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QuestioningYourSexulality
This took a while to plan. I did not want to do anything graphic for this picture. Like the title, this picture involves one questioning his sexulality. To many, it is very hard to know exactly which gender you feel more comfortable with.
It is a strange feeling when one questions his or her sexulality. Everyone tells you that there is always one guy and one girl. That is it. It is never two guys or two girls. As one grows older, he or she starts to question that one line logic and start exploring. Some after exploring, they just stay as straight as they are. Sometimes they turn out to like the same sex. Sometimes they remain in the middle, Bisexual.
There are several reasons why one perfers a certain gender. Maybe Females are very motherly and just by getting very close to their bodies, one feels mothered, nurchered and cared for. Maybe Guys are very protective, strong and powerfu. When one gets close to a man, one might feel protective and tender in his arms.
I dont want to get into graphic detail, but that is what I feel and what others have told me. Everyone has their reasons why they perfer a male over female and vise versa. Questioning your sexual preferance, to me, takes a lot of time and experiance before you know exactly which gender to be with and show your love to. Bi-curious. I think that everyone is Bi-curious. They dont know which one to choose and must try different things with each gender before they know what they want.
Sometimes, people just have sexual exploration with the same or different sex out of Sexual Fun and Fantacy. To me, that might seem dangerous.
I speak all of this form my logic and sources. This is not the absolute truth to everyone, but this is what I think of one questioning their sexulality. I do, alot.
Anyways, please tell me what you think. Thank you.
- Ookami Kemono
QuestioningYourSexulality © 2006 Alex Cockburn
It is a strange feeling when one questions his or her sexulality. Everyone tells you that there is always one guy and one girl. That is it. It is never two guys or two girls. As one grows older, he or she starts to question that one line logic and start exploring. Some after exploring, they just stay as straight as they are. Sometimes they turn out to like the same sex. Sometimes they remain in the middle, Bisexual.
There are several reasons why one perfers a certain gender. Maybe Females are very motherly and just by getting very close to their bodies, one feels mothered, nurchered and cared for. Maybe Guys are very protective, strong and powerfu. When one gets close to a man, one might feel protective and tender in his arms.
I dont want to get into graphic detail, but that is what I feel and what others have told me. Everyone has their reasons why they perfer a male over female and vise versa. Questioning your sexual preferance, to me, takes a lot of time and experiance before you know exactly which gender to be with and show your love to. Bi-curious. I think that everyone is Bi-curious. They dont know which one to choose and must try different things with each gender before they know what they want.
Sometimes, people just have sexual exploration with the same or different sex out of Sexual Fun and Fantacy. To me, that might seem dangerous.
I speak all of this form my logic and sources. This is not the absolute truth to everyone, but this is what I think of one questioning their sexulality. I do, alot.
Anyways, please tell me what you think. Thank you.
- Ookami Kemono
QuestioningYourSexulality © 2006 Alex Cockburn
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For starters, awesome picture! I don't know why I'm not watching you yet; I have all your VCL work saved or bookmarked!
Secondly, modern research has shown that genetics has a huge impact on sexuality (also temperment, intelligence, attitude, etc.). This has been shown by identical twin and adoption tests, and genetic mutations in the brain were discovered by Simon LeVay. Of cource, science has also shown that a person's upbringing also has an effect. Sexuality is a fascinating subject to study!
You are right how odd it feels. I, for example, still consider myself straight, but I have a male mate. I find females far more attractive than males, and consider homosexuality more or less "out of place" (I'm a firm believer in biological necessity and Darwinism, and homosexuality doesn't fit as beneficial to species continuance). However, the only person I have ever really connected with and truly loved is my male mate, Wolf.
Something in these beliefs just doesn't add up, and I am absolutely facsinated in finding out why! ^-^
Once again, awesome picture, great subject, and wonderfully thought-provoking statements! You win! =^l-l^=
Secondly, modern research has shown that genetics has a huge impact on sexuality (also temperment, intelligence, attitude, etc.). This has been shown by identical twin and adoption tests, and genetic mutations in the brain were discovered by Simon LeVay. Of cource, science has also shown that a person's upbringing also has an effect. Sexuality is a fascinating subject to study!
