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Don't be. I cry as much for you as myself, and everyone who has lost those loved. (I bawled like a baby at the 'end' of Pokemon Mystery Dungeon 2, just because I knew how much it hurt to lose someone. Never mind the one hurting there was made of pixels and programming.. '^~; )
i was originally going to submit this to your journal before it was deleted. i hope you dont mind if i post this here. if you dont like me posting this here, please just let me know.
im not to good with at advice at times. other times i can find that i may have helped. i hope that i will be able to share a little bit of wisdom and relation to help.
i know what its like to lose someone very close. i know that we all have lost someone close to us. know that you will not be alone in this.
death is a scary thing. so many questions torrent through your mind, that you are only left in a state of total confusion, shock, fear, and at times anger. learning to accept fate is the only true way to deal with these feelings.
i myself lost my best friend, John Perkins, to suicide on march 26 of this year. the only problem is. i dont think i have come to except this. i know hes gone, but my mind tries to repress this. i havent excepted fate. i barely ever cry anymore. this is my problem though, so im tring to give advice as best as i can away from how my mind has delt with this so far. i know that in time though, i will come to term with these demons. until then this is the best advice i can give.
the best thing to do is never forget who they were. remember the good times and who they were and never think of them as truly being gone. they will always be there for you. watching over and protecting all those that they left behind. the memory of who they were well never leave you. its hard to deal with such a situation. like i said before, there are many questions and emotions that surface in times like this. and in such times we find it easy to put blame into other people to deal with our problems. however fate doesn't care who blames who, all it cares is what has happened. we are all destined to an after life, some just get there faster than others.
i know that the loss of someone close leaves an open wound in your heart. a space that will never be put back in. like a lost jigsaw piece; and no other pieces match. however, like i said, they will always be there in memory. so think of it not as a missing piece, but as a place reserved for them always. no one can fill that piece in but them. and forever there they will remain. someday you will be reunited, along with all those who have left before you. and in eternity you will all rejoined to live together as you once did. and at that time, the missing pieces will be returned to their places in your heart.
for now though, you will have to wait and let the healing process begin. it will take time but eventually you will have come to terms with fate.
just never forget those who leave before you. remember them as who they were on their time on earth.
i hope that i have provided some kind of insight and hopefully i have helped a little. i know its hard. i know what its like. you're not alone as i said before. if you need anyone to vent to or talk to, im here as well as everyone else who has ever lost someone close.
so please feel free to talk to me if need be. i know that we dont know each other in person and there are probably much much more people youd feel more comfortable talking with. and in all reality im just someone who likes your art; but im here and i know what its like.
i wish you a luck in the future and i hope the healing process looks kindly upon you.
im not to good with at advice at times. other times i can find that i may have helped. i hope that i will be able to share a little bit of wisdom and relation to help.
i know what its like to lose someone very close. i know that we all have lost someone close to us. know that you will not be alone in this.
death is a scary thing. so many questions torrent through your mind, that you are only left in a state of total confusion, shock, fear, and at times anger. learning to accept fate is the only true way to deal with these feelings.
i myself lost my best friend, John Perkins, to suicide on march 26 of this year. the only problem is. i dont think i have come to except this. i know hes gone, but my mind tries to repress this. i havent excepted fate. i barely ever cry anymore. this is my problem though, so im tring to give advice as best as i can away from how my mind has delt with this so far. i know that in time though, i will come to term with these demons. until then this is the best advice i can give.
the best thing to do is never forget who they were. remember the good times and who they were and never think of them as truly being gone. they will always be there for you. watching over and protecting all those that they left behind. the memory of who they were well never leave you. its hard to deal with such a situation. like i said before, there are many questions and emotions that surface in times like this. and in such times we find it easy to put blame into other people to deal with our problems. however fate doesn't care who blames who, all it cares is what has happened. we are all destined to an after life, some just get there faster than others.
i know that the loss of someone close leaves an open wound in your heart. a space that will never be put back in. like a lost jigsaw piece; and no other pieces match. however, like i said, they will always be there in memory. so think of it not as a missing piece, but as a place reserved for them always. no one can fill that piece in but them. and forever there they will remain. someday you will be reunited, along with all those who have left before you. and in eternity you will all rejoined to live together as you once did. and at that time, the missing pieces will be returned to their places in your heart.
for now though, you will have to wait and let the healing process begin. it will take time but eventually you will have come to terms with fate.
just never forget those who leave before you. remember them as who they were on their time on earth.
i hope that i have provided some kind of insight and hopefully i have helped a little. i know its hard. i know what its like. you're not alone as i said before. if you need anyone to vent to or talk to, im here as well as everyone else who has ever lost someone close.
so please feel free to talk to me if need be. i know that we dont know each other in person and there are probably much much more people youd feel more comfortable talking with. and in all reality im just someone who likes your art; but im here and i know what its like.
i wish you a luck in the future and i hope the healing process looks kindly upon you.
D: you sure? alright.... Your very welcome.
Im good. Kinda sad about my bestfriend that moved away replacing me with some other girl and barely talking to me anymore. But that's life I guess. :/ still heart broken about it though...thus why I havn't felt like drawing or coming on for three days. Drew something today, only to realize that it was of that person and I.
Im good. Kinda sad about my bestfriend that moved away replacing me with some other girl and barely talking to me anymore. But that's life I guess. :/ still heart broken about it though...thus why I havn't felt like drawing or coming on for three days. Drew something today, only to realize that it was of that person and I.
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