By kingtiger66.
Cancer is a life changer it is one of the worst things a woman could have. I will tell you it is not fun my aunt has had cancer so did my mom. It’s unfair to tell a woman. “Hmm miss you have cancer.” She will look at the doctor and just be frozen for 30 sec. A million things will go through her mind like what about my kids, my husband, and my family too. Her sister will try to comfort her she will try to be strong not show she is afraid. Because when she walks through the front door she will tell her family the bad news.
I tell you it happen in my family my own mother has had the C word (cancer) yes she said it would be okay but it was not. We would go to the hospital and help comfort her through her treatment she lost her beautiful hair. I remember ask my mother “mom will it ever grow back. She would look at me and with eyes almost filled with tear she said it might, it might Hun we need to be strong.
I cried in my room for hours sometimes not knowing that my mother would never make it. It was a losing battle for her and she was be a proud strong woman I told her when we visited her I lover when I welcomed her and when we left her. I felt so sad at the time.
But on day we went my dad did not let me in my mother room the doctors were in there I was scared. I was told to go wait in the waiting room. I did my father came back I saw tears in his eyes my father never cried and I knew something happen. He kneeled next to me and said “princess you mother…..” he didn’t finish the sentence I knew he continued after tears of sadness came running down his face. He said she is not with us any more your mother is going to sleep for the rest of her life.
I jump up and ran out of the hospital I did not care but the pain was so bad I cannot even tell you what it had felt like. All I know my father never spoke about my mother again for a year. He was in a wreck of his own so I told myself Dad need me I have to help him. So I did after a couple years he was back to normal well as normal as you can be after losing your wife you lover.

MY MOM…..