I like how she's doing the angry cat tail thing.


He'll probably regret it once it's too late.

I know he will, and that makes me that much more angry. It's not going to hit him until it directly affects him. Then he's going to be sad and guilty and so what? It'll be too late. Should've bucked up when the game was on. Ugh.

Yeah. There's not much that can be done in that situation, unfortunately, he's setting himself up for a hard fall when the reality hits.

sadly, it's behaviour that is promoted and advertized. "Don't care if it doesn't affect you right now"., "If you have good time, that means you deserved it, if you have bad time, you deserved it" Objectvist\Scientologist gotta have something with that >.<

*sits down next to you and comforts* Anything I can do?

Unfortunately, no! I don't even know if I can do anything. Other than draw angry doodles and vague post about things :'3 Thanks though.

I'm here if you need me for anything. *hugs tightly*

I've been there, was my cousin though. Hope things improve for you.

How old is he?

He's approximately 4 years younger than I am, so somewhere around 20-21. Still not 100% mentally mature yet, but still..

He caught the PSL virus it sounds like

Nah, he was born and raised in WPB, still living there. Which is worse, I think >x> I moved away from that city on purpose.

Yeah it's probably worse lmao
Or maybe just Florida in general ha. When I lived in Tennessee and Maine everyone just seemed to get along unlike here 8[

You know, people always talk shit about Florida and I've always thought to myself "then gtfo, it seems fine to me" but I'm starting to think otherwise. I don't have many friends in Florida. The people I get along with the best are those that came from other states, or are online friends. My mom has been in Colorado for awhile now (her husband travels the US for work) and she's dreading leaving soon because the people and the views there are so much nicer than here. Maybe I should go to Colorado.

Ah yes my friend is from there and his entire family regrets ever moving to FL haha. I think it's because Florida is more like a retirement/vacation state. But all the suburbs in FL seem to mirror each other as far as how they look and how the people are. But it just depends, Ive met some amazing people in PSL and Miami and Orlando, some in Broward. Just gotta find the good apples ;p

Hrmph >:T if it's what I think is happening, fuck that guy. He doesn't even deserve to have Tee's colors on "his tail".

Who knows! I've hinted at it here and there, said it blatantly there and here. It's definitely "fuck that guy" worthy though. Family is very important to me but only when it's earned. He's earned a special place in hell.

All I can say is, I hope you speak this guy as bluntly as you do in your image comments x3;

I can't, unfortunately. I'm a baby irl :( I'm soft spoken and I cry when I'm upset (super intimidating, right??). My brother is incredibly blunt and overly confident and aggressive and I get all clammy when I try to confront him about things. I don't even know if he realizes how mad I am at him right now. I've only been communicating with him through text because he lives 45 minutes away. So, I just stew here in anger, rather than trying to make him change. :/

Yeah, he's an idiot.

*hugs*

Has there been an intervention?

Hm, i made the experience that I have far more in common with my close friends as with my family. Makes sense, because otherwise they won't be my closest friends.
I really never understood that blood is thicker as water thingy.

The original quote is actually "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb", which has the exact opposite meaning that people give to it! I actually hate 99% of my family. I don't automatically love and care for someone just because they exist. My family is full of horrible people. However, the very few that I do care for, I care for more than anyone else. My family is my mom, my dad, my husband, my unborn son, and now includes my sister in law and mother in law. Anyone else in my "family" by water of the womb are strangers at best, enemies at worst. Never let someone tell you that you have to love them simply because you're related. In my experience, it's just an excuse for them to get away with mistreating you.

I realize that I didn't tie that into why it's frustrating that my brother is being this way. The person suffering the most is my dad. My dad spoiled my brother and treated him like the better child. I wasn't treated as nicely when I was a kid, and grew up hating my dad. My brother has always been taken care of by my dad. He lives with my dad right now, for free, with free food. In the 21 years my brother has been alive, he's only lived with my mom for two of those years. He loves my dad, and has good reason to. I grew up and understood why my dad was the way he was when I was younger and I've forgiven him and grown to love him. My brother, though, is taking him for granted. He's being selfish and not helping when he should. My dad has served my brother for 21 years and my brother is just so used to it being that way, he can't wrap his mind around HIM having to take responsibility for once. He still thinks he's a little boy and that my dad needs to be the care giver. That's changed, but my brother doesn't see it.

Ah, I can understand your reasons.

I think your brother will learn this on the hard way, but perhaps he will never develop the personally he really needs to be an autonomous person.
So to speak, you father may not "served" him in the best way. To teach a child to be able to follow their own path in life is important, but that means a parent has to let go and I can imagine that is very hard to do so.

well maybe he has to hit rock bottom....

I can only imagine :/ sounds very frustrating. *hugs* hope things get sorted out! Inconsiderate actions add to what already sounds like a pretty stressful situation.

I can relate to this 100%, only with my sister.

I could rant into further details, but there's no point. Things may get better in a few years.

I've got a cousin that's been acting the exact same way. Doesn't realize how bad things really are, or how easy everything could just slip away...

Dang. I really hope things get better for you. Sounds like he's not even worth giving the time of day to.

I really wish he gets a sharp dose of reality check upside the head asap. Sorry to hear you are suffering though :( wish i could help.

Most of my suffering is just because others are suffering and I can't help them, and my brother wont help them even though he can. :I

awwwww ;-; *hugs*

Happy Valentines day "snuggles