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I love that last panel, star just looks so damn happy
A quick quick page of shine before im away for yet another weekend. The background is awful lets just ignore that okay. I'll fix it when we get home. promise I need to work out how to populate backgrounds without them looking naff really LOL
Also....years and years ago some haters accused me of being a pedophile due to people just wrongly associating ageplay with pedophilia but truthfully it hasnt happened to me within the last 7-8 years. I think generally the masses are becoming more aware of different fetishes and suchlike and most understand the difference between being sexually attracted to children and wanting to BE a child. The two are very very very different things. But there are some pretty ignorant and dumb folk out there, when you hear of stories of lynch mobs beating up pediatricians and things like that you cant help but despair a little.
Also...I need a wizkit :D
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I love that last panel, star just looks so damn happy
A quick quick page of shine before im away for yet another weekend. The background is awful lets just ignore that okay. I'll fix it when we get home. promise I need to work out how to populate backgrounds without them looking naff really LOL
Also....years and years ago some haters accused me of being a pedophile due to people just wrongly associating ageplay with pedophilia but truthfully it hasnt happened to me within the last 7-8 years. I think generally the masses are becoming more aware of different fetishes and suchlike and most understand the difference between being sexually attracted to children and wanting to BE a child. The two are very very very different things. But there are some pretty ignorant and dumb folk out there, when you hear of stories of lynch mobs beating up pediatricians and things like that you cant help but despair a little.
Also...I need a wizkit :D
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I agree with the others, it's obvious in an unspoken way. I can hear my cat purring in my ear when she cuddles up to me at night, and I imagine in Star's case that's probably magnified several times. :)
I think we all go through this, because society DOES dictate what 'normal' is, and it doesn't take into consideration that some members ARE different in unusual ways. Not to support pedophila, I don't, it's the most disgusting thing I can think of between two people (and we hear more and more about it from the Muslim community, which further turns me off to that sort of people), but we are outliers in society, on the fringe as it were. Here in the States, there is a widening rift occurring, that is tearing this country apart, and on one side of it, you'll find those who might accept our type of behavior, and on the other side, those that are strictly against it. It's not coming together into a melting pot.
I think we all go through this, because society DOES dictate what 'normal' is, and it doesn't take into consideration that some members ARE different in unusual ways. Not to support pedophila, I don't, it's the most disgusting thing I can think of between two people (and we hear more and more about it from the Muslim community, which further turns me off to that sort of people), but we are outliers in society, on the fringe as it were. Here in the States, there is a widening rift occurring, that is tearing this country apart, and on one side of it, you'll find those who might accept our type of behavior, and on the other side, those that are strictly against it. It's not coming together into a melting pot.
Nothing wrong with this its no different than any normal other fetish people repress like wanting someone to mother them. Maybe a spanking and some cuddles after there are people that want to let go of adult responsibility, and just let someone take over for a little while sort of reminiscent of childhood when things were more carefree... nothing wrong with decompressing and getting in touch with the inner child... Right Babystar?
I think everyone knows that feeling one way or the other fetishes aside... just living the life others want you to live and not going for you want... you feel dead on the inside. Keep that up for months or even a year then you feel like even less than half a person totally hollow on the inside.
I do not think there is anyone on the planet who is "normal." There is an average way of life, but every is crazy in some way. Most just hide theirs. It is easy to think there are normal people though. A person sick with cancer might view others without the terminal illness as "normal" and a wheelchair-confined person might see normal people as anyone who can get around on their own two legs. It is all a matter of perception because everyone has struggles and issues of different levels that most likely make them see everyone else as "normal." "Normal" is just a perception but not a reality. It all depends on what your perception views as "normal."
Just relax and enjoy it live your life without regrets if what you want is some motherly affection, and a little spanking well then just go for it! Life is too short to not try at all and just wonder about a bunch of what ifs... Enjoy getting in touch with your inner child
Perfectly said. Screw normal! Everyone is a bit strange or weird in their own way. Is that a problem? Fuck no! Be who you want to be! If people give you a hard time then tell them to go elsewhere. Of course, just keep in mind decency laws and such. No sense getting arrested and such.
As a person who completely supports a friend who is into this sorta thing, I can't imagine what it'd be like to be judged for this particular thing..but I know what its like being judged period.
