blow somebody off at all.
I totally know what you mean. Also what you mentioned about how he always remembered you - Quasi never picked favorites, and he truly treated everyone like a treasured friend. No matter the time between your visits - he always greeted you like a long lost best friend and truly, its a very unique trait. He will be sorely missed. Thank you for sharing your stories <3
And that was part of it too. If everyone in the world was fighting, Quasi was probably the person they were all still talking to lol. He was a mediator, sort of like the furry community's own personal Switzerland. He would always listen at least as much as he'd talk.
It's been too long since I got to talk to him last, but I remember his voice, his expressions, his mannerisms, his glasses. :P He was a little dude with a bigger personality than most tall folks have. I'll remember him. One of my first friends in the community, one of the best people. Always gonna be the first skunk I think of. So sad right now, but so happy to know that people will remember how wonderful he was.
It's been too long since I got to talk to him last, but I remember his voice, his expressions, his mannerisms, his glasses. :P He was a little dude with a bigger personality than most tall folks have. I'll remember him. One of my first friends in the community, one of the best people. Always gonna be the first skunk I think of. So sad right now, but so happy to know that people will remember how wonderful he was.
I had to have known Quasi since at least 2004 or 2005. he friended me on LiveJournal and I'd met him in person at MFM and FWA a few times. He was always pretty friendly to me and was only rude once, when I stood in a hallway as he was pushing around a big registration cart at FWA (which he often volunteered at as well). I was always jealous of his massive skunk-gear collection which he'd acquired through years of eBay addiction.
We didn't always agree on everything (especially politically) but he was generally pretty respectful. We had a falling out recently over some furry chatroom drama (that admittedly I had a large hand in) and I tried very hard to reconnect with him, and I'm sad to say I failed to do so before his untimely demise.
It's horrible to lose so many good furs this year. Fuck 2016.
We didn't always agree on everything (especially politically) but he was generally pretty respectful. We had a falling out recently over some furry chatroom drama (that admittedly I had a large hand in) and I tried very hard to reconnect with him, and I'm sad to say I failed to do so before his untimely demise.
It's horrible to lose so many good furs this year. Fuck 2016.
*hugs you* T_T
same here I know how it feels
when I heard the news the other night I couldn't stop crying the rest of the night and I made myself absent for a few days just for some alone time
I never met him face to face but I have known him on FA for four years since I joined he was a good friend
same here I know how it feels
when I heard the news the other night I couldn't stop crying the rest of the night and I made myself absent for a few days just for some alone time
I never met him face to face but I have known him on FA for four years since I joined he was a good friend
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