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You never know how, or when, your life can be turned upside-down. It is during these times that stereotypes can flood our minds with all sorts of negative thoughts. Such feelings often lead to depression and/or anxiety. However, with the love and support of friends and family, we can all cope with whatever life throws our way while rising above generalized expectations.
It's amazing how easily one can fall victim to self-fulfilling prophecies. Sadly, it's even easier to completely not realize how much one can allow their self-esteem, self-determination, and self-confidence fall to the wayside as a result of traumatic, life changing events.
Fortunately, with an open mind and self-dedication, we can find the good in our respective situations to positively contribute to friends, family, and society in general.
Sometimes we need a "Trigger" to begin our journey to self-acceptance. For me, it was "Silly Filly Studio's" animation, Snowdrop that did that for me. It was after watching this animation that I finally embraced my condition, what it would eventually lead to, and how it wasn't what defined me as an individual. If you haven't seen it yet, I highly recommend doing so. The link is below.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=do6RDSwaWek
Long-to-the-short is how Snowdrop not only is the main character, but a non-stereotypical individual who is blind. She experiences emotions that come with being "Different" than the other kids in her class that, as in real-life, come as a result of stereotypical ignorance towards having a disability, special need, or limitation.
However, Snowdrop goes against the negative stigmas of having a disability by showing how the love and support of her mother, Primrose, can build self-confidence and determination. This is what results in Snowdrop not only owning her limitations, but showing how she is more than her condition to those who have yet to see past her blindness.
For me, I use my character, Yosh, to cope with my limitations. He shares a lot of my personality, but is not blind. He is often portrayed as a toddler as, while growing up in "Small town USA", I found discrimination, stereotypes, and stigmas appear to negatively impact you and the world around you with the passage of time. It is an unfortunate truth, but one I'm glad I can use my creativity to remain positive no matter how difficult it is for an individual with a disability to find acceptance, understanding, empowerment, and a sense of belonging in a world that is sadly undereducated in what those with special needs are capable of.
This is why I'm proud of how I was able to advocate through Coping with Limitations Through Pony. For three years, I lead a team of amazing individuals who aided in presenting before an international crowd at "BronyCon" in Baltimore, Maryland. Turnouts were beyond expectations with a very diverse audience that was not entirely indivudals with disabilities.
I also managed to use my talents to make partnerships with various, disability rights advocates and organizations to send helpful content to those who were not able to attend the convention while also donating motivational products to a local area school.
The most important thing to remember is that YOU" own your condition. People can say, or think, what they want. However, if they choose to see only the condition they are missing out on all the wonderful talents and personality only you can bring as an individual. Let you be the judge of you. Never let the uneducated assumptions of others define what you are and are capable of.
therainbowtrollYou never know how, or when, your life can be turned upside-down. It is during these times that stereotypes can flood our minds with all sorts of negative thoughts. Such feelings often lead to depression and/or anxiety. However, with the love and support of friends and family, we can all cope with whatever life throws our way while rising above generalized expectations.
It's amazing how easily one can fall victim to self-fulfilling prophecies. Sadly, it's even easier to completely not realize how much one can allow their self-esteem, self-determination, and self-confidence fall to the wayside as a result of traumatic, life changing events.
Fortunately, with an open mind and self-dedication, we can find the good in our respective situations to positively contribute to friends, family, and society in general.
Sometimes we need a "Trigger" to begin our journey to self-acceptance. For me, it was "Silly Filly Studio's" animation, Snowdrop that did that for me. It was after watching this animation that I finally embraced my condition, what it would eventually lead to, and how it wasn't what defined me as an individual. If you haven't seen it yet, I highly recommend doing so. The link is below.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=do6RDSwaWek
Long-to-the-short is how Snowdrop not only is the main character, but a non-stereotypical individual who is blind. She experiences emotions that come with being "Different" than the other kids in her class that, as in real-life, come as a result of stereotypical ignorance towards having a disability, special need, or limitation.
However, Snowdrop goes against the negative stigmas of having a disability by showing how the love and support of her mother, Primrose, can build self-confidence and determination. This is what results in Snowdrop not only owning her limitations, but showing how she is more than her condition to those who have yet to see past her blindness.