I recently defended this topic, I am not apart of this community - but I don't like bullies and people judging..I literally burst open I was just thinking of this certain person who I've known for sometime now..I was just hurt by the comment. Its nothing like what people assume it is..
No one is harming anyone else, you are just being who you are..
There are sicko's out there but that goes with ANY community, fandom etc.
I recently defended this topic, I am not apart of this community - but I don't like bullies and people judging..I literally burst open I was just thinking of this certain person who I've known for sometime now..I was just hurt by the comment. Its nothing like what people assume it is..
No one is harming anyone else, you are just being who you are..
There are sicko's out there but that goes with ANY community, fandom etc.
Awwww....what a cute final frame. *joins in on the hug* And yeah, considering society as a whole, there truly is no such thing as NORMAL because there clearly is no such thing as a STANDARD.
This is healthy, no this is; this life is worth living no that one is. This person's crazy and messed up, no this person. Civilization can't make up its mind. So-called standards are made in whatever direction the money flows and in which directions folks most easily lured into following, no matter how truly boring or painful it is.
This is healthy, no this is; this life is worth living no that one is. This person's crazy and messed up, no this person. Civilization can't make up its mind. So-called standards are made in whatever direction the money flows and in which directions folks most easily lured into following, no matter how truly boring or painful it is.
I agree, the desire to be a child is quite different... in truth, it's the logical extreme of psychological regression and fulfillment of the inner child... a desire to return to innocence, to a simpler time when the world isn't so scary, so complicated, so full of conflict... a desire for the unconditional love between parent and child.
Love the last panel and the cameo in the first one (Jenny squeaked again. THanks so much. X3)
Is a dificult topic indeed, the other day i was talking with a friend who asked me about the furry fandom, and wanted to know more about the zoophilics in the fandom... i said him that there exist, but are just a minority and that most furs don't like them at all, since most furs love animals and consider animal violence and rape something horrible. He was a little confused at the begining but understood it at the end. The same will happen with ageplayers, is posible and probable that there could be some pedophyles in the ageplay, abdl or babyfur comunities, it have sense, but as far as i know, most ageplayers, abdls and babyfurs hate pedophyles, the same way furries usually hate zoophylics... there are even lots of babyfurs and abdls that hate ageplay or the sexual side of it, since that's against the inocent picture they want to portrait in that state or with that characters.
Also there is indeed a diference in "being the baby" and "wanting to rape a baby". maybe that would work better with the partners of ageplayers in the daddy/mommy role, but not with th eageplayer... and even in that situations, they're dealing with adults, not kids... also, most ageplayers don't like real babies/little kids (the last page of this comic is full of coments about that) and the ones that likes them seems to love them in a very protective way (not like predators, more like protectors or parents).
Is dificult to understand at the begining, but most of time is just a hobby or a game between adult and responsable people. nothing more... as far as nobody gets harmed everything is okey.
PD: Again thanks so much, for the cameo. :3
PD2: feel free to post the picture i made for you, if you want. ^^ (that's what i tried to say in the notes, I'm not sure if i said it right the last time.. english is not my native lenguaje, and sometimes is just get wired in my own words. XD)
Is a dificult topic indeed, the other day i was talking with a friend who asked me about the furry fandom, and wanted to know more about the zoophilics in the fandom... i said him that there exist, but are just a minority and that most furs don't like them at all, since most furs love animals and consider animal violence and rape something horrible. He was a little confused at the begining but understood it at the end. The same will happen with ageplayers, is posible and probable that there could be some pedophyles in the ageplay, abdl or babyfur comunities, it have sense, but as far as i know, most ageplayers, abdls and babyfurs hate pedophyles, the same way furries usually hate zoophylics... there are even lots of babyfurs and abdls that hate ageplay or the sexual side of it, since that's against the inocent picture they want to portrait in that state or with that characters.
Also there is indeed a diference in "being the baby" and "wanting to rape a baby". maybe that would work better with the partners of ageplayers in the daddy/mommy role, but not with th eageplayer... and even in that situations, they're dealing with adults, not kids... also, most ageplayers don't like real babies/little kids (the last page of this comic is full of coments about that) and the ones that likes them seems to love them in a very protective way (not like predators, more like protectors or parents).
Is dificult to understand at the begining, but most of time is just a hobby or a game between adult and responsable people. nothing more... as far as nobody gets harmed everything is okey.
