happy new year o/ - or not.... IDK
Hi guys,
I'm not sure if I like or not to celebrate the New Year.
this is the second year in a row that I had a "verbal fight" with my family (not even sure if it really was a fight, but have a tense atmosphere here...) and like always, my parent say it is my fault.
I'm all day in my room, I decided to watch some movies and series - I'm watching The Black List
if I go out of my room and see the faces of my parents certainly I start to cry, and they don't care.
What you want of 2016?
I was excited to start the year, but just stop to think that will be the same thing, comes me the "bad".....
I think it would be nice to go a psychologist, but I'm afraid of them.... and I keep thinking that can not do much because my parents will stay the same.
I'd like to know if someone here go to a Psychologist, if it is helping you... or not..
So Thank you for reading this depress thing.
For last, Happy new year for you!
I'm not sure if I like or not to celebrate the New Year.
this is the second year in a row that I had a "verbal fight" with my family (not even sure if it really was a fight, but have a tense atmosphere here...) and like always, my parent say it is my fault.
I'm all day in my room, I decided to watch some movies and series - I'm watching The Black List
if I go out of my room and see the faces of my parents certainly I start to cry, and they don't care.
What you want of 2016?
I was excited to start the year, but just stop to think that will be the same thing, comes me the "bad".....
I think it would be nice to go a psychologist, but I'm afraid of them.... and I keep thinking that can not do much because my parents will stay the same.
I'd like to know if someone here go to a Psychologist, if it is helping you... or not..
So Thank you for reading this depress thing.
For last, Happy new year for you!
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i go to one and they are very helpful. if you do start to go to one, even if your parents stay the same, the psychologist will give you good coping skills to help you with them. (or they should anyways)
I hope things get better for you :)
i wont be doing much for new years, so if you want to talk about anything you can note me if you want! >w< just sayin
I hope things get better for you :)
i wont be doing much for new years, so if you want to talk about anything you can note me if you want! >w< just sayin
Thank you to reply!
I always had my doubts about psychologists, I do not know if I will really have the courage to go in one. But I'm hoping to learn about the techniques. And if the professional could talking with my parents maybe can change something.
Thank you so much to be nice with me, but I do not want to ruin your evening with my stories.
I always had my doubts about psychologists, I do not know if I will really have the courage to go in one. But I'm hoping to learn about the techniques. And if the professional could talking with my parents maybe can change something.
Thank you so much to be nice with me, but I do not want to ruin your evening with my stories.
Both Ian and me went out for a new years eve mea tonight (got back 2 hours ago just now lol)
with some xmas money my London auntie and uncle sent us other Christmas
Had a bottle of rose wine the meal was at Nandos
we sat in one f the booths on the left
http://www.morenomasey.com/nandos-headingley/
Family is complex and had similar troubles like you with my family
do whats best for you and get your head unclouded from the stress and see a Psychologist I had and they do help clear your mind up and rest is up to you *hugs*
2015 was more stressful then good thus hoping 2016 will be much nicer and ended 2015 on a high note tonight so thats made us happy with a romantic meal and wine
with some xmas money my London auntie and uncle sent us other Christmas
Had a bottle of rose wine the meal was at Nandos
we sat in one f the booths on the left
http://www.morenomasey.com/nandos-headingley/
Family is complex and had similar troubles like you with my family
do whats best for you and get your head unclouded from the stress and see a Psychologist I had and they do help clear your mind up and rest is up to you *hugs*
2015 was more stressful then good thus hoping 2016 will be much nicer and ended 2015 on a high note tonight so thats made us happy with a romantic meal and wine
very one deserves a good new year out and blow off the cob webs
Ian and me never went out for new years for 2 years due to crappy circumstances since we were newly weds and Ian came from Portland Oregon thus needed to find work
thus I was only one with income at the time.
This year we thought fluff it!
Lets do some thing different and don't need to get drunk silly lol
I know how you feel I been depressed time to time mainly because of circumstances and partly my disability which does not
bother me for most part its when people think your a fruit cake when your not.
I have very mild aspergus and much as I function fine
growing up with it was more barriers then any thing but I never let it take it over my
life and work hard to the life I want to be happy in and share it with Ian and friends that are dear to me.
Some times life is salty other times its rosey and you find a way to cope so life is more of the rosey side xx
Ian and me never went out for new years for 2 years due to crappy circumstances since we were newly weds and Ian came from Portland Oregon thus needed to find work
thus I was only one with income at the time.
This year we thought fluff it!
Lets do some thing different and don't need to get drunk silly lol
I know how you feel I been depressed time to time mainly because of circumstances and partly my disability which does not
bother me for most part its when people think your a fruit cake when your not.
I have very mild aspergus and much as I function fine
growing up with it was more barriers then any thing but I never let it take it over my
life and work hard to the life I want to be happy in and share it with Ian and friends that are dear to me.
Some times life is salty other times its rosey and you find a way to cope so life is more of the rosey side xx
Hey Z-Afiro,
you should visit a psychologist. They're not really scary, but you shouldn't simple trust the first one that you will visit. It's okay to say that you don't trust him/her and choose a different one. This can happen until you find some where you have the feeling that you can trust him.
It's like friends, you both must match.
And yeah I'm visiting one, so if you have questions you can note me.
Maybe he or she will tell you that you're not the problem of the whole situation. That would be something nice I guess
you should visit a psychologist. They're not really scary, but you shouldn't simple trust the first one that you will visit. It's okay to say that you don't trust him/her and choose a different one. This can happen until you find some where you have the feeling that you can trust him.
It's like friends, you both must match.
And yeah I'm visiting one, so if you have questions you can note me.
Maybe he or she will tell you that you're not the problem of the whole situation. That would be something nice I guess
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