For me, I use my character, Yosh, to cope with my limitations. He shares a lot of my personality, but is not blind. He is often portrayed as a toddler as, while growing up in "Small town USA", I found discrimination, stereotypes, and stigmas appear to negatively impact you and the world around you with the passage of time. It is an unfortunate truth, but one I'm glad I can use my creativity to remain positive no matter how difficult it is for an individual with a disability to find acceptance, understanding, empowerment, and a sense of belonging in a world that is sadly undereducated in what those with special needs are capable of.
This is why I'm proud of how I was able to advocate through Coping with Limitations Through Pony. For three years, I lead a team of amazing individuals who aided in presenting before an international crowd at "BronyCon" in Baltimore, Maryland. Turnouts were beyond expectations with a very diverse audience that was not entirely indivudals with disabilities.
I also managed to use my talents to make partnerships with various, disability rights advocates and organizations to send helpful content to those who were not able to attend the convention while also donating motivational products to a local area school.
The most important thing to remember is that YOU" own your condition. People can say, or think, what they want. However, if they choose to see only the condition they are missing out on all the wonderful talents and personality only you can bring as an individual. Let you be the judge of you. Never let the uneducated assumptions of others define what you are and are capable of.
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If I ever made Yosh blind, I'd have to make a few adjustments.
By any chance have you had the chance to read through
aricub, :iconnishi", and my combined effort entitled "Twinkle Morningdew"? If so, Yosh would largely be like that, but with a few variations I'd take from my own life. :)
By any chance have you had the chance to read through
aricub, :iconnishi", and my combined effort entitled "Twinkle Morningdew"? If so, Yosh would largely be like that, but with a few variations I'd take from my own life. :)
I could immagine a few stories, like one where he is diapered for a longer period of time or put back in them due to the blindness, but over time, Yosh potentially loses the enjoyment of it, or something like that. At the end, he gains something from the experience, but I wouldnt know what ^^;
many potential stories!
many potential stories!
Most definitely. Especially if I did treat him as I wrote Twinkle Morningdew. He was kept in Pockey-Pants for a long time since his parents were worried about him getting hurt trying to find the bathroom. They felt he was helpless and needed everything done for him. (This is not uncommon in real life for any kid born with a condition that is misunderstood)
It does make it hard to buy diapers from a store, though, when you're very obvious. Not too many people walk around with sunglasses and a cane. :)
It does make it hard to buy diapers from a store, though, when you're very obvious. Not too many people walk around with sunglasses and a cane. :)
Very much so. Actually, Yosh's diaper desire would be a lot higher due to the "Tactile Feel" diapers have in comparison to underwear. The intimacy of the diaper change would also be something he'd miss as, when you're blind, much of your life is sounds, smells, and touch. :)
True independence would allow for wearing diapers. It's when you know someone is always watching that makes it difficult to enjoy some comfy padding.
That's the lousy thing about being blind. You need help finding things and, well, getting diapers is more a private thing I'd rather enjoy myself than with a "Shopping Assistant", or know someone will wonder, "What's in the mail"? :(
That's the lousy thing about being blind. You need help finding things and, well, getting diapers is more a private thing I'd rather enjoy myself than with a "Shopping Assistant", or know someone will wonder, "What's in the mail"? :(
Well, if there isn't money to be made then nobody is going to do much, if anything, sadly. :(
So many people with physical and/or mental conditions fall to the wayside due to the stereotypes of being "Non-Tax Paying Citizens" who "Don't have money".
No pun intended, but its easier to turn a blind eye towards those with special needs when you're lining your pockets with the money of those ignorant to sensitivity, acceptance, and open-minded discussions. :(
So many people with physical and/or mental conditions fall to the wayside due to the stereotypes of being "Non-Tax Paying Citizens" who "Don't have money".
No pun intended, but its easier to turn a blind eye towards those with special needs when you're lining your pockets with the money of those ignorant to sensitivity, acceptance, and open-minded discussions. :(
I know what you mean. I seriously wouldn't want to imagine what my life would've been like if my dad wasn't as insistant that I "Act like everyone else". To some degree this set me up for some traumas, but it did help me learn I was capable of far more than what loads of people thought of me as a kid and teen.