PD: Again thanks so much, for the cameo. :3
PD2: feel free to post the picture i made for you, if you want. ^^ (that's what i tried to say in the notes, I'm not sure if i said it right the last time.. english is not my native lenguaje, and sometimes is just get wired in my own words. XD)
This panel really tears me up. I totally agree that everybody should be treated with respect and being an ABDL is not something that should bring about shame.
By the same token, I feel you have to be sensitive to the public setting. Like these last few pages where they are in the toy store stress me out because their are kids in there. Getting in touch with your inner child is great but don't get angry if a parent wonders why you are in the store. You are a stranger wearing clothing that bring thoughts to mind and you are around their children, there everything; why wouldn't they ask questions?
I guess I don't want to label people as idiots or close minded when all they are doing is protecting their kids. Some parents are more sensitive then others but most parents have their children's well being first.
Be true to yourself and disregard the naysayers if what they say doesn't hold water.
By the same token, I feel you have to be sensitive to the public setting. Like these last few pages where they are in the toy store stress me out because their are kids in there. Getting in touch with your inner child is great but don't get angry if a parent wonders why you are in the store. You are a stranger wearing clothing that bring thoughts to mind and you are around their children, there everything; why wouldn't they ask questions?
I guess I don't want to label people as idiots or close minded when all they are doing is protecting their kids. Some parents are more sensitive then others but most parents have their children's well being first.
Be true to yourself and disregard the naysayers if what they say doesn't hold water.
This page really speaks to me. Through your comic and some influence from some other littles I know I have discovered my little self. I don't go as far into it as diapers, which isn't bad for others of course, but this page speaks a lot for the struggle of it. My Miss/Momma has really helped me as well and your comic always makes me smile.
That's right! It's okay feel being a baby and dress like one. I really want to wear diapers some day and playing with my dear baby panda like this. >u<
Yeah, no should get to extremism of fetishes. I will feel weird if I see people walking in the street wearing baby clothes and diapers all time... It is a matter of decency.
Yeah, no should get to extremism of fetishes. I will feel weird if I see people walking in the street wearing baby clothes and diapers all time... It is a matter of decency.
I feel it's okay to think you're perverted, and it's even okay to think you're not normal. I'm probably in a small minority in that, but I often feel like it's important to have that as a frame of reference. The important thing, though, is that that should NEVER feel like something like that's shameful to the point where you're deathly afraid of it. You can be perverted and kinky and probably not entirely normal, but that should never ever be looked at as a bad thing. In the long run, it's just another thing that makes a person special and unique and interesting.
Well this page was really amazing. And it also kinda hit a nerve for me. I used to put myself down a lot always thinking that I was a freak for several different reasons and my mom used to keep saying almost the exact same thing that Manda says in this page. She always used to say to me "Who decides what is normal and not? And sometimes its more fun to no be normal because your more interesting that way" And that is something that I kinda have started living my life after. Live and let live ^_^
the universe these characters live in are far different from our own then. Just hours ago Manda saw star purring while being spanked right? I don't see how that would be appropriate in a toy store unless somehow everyone else there magically see's Star as just another little kid. Her outfit and staying close to Manda likely helps with that, but her height doesn't.
I'm talking about manda's threat to spank her "here and now" if star doesn't stop worrying/freaking out. Maybe it's just a threat but actually doing it would confirm to Star that she is a freak. Least, it would to me if I was in star's position.
This page is just too saccharine and weird for me. I normally like well written stories of acceptance and caring. But the last panel just feels like a revist of star freaking out in the bathroom at the house and Manda consoling her there.
This page is just too saccharine and weird for me. I normally like well written stories of acceptance and caring. But the last panel just feels like a revist of star freaking out in the bathroom at the house and Manda consoling her there.
In fairness when youve lived your whole life thinking youre a freak. One pep talk in the bathroom isnt going to fix you. Shes gonna have moments of twetering on the edge of feeling rubbish about herself because shes felt rubbish all her life about all of this.
But obviously i cant please everyone and thats a-ok this wont be the last page that people have divided opinions on hehe. Thats all part of the fun of the game
But obviously i cant please everyone and thats a-ok this wont be the last page that people have divided opinions on hehe. Thats all part of the fun of the game
Yeah i've been there before, a lot of people have. I've at least wanted to try diapers since from 5 years old at the latest, I'm 28 now. and no, one pep talk in that restroom isn't going to fix star. But neither is threatening to spank her in the center aisle of a seemingly crowded toy store. Or at least, it wouldn't work for most people. You can always say "Well, it's my story and that's the way Star and this reality in the story works."
