Alright, here we go; This is the social standard.
- If you look like a girl, you're probably going to be referred to in a feminine fashion.
- If you look like a boy, you're probably going to be referred to in a masculine fashion.

Not everyone is aware of other genders, trans, so on and so forth.
- To be rude about it will only cast a bad light when representing yourself, and others.
- Be polite when correcting someone.
- This constant BS of "RESPECT MUH PRONOUNS YOU CISHET", etc, is so fucking stupid and ignorant in itself. To those people; Please grow up.

It is your job to not be a dick about it if you prefer the opposite/different pronouns. And this is coming from someone who is trans/androgynous.

That is my opinion, at least. People who are jerks and over aggressive about wanting to be referred to by their preferred pronouns really don't deserve that much respect if they tell you to do so by insulting you instead of being polite and educating.

it's just about the freedom of speech. you can have an opinion what ever you want, if you show it to everyone way no one gets hurt. I understand that most people see only two genders (female, and male), but for some people the gender isn't that simple. for me, i think i am BOTH, or not a boy, either not a girl. It's something what our mind, our brains tells us, or not telling. neuropsygology belongs to one of the harderst scienties in the whole world, because our brains are so difficult to define.
It's also somekind of stupidity, or insanity to tell to someone, what that someone sees different, cause of way the person mind sees it.