I spoke on this during my last Coping with Limitations Through Pony panel. I really hope that I drove home the importance of outreach, love, care, and belief in those who may have a particular condition, situation, etc. impact their lives.
Too often those who need the help the most are neglected as a result of ignorance towards what it is to live with the disability, limitation, etc. It is my hope that, one day, educating people during their grade school years that people are people first and not an outdated textbook definition of what small / close-minded people thought all people of that group should be.
I hope you continue to show how awesome you are despite the trials you endure. You have certainly shown you are more than a misleading "Label". Snugs*
I spoke on this during my last Coping with Limitations Through Pony panel. I really hope that I drove home the importance of outreach, love, care, and belief in those who may have a particular condition, situation, etc. impact their lives.
Too often those who need the help the most are neglected as a result of ignorance towards what it is to live with the disability, limitation, etc. It is my hope that, one day, educating people during their grade school years that people are people first and not an outdated textbook definition of what small / close-minded people thought all people of that group should be.
I hope you continue to show how awesome you are despite the trials you endure. You have certainly shown you are more than a misleading "Label". Snugs*
It's a difficult situation to think of what would make life easier. Having been born with the limitations, or have acquired them later in life.
Personally, for me, I'd rather have been born blind. Can't miss what you've never seen. Plus, I wouldn't have had to be such a financial burden all my life. (My doctors have joked about how I hav "The Million Dollar Eye". This is ture given the 2012 adventures cost over $500,000 with this year already closing in on over $100,000. Insurance brings the personal cost down, but not enough when you have to live on Social Security.)
What are your thoughts?
Personally, for me, I'd rather have been born blind. Can't miss what you've never seen. Plus, I wouldn't have had to be such a financial burden all my life. (My doctors have joked about how I hav "The Million Dollar Eye". This is ture given the 2012 adventures cost over $500,000 with this year already closing in on over $100,000. Insurance brings the personal cost down, but not enough when you have to live on Social Security.)
What are your thoughts?
Personally, I think there should be some kind of government or publicly funded insurance that pays almost all of that. Seeing as how you can't help it and certainly can't afford it being out of work. What do they expect you to do? Can't get blood from a stone. People who can may as well use all that money and power to help people.
Oh, how I agree with you, my skunky pal. *Crinklehugs* I've already told some places that there is now way I can make any sort of excessive payment plans. If they will take $10 a month that's fine. However, their bossy approach to get money that isn't there is going to get them nothing. Nothing at all.
Too many Business-Types forget how medical difficulties require more than just treatment from a doctor, or doctors. There's transportation, medication, and all sorts of other expenses that go with keeping a condition "In Check". Some can be resolved, but those of us with unresolvable situations can't afford it all. Especially if stuck on SSI / SSDI with no opportunity to bring in income any other way.
I'm also displeased with Medicare. You pay for that out of your SSI / SSDI, which leaves you less to work with. Then you have to find some way to afford even living on top of living with the condition.
*Sigh* Too much is wrong. Hopefully, one day, someone will see past the greed of politics and actually make it so those,like us, can contribute without always being shoved into poverty from those things we have zero control over.
Too many Business-Types forget how medical difficulties require more than just treatment from a doctor, or doctors. There's transportation, medication, and all sorts of other expenses that go with keeping a condition "In Check". Some can be resolved, but those of us with unresolvable situations can't afford it all. Especially if stuck on SSI / SSDI with no opportunity to bring in income any other way.
I'm also displeased with Medicare. You pay for that out of your SSI / SSDI, which leaves you less to work with. Then you have to find some way to afford even living on top of living with the condition.
*Sigh* Too much is wrong. Hopefully, one day, someone will see past the greed of politics and actually make it so those,like us, can contribute without always being shoved into poverty from those things we have zero control over.
This is why it is so important to do all we can to rid our world of self-centered greed. The "What's in it for me?" does not work. People need to understand that doing kind / the right things does not mean they should expect something in return. Rather, it is what you should do.
I'm hopeful you, me, Tavi, and others can help further the cause of illustrating that it is better to give than receive while looking out, as able, for others. :)
I'm hopeful you, me, Tavi, and others can help further the cause of illustrating that it is better to give than receive while looking out, as able, for others. :)
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