I'd argue shock factor on both sides. We haven't seen how Lure handles being spanked but it has been insinuated that he doesn't like it. That could be a learned response on Manda's part to the kid doing and saying things she doesn't like. How many parents have had to re-learn how to correct their real kid when they have a second, or third, etc. I can tell you many. It is reasonable that Manda might just blurt it out spur of the moment.
Star may have purred but she was also significantly embarrassed and is being pushed here so that embarrassment would be even higher. Not saying she wouldn't purr if it happened. But the idea is to pull her out of the train of thought. I can see that threat as still being a perfectly viable threat at least at this point in her path to ABDL play. There are many things that if I carefully analyze what I like and dislike I believe I'd actually possibly enjoy them. But if I was in a new situation pushing my boundaries and mommy/daddy suddenly blurted out they'd do them my knee jerk reaction since I haven't had it done a bunch would be "Oh, no" and I'd likely stop whatever it was unless I was actually crying out for attention.
As for acceptance by the world around, I think we have already seen that this world is perhaps a little more accepting. But then each country, even each state or city has its own levels of acceptance for things out of the norm. I can handle that, especially since Star has REPEATEDLY put out. This is just a comic their are no lasting affects from the characters actions. Each ABDL must exercise there own level of care in determining just how publicly they can practice their play.
Star may have purred but she was also significantly embarrassed and is being pushed here so that embarrassment would be even higher. Not saying she wouldn't purr if it happened. But the idea is to pull her out of the train of thought. I can see that threat as still being a perfectly viable threat at least at this point in her path to ABDL play. There are many things that if I carefully analyze what I like and dislike I believe I'd actually possibly enjoy them. But if I was in a new situation pushing my boundaries and mommy/daddy suddenly blurted out they'd do them my knee jerk reaction since I haven't had it done a bunch would be "Oh, no" and I'd likely stop whatever it was unless I was actually crying out for attention.
As for acceptance by the world around, I think we have already seen that this world is perhaps a little more accepting. But then each country, even each state or city has its own levels of acceptance for things out of the norm. I can handle that, especially since Star has REPEATEDLY put out. This is just a comic their are no lasting affects from the characters actions. Each ABDL must exercise there own level of care in determining just how publicly they can practice their play.
I had this one psychiatrist who once asserted that my sexual interest in diapers would soon lead to me being turned on by everything baby. Even babies, themselves. I remember storming out of the building soon after, my mother interrogating miss Conni Shanks on what exactly she had said to me. My mother understands how hard it is for me to be this different, so she was totally on my side there.
It's no fun having your infantilism compared to something as damning and damaging as pedophilia/nepiophilia. Do you know how many lives have been ruined thanks to that mental illness? And this is what we're comparing my wearing adult diapers in the privacy of my own bedroom to? I dislike ignorant/stupid people. I really do.
It's no fun having your infantilism compared to something as damning and damaging as pedophilia/nepiophilia. Do you know how many lives have been ruined thanks to that mental illness? And this is what we're comparing my wearing adult diapers in the privacy of my own bedroom to? I dislike ignorant/stupid people. I really do.
This page really is well written for what it says. I agree that you can do a thing that isn't mainstream and that is fine.
Some may agree and some disagree but most will have a token mental opinion then go right back to their own lives. In the end its easy to forget that most will worry about themselves and not be too concerned with your thing. The few that would either do it for the sake of objecting or are not confident in their own non-mainstream interests.
Be yourself, the only one watching you closely is you ^.^ Extra bonus is that some may approach with similar interests giving chances for new friends :D
Some may agree and some disagree but most will have a token mental opinion then go right back to their own lives. In the end its easy to forget that most will worry about themselves and not be too concerned with your thing. The few that would either do it for the sake of objecting or are not confident in their own non-mainstream interests.
Be yourself, the only one watching you closely is you ^.^ Extra bonus is that some may approach with similar interests giving chances for new friends :D
Aww ^-^, and a wonderful message from Manda :3. What Star's feeling is something I'm sure many AB/DLs have gone though atleast once, especially after seeing the nasty things said online. Just remember what Manda said here and to not be afraid to be you, no matter how "weird" it might be to someone else. To borrow a quote I heard from a TV show: "One mans weird is another mans wonderful".