You are right how odd it feels. I, for example, still consider myself straight, but I have a male mate. I find females far more attractive than males, and consider homosexuality more or less "out of place" (I'm a firm believer in biological necessity and Darwinism, and homosexuality doesn't fit as beneficial to species continuance). However, the only person I have ever really connected with and truly loved is my male mate, Wolf.
Something in these beliefs just doesn't add up, and I am absolutely facsinated in finding out why! ^-^
Once again, awesome picture, great subject, and wonderfully thought-provoking statements! You win! =^l-l^=
Well, I thought I was bisexual... and wanted to be straight... being not sure made me having no sexuality at all (except with myself (T_T) I just have to admit this...)
After a while I just became not uncomfortable anymore with being together with a person that has the same gender like me. I still had the idea that maybe I just would meet a girl one day I like.
But now I think that I am only homosexual. I just don't feel excited seeing an attractive woman. And seeing a guy can make me excited even if he is not very attractive... I just don't think I would be happy being together with a woman... It would make both of us sad.
After a while I just became not uncomfortable anymore with being together with a person that has the same gender like me. I still had the idea that maybe I just would meet a girl one day I like.
But now I think that I am only homosexual. I just don't feel excited seeing an attractive woman. And seeing a guy can make me excited even if he is not very attractive... I just don't think I would be happy being together with a woman... It would make both of us sad.
"Sexuality?"
"Yes?"
"Do you know where Maple Street is?"
"Beats me."
in my opinion, poeple do whatever they want or do whatever they think they are stuck into doing. poeple in such a search for what will make them happy but I don't think there is an abolsute state fo happiness, no one golden prize unless you really believe it is and are willing to ignore that it has flaws. all humans have flaws. theres no absolute answer except the one you make for yourself. the end.
"Yes?"
"Do you know where Maple Street is?"
"Beats me."
in my opinion, poeple do whatever they want or do whatever they think they are stuck into doing. poeple in such a search for what will make them happy but I don't think there is an abolsute state fo happiness, no one golden prize unless you really believe it is and are willing to ignore that it has flaws. all humans have flaws. theres no absolute answer except the one you make for yourself. the end.
well, im not entirely sure if we ever had this discussion over aim...but the way i've felt ever since i started "questioning" was that i began to realize that all my fantasies and all my physical desires were angled toward males. I, in my conservative upbringing, thought this to be bad and forced myself into a straight relationship, and met a fair degree of sexual dissatisfaction as well as a certain...lacking... in my emotional state. After finally falling in love with another man and ending the straight relationship, and then my gay one ending in an unfavorable fashion, and THEN getting into a much more "suited" relationship, i realize more and more that i appreciate the second of your thoughts "protected and tender" as i find myself more girl-minded for a guy...
all in all, hon... your thoughts are VERY deep and very true... As always, i truly respect the heart and emotion into pieces such as this one---
all in all, hon... your thoughts are VERY deep and very true... As always, i truly respect the heart and emotion into pieces such as this one---
Been doing a whole lot of thinking on this myself, I'm a pondering nature but right now it's time to go out and test myself to see what happens. You'd think it shouldn't be so much of a problem, considering there are people who know from childhood what they like, but for some of us it is. I think it has to do with the degree in which you listen to others instead of yourself.
Though I do feel a strong preferance towards one gender over the other...I feel, like many other things in life, no one really has this chosen for them. It's something we find for ourselves, even if we aren't looking.
I don't really think on it too much. I just know my heart...it tells me where to go. :3
I don't really think on it too much. I just know my heart...it tells me where to go. :3
I found I was bi, unfortunately, the girl who helped me figure it out. Backstabbed me and replaced me with a newer better friend. Even going as far as calling me a poser and threatening to jump me.
I'm very selective though, for a girl it's a certian personality I'd want, and I only had one other real crush on a girl, unfortunately I haven't heard from her in so long..
I'm very selective though, for a girl it's a certian personality I'd want, and I only had one other real crush on a girl, unfortunately I haven't heard from her in so long..
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