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NOTHING. PLEASE RESPECT MY WISHES.
Thank you very much.
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Isn't it though? Sometimes even talking a step back we still don't realize why we are feeling the way we are. It takes time to catch up on our own feelings after being there for friends & their feelings.
Not that helping is bad. Not at all. It's just so easy to lose yourself in it sometimes.
Not that helping is bad. Not at all. It's just so easy to lose yourself in it sometimes.
I think we all have. As friends we tend to try harder to have people lean on us.
At points we just feel so protective & needing to stay updated in our friends lives.
Tho in turn, it can be a draining experience on ourselves the more we push to make everything right.
I think learning to just guide friends in the right direction needs to be something I learn.
Instead of always trying to hold their hands & walk the road with them.
Most of the time they wish to fight you on your thoughts. When it's only an opinion.
Why come & ask if you don't want to hear full thoughts on it?
Not everything in life is pretty & sugar coated. Friends should be able to be honest.
Don't get hung up over the words you came to hear by asking. Take it in & pull from it what you wish.
Ask around among other friends their thoughts too. Then make your choice from there.
I just end up dwelling on things a lot. Not always will you tell your friends something blunt.
Even when we don't think it should be sugarcoated a part of us still does it. And at that point you start second-guessing maybe I was the push they needed. I do it to myself. I know I do.
At points we just feel so protective & needing to stay updated in our friends lives.
Tho in turn, it can be a draining experience on ourselves the more we push to make everything right.
I think learning to just guide friends in the right direction needs to be something I learn.
Instead of always trying to hold their hands & walk the road with them.
Most of the time they wish to fight you on your thoughts. When it's only an opinion.
Why come & ask if you don't want to hear full thoughts on it?
Not everything in life is pretty & sugar coated. Friends should be able to be honest.
Don't get hung up over the words you came to hear by asking. Take it in & pull from it what you wish.
Ask around among other friends their thoughts too. Then make your choice from there.
I just end up dwelling on things a lot. Not always will you tell your friends something blunt.
Even when we don't think it should be sugarcoated a part of us still does it. And at that point you start second-guessing maybe I was the push they needed. I do it to myself. I know I do.
There are many days that have gone by where I sit in my chair and think one of my friends is going to ask how my day is going or ask to play a game together, but those times are few and far between.
But on my end I always say hi to my friends, see how they are doing, see if they want to take a break and play after a long day.
Or even people I have met around here on FA, since I became a fur I have helped 2 people find their confidence in themselfs to try their hardest at everything they do, one even went back to college and got a part time job. No matter how I feel, I make sure my friends and other around are happy.
But then there are days where after so much happy in others, I don't get any... So I fall into sadness. I can help others, but can't help myself.
But on my end I always say hi to my friends, see how they are doing, see if they want to take a break and play after a long day.
Or even people I have met around here on FA, since I became a fur I have helped 2 people find their confidence in themselfs to try their hardest at everything they do, one even went back to college and got a part time job. No matter how I feel, I make sure my friends and other around are happy.
But then there are days where after so much happy in others, I don't get any... So I fall into sadness. I can help others, but can't help myself.
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