*Gives lots of hugs to Star :3*
*Gives lots of hugs to Star :3*
Yikes, you got that pedo accusation too? I had a roommate for a bit, he was in a homosexual poly relationship and a transvestite ontop of that... but he said that ageplay and ABDL was "sexualizing infants".
Needless to say, we weren't roommates for very long. Its funny because I moved in with him to get away from living in Kentucky (if you don't know, thats one of the more conservative parts of the US, its where that Kim Davis woman is from) and after six months of living with him and hearing him talk about how I needed to get "rehabilitated" from my fetishes... yeah, I was actually relieved to come back to Kentucky!
Needless to say, we weren't roommates for very long. Its funny because I moved in with him to get away from living in Kentucky (if you don't know, thats one of the more conservative parts of the US, its where that Kim Davis woman is from) and after six months of living with him and hearing him talk about how I needed to get "rehabilitated" from my fetishes... yeah, I was actually relieved to come back to Kentucky!
I agree. There are always lynch mobs when it comes to different things like being a furry or liking anime. People assume the worst in those things and say thing like we give them cancer or we should drink bleach. In the words of Nick from zootopia, "Never let them see that they get to you." Never feel bad about who you are or the stuff you are interested in. Be the best you can be.
Been feeling that way for who knows how long but I feel somewhat better about this weird interest/desire after seeing this page. As much as I wouldn't mind experiencing normal for even a short time, I'm gradually starting to come to terms with that I'll never be what society sees as "normal" and I should just stop giving a damn about it and find some ways that make me feel ok with who I am.
Can't say I've ever known a comic to tear me so dramatically. On the one hand its all the right words and support that most littles desperately want to hear. On the other, my cynically inclined side ruins everything by transposing the same scene into real life and pointing out that they're waring semi- overt fet clothing in a none- consensual environment.
Little side; "wish that could be me"
Big side; "Safe, sane, consentual, whether or not its overtly sexual."
Little; "but-but she's saying its okay and its all huggie an' safe an' really really cute."
Big; "Is everyone in that shop or walking past consenting? I think not."
Little; "your mean!"
Big; "better then being nieve!"
Me ; "Both of you sit down, stop arguing and look at the pretty picturs the nice lady's drawing, or so help me i will turn this browser around and we'll go right back to the finance pages!!!"
.... yeah. Anyway, wonderful work as always Shine, your series here has actually gotten my own creative juices churning again.
Out of curiosity did you study anything in particular to improve your figure proportions, or was it just practice? That always seemed to get me stuck and drawing studies always landed characters looking lifeless or stiff.
Little side; "wish that could be me"
Big side; "Safe, sane, consentual, whether or not its overtly sexual."
Little; "but-but she's saying its okay and its all huggie an' safe an' really really cute."
Big; "Is everyone in that shop or walking past consenting? I think not."
Little; "your mean!"
Big; "better then being nieve!"
Me ; "Both of you sit down, stop arguing and look at the pretty picturs the nice lady's drawing, or so help me i will turn this browser around and we'll go right back to the finance pages!!!"
.... yeah. Anyway, wonderful work as always Shine, your series here has actually gotten my own creative juices churning again.
Out of curiosity did you study anything in particular to improve your figure proportions, or was it just practice? That always seemed to get me stuck and drawing studies always landed characters looking lifeless or stiff.
Truthfully all theyre doing is wearing cute clothing there really isnt anything wrong with that. I have an outfit quite similar to stars that ive worn in numerous places including up on stage performing at a punk festival and no one thinks its fetish gear at all. People just think its cute quirky outfits. If anything strangers have come up and asked me where i get my outfits sometimes. We tend to over analyse ourselves. I had one abdl telling me wearing overalls/dungareens was wrong and shameful and i linked him to several highsrreet retailers selling exactly those things. People not into ageplay wear all sorts of strange outfits so yeah i dont see much of a problem with what theyre doing at the moment. Its just a group of furs shopping
Now if star starts sucking a pacifier or waddles in wearing just a diaper or does a full kink scene in there thats where in reality i would draw a line. But ultimately...yeah its just a comic. Heh*hugs*
Now if star starts sucking a pacifier or waddles in wearing just a diaper or does a full kink scene in there thats where in reality i would draw a line. But ultimately...yeah its just a comic. Heh*hugs*
Yeah but you're also female, there's a total double standard towards what's acceptable and what's not between genders. I wouldn't be able to get away with what Lure's wearing at some place like Six Flags (them/amusement park) simply because male's don't generally wear anything that "cute".
That's true. If there ever were a crossroads between Britain and everywhere else, it is London. You can see people waring three peace denim in same street as dapper gents and teens waring the hight of Japanese fashion. The result can be a bit of a dazing walk through all corners of the circular globe.
Oh wow! That´s something what I want to see and I definately would like to visit in the UK soon! :D Here, in northern parts of Scandinavia, grown-up´s clothes have been too..ummm.. boring and not so colorful, but gladly I have seen that trend to fading away as colourful clothes has become more visible. Though, that haven´t effect much for my choices, because recently I bought one colorful overalls and some other nice clothes from the webshops and I can´t wait that moment when I could test those
The UK is very openminded, one of the most openminded countried in the world, actually.
In south america people make fun of you just ebcause you have long hair and are slender (being a male), girls can dress like boys but boys CAN'T use anything girly or remotelly girly at all, it will be even workst with kid's clothing or accesories. Even ageplay is socially aceptable for girls, but boys, nope... that doesn't work.
In south america people make fun of you just ebcause you have long hair and are slender (being a male), girls can dress like boys but boys CAN'T use anything girly or remotelly girly at all, it will be even workst with kid's clothing or accesories. Even ageplay is socially aceptable for girls, but boys, nope... that doesn't work.
Frankly my big side is just being a bit of a Debby Downer on this, as sans the obvious extra padding around the waist Star's outfit isn't really that overt.
Here's the thing. Stealthing is fine so long as it is exactly that; discreet. Most people won't notice a nappy bulge unless they either know what they are looking for or are actively checking you out, so even a decent pair of jeans will reduce crinkle enough to wander around outside. So ware brighter clothing, overalls or stripy socks with dinosaur patterns! Heck you can even get onesies that look like T-shirts, which keep everything nicely tucked in and quiet, keeping up appearances even if you or those with you know better. At the end of the day if it isn’t obvious people are generally too busy with their own lives and aren’t going to care.
What concerns me is the open and obvious behaviours, like those BabyStar described in her response. (Again my big side being something of a downer atm jumped at this despite being contextually none applicable to the story at hand)
Basically it boils down to this; If you appear average then ninety nine percent of the population will be none the wiser and remain in the default human holding pattern of 'damn not given'. But when you bring your kinks visably out into public domain you are effectively taking away the right to consent of any and all you involve in your scene, whether or not you intended to do so. Every passerby with raised eyebrows, every nervous store clerk, openly offended bystander? Their emotions, reactions, thoughts and words all contribute to a scene they did not agree to be involved with. Even the none-existent 'gang of female Japanese exchange students who somehow find you downright adorable' (come on, who hasn’t imagined this happening?), even they are being drawn into a scene without either party knowing each others limitations, history or even being asked whether they wanted to be involved at all.
It’s not just wrong, it’s passively abusive. Sad to think of it that way, but it’s true.
Obviously at con's or gatherings actively for/supporting Littles there's a lot more leeway, but even then you have to be conscious of this factor. What is acceptable and what isn't varies depending on social context, so test the water from the middle ground first before venturing further.
… Am I making sense here or am I just waffling? Ehh, either way, like I said it's contextually none-applicable here. My brain just needs to build a bridge and get over it. Maybe some colouring would do the trick?
Here's the thing. Stealthing is fine so long as it is exactly that; discreet. Most people won't notice a nappy bulge unless they either know what they are looking for or are actively checking you out, so even a decent pair of jeans will reduce crinkle enough to wander around outside. So ware brighter clothing, overalls or stripy socks with dinosaur patterns! Heck you can even get onesies that look like T-shirts, which keep everything nicely tucked in and quiet, keeping up appearances even if you or those with you know better. At the end of the day if it isn’t obvious people are generally too busy with their own lives and aren’t going to care.
What concerns me is the open and obvious behaviours, like those BabyStar described in her response. (Again my big side being something of a downer atm jumped at this despite being contextually none applicable to the story at hand)
Basically it boils down to this; If you appear average then ninety nine percent of the population will be none the wiser and remain in the default human holding pattern of 'damn not given'. But when you bring your kinks visably out into public domain you are effectively taking away the right to consent of any and all you involve in your scene, whether or not you intended to do so. Every passerby with raised eyebrows, every nervous store clerk, openly offended bystander? Their emotions, reactions, thoughts and words all contribute to a scene they did not agree to be involved with. Even the none-existent 'gang of female Japanese exchange students who somehow find you downright adorable' (come on, who hasn’t imagined this happening?), even they are being drawn into a scene without either party knowing each others limitations, history or even being asked whether they wanted to be involved at all.
It’s not just wrong, it’s passively abusive. Sad to think of it that way, but it’s true.
Obviously at con's or gatherings actively for/supporting Littles there's a lot more leeway, but even then you have to be conscious of this factor. What is acceptable and what isn't varies depending on social context, so test the water from the middle ground first before venturing further.
… Am I making sense here or am I just waffling? Ehh, either way, like I said it's contextually none-applicable here. My brain just needs to build a bridge and get over it. Maybe some colouring would do the trick?
Star this is happening to me at the moment I just told some friends of mine about my comforts of wereing and using diapers and no I am lab led as a pedophile for winging to act like a toddler. I know what you went through but It can get harder for me cuz I am a guy. Plz don't stop be your self for all of us who are in a situation were we can't be our self.
I do really like this page, especially the last panel, like everyone else.
And I can't help but want to put myself in Stars shoes. Who wouldn't want someone to accept you like that?
Unfortunately, were Manda to say to me that I wasn't perverted or a freak, I don't think I'd believe it.
But that could just be the deep emptiness of 4:00am talking...
And I can't help but want to put myself in Stars shoes. Who wouldn't want someone to accept you like that?
Unfortunately, were Manda to say to me that I wasn't perverted or a freak, I don't think I'd believe it.
But that could just be the deep emptiness of 4:00am talking...
https://gyazo.com/9ebd969b17ae349115cf8351010d2d9d < Death. Literally death by cute face.
This comic is super relate-able to me, I want to get in touch with my inner child, I just want to BE a kid, it's just that I feel like people would call me a freak, and it's just holding me back, I wanna be AB, I just don't have the guts to ease off and be one, because I wanna be care-free, and just be babied, like Star has been!
And normal IS overrated! H-Hehehe! x3
And normal IS overrated! H-Hehehe! x3
Thank you for saying those words that I'd felt for a good few years. I didn't realize that I regress from time to time. I am actually wanting to be a mama. But for a long time, I felt it was wrong for a mama to be diapered and to take care of a little. I feel a bit safer now that these words on your comic was said. Thank you so much. I am trying to come to terms with the little within me. ^.^ :heart:
Your work gives me life. I can't even explain it well, it's like a tide of absolution washing away my confusion about the strange desires I have. You do not know me, and I scarcely know a thing about you, but I offer my sincerest gratitude. And maybe hugs.
Also, all of your art is SUPER cute, so that's a plus~
Also, all of your art is SUPER cute, so that's a plus~
This sort of thing isn't my cup of tea....but what was said....wow that hit a soft spot. So very very true, there is no such thing as normal and it would be nice if the real world was a place where people weren't judged for what they like. Just...bravo. My hat is off to you.
One my best friends and a crush of mine called me a pedo. Guess this is what happens when I decide not to be a loner. Honestly, some days I wish I didn't even try to have friends.
My first boyfriend didn't work out because he couldn't quite what I needed as far as me being an ageplayer. Second was weirded out by it and picked on me from time to time. My third had OCD so he didn't like it.
Not really sure how I crawl out of this hole.
My first boyfriend didn't work out because he couldn't quite what I needed as far as me being an ageplayer. Second was weirded out by it and picked on me from time to time. My third had OCD so he didn't like it.
Not really sure how I crawl out of this hole.
I still routinely get accused of bein a p word. And it hits rly hard for me cuz my reason for being a little is almost definitely intertwined with my biofather being a p word...
I kno Im not a p word but its hard to not internalize it and stress and worry over it endlessly; esp moreso given that bullshit ppl say about apples and trees...
I kno Im not a p word but its hard to not internalize it and stress and worry over it endlessly; esp moreso given that bullshit ppl say about apples and trees...
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