What does Love Look Like?
Does it matter?
If someone is a drop dead Adonis or Aphrodite but with the personality of a dead clam, is it worth perusing the relationship?
I'm one of those people that is more in it for the package, not the wrapping. Cause deep down inside there might be more of a treasure than you bargained for.
(oh geeze, here she goes with her dolls again)
Here I have pictured Misery and Hush. They've been a couple for five years now. That's longer than any relationship I've had. Thats longer than most of the relationships I've seen come and go on here (and for those of you in the 5+ club, rock on and keep on loving) Thogh on the outside they look like they'd never hook up, This Punk and this Peach are very much committed to each other.
Stop judging people by how they look. Some people throw up a fantabulos fursona to make up for things they find flawed about themselves. Flaws make us who we are. Its our imperfections that make us perfect.
Why I took a Break
( listen to this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57wOVsK_niI )
No one is perfect. No one can be one thing all the time, least alone strong or happy.
If you don't realize that you have an emotional breakdown from wearing the mask of being a perfect happy friend every day. You realize that everything you do is for naught and that all the love and emotion you used to throw into your art with great gusto is somehow lacking... Your muse has left you because you overworked her and took her for granted.
And it kills something inside. All the drama that feeds you its sweet poison, the need to save everyone from themselves, the need to coddle friends out of situations that aren't life threatening or even life affective... It all adds up and it starts breaking down inside.
And you end up on mood stabalizers. You end up questioning why you even let yourself become affected by all this senseless bullshit. Your boyfriend broke up with you? It hurts now but cherish the good times. If there were no good times, you're better off without him. You don't have enough money to go to that con you really wanted to go to? a) save up, there will be another con soon. I promise. b) think about all the people that are taking uber cheap commissions to keep themselves afloat. To keep a roof over their head or to buy life saving medicine that they need. A con doesn't seem that important when you place it against the big picture.
Little things add up and you can ignore them but remember, its the little things that make UP the big picture. All the little pieces. Don't sweat the small stuff but put it where it belongs. If its drama, let it go and put it over there in the "I'll remember this but eventually I'll let it go" bin. Or even just chuck it out the window.
Most of you won't read this but for the few of you who did... thank you. I'm back. Not the same. Not too much different. But I'll be around.
Does it matter?
If someone is a drop dead Adonis or Aphrodite but with the personality of a dead clam, is it worth perusing the relationship?
I'm one of those people that is more in it for the package, not the wrapping. Cause deep down inside there might be more of a treasure than you bargained for.
(oh geeze, here she goes with her dolls again)
Here I have pictured Misery and Hush. They've been a couple for five years now. That's longer than any relationship I've had. Thats longer than most of the relationships I've seen come and go on here (and for those of you in the 5+ club, rock on and keep on loving) Thogh on the outside they look like they'd never hook up, This Punk and this Peach are very much committed to each other.
Stop judging people by how they look. Some people throw up a fantabulos fursona to make up for things they find flawed about themselves. Flaws make us who we are. Its our imperfections that make us perfect.
Why I took a Break
( listen to this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57wOVsK_niI )
No one is perfect. No one can be one thing all the time, least alone strong or happy.
If you don't realize that you have an emotional breakdown from wearing the mask of being a perfect happy friend every day. You realize that everything you do is for naught and that all the love and emotion you used to throw into your art with great gusto is somehow lacking... Your muse has left you because you overworked her and took her for granted.
And it kills something inside. All the drama that feeds you its sweet poison, the need to save everyone from themselves, the need to coddle friends out of situations that aren't life threatening or even life affective... It all adds up and it starts breaking down inside.
And you end up on mood stabalizers. You end up questioning why you even let yourself become affected by all this senseless bullshit. Your boyfriend broke up with you? It hurts now but cherish the good times. If there were no good times, you're better off without him. You don't have enough money to go to that con you really wanted to go to? a) save up, there will be another con soon. I promise. b) think about all the people that are taking uber cheap commissions to keep themselves afloat. To keep a roof over their head or to buy life saving medicine that they need. A con doesn't seem that important when you place it against the big picture.
Little things add up and you can ignore them but remember, its the little things that make UP the big picture. All the little pieces. Don't sweat the small stuff but put it where it belongs. If its drama, let it go and put it over there in the "I'll remember this but eventually I'll let it go" bin. Or even just chuck it out the window.
Most of you won't read this but for the few of you who did... thank you. I'm back. Not the same. Not too much different. But I'll be around.
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I'm not quite back on my feet yet but I have a welth of support in my loving mate
CheetahJab He's been with me for a year and a few months and I'm so glad for that.
CheetahJab He's been with me for a year and a few months and I'm so glad for that.
*reads desc* Yup, been there and I was about the same age give or take a year or two. In my case I was incredibly bitter and angry and distrustful and pessimistic for about 5 years. There's still remnants of that time cropping up in the worst places and instances (as you... likely noticed... -.-; )but overall I like to think I'm better than I was then (and you can imagine how bad that was!).
But I'm not sure if I'll ever go back to being the channel/chatroom greeter or everybody's friend like I was in 1998. Still, never know, I might be the most awesome person in my nursing home!
*hugs*
But I'm not sure if I'll ever go back to being the channel/chatroom greeter or everybody's friend like I was in 1998. Still, never know, I might be the most awesome person in my nursing home!
*hugs*
as in like...
Tangie walks up. "I'm going to tickle you"
V.Kyrie says nothing
Tangie tickles V.
V kicks Tangie into the wall "DONT TOUCH ME Ohmygod i'm sooo sorry are you ok?"
Nope... never noticed ^.^
I still love you. You're still one of my best female friends in and out of the fandom. And we all know how I am about female friends...
Tangie walks up. "I'm going to tickle you"
V.Kyrie says nothing
Tangie tickles V.
V kicks Tangie into the wall "DONT TOUCH ME Ohmygod i'm sooo sorry are you ok?"
Nope... never noticed ^.^
I still love you. You're still one of my best female friends in and out of the fandom. And we all know how I am about female friends...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JfNUpihM3s
I still like you.....
...still respect you....
...and still your friend.
Tribbles may be small, but they are nearly all heart.
I still like you.....
...still respect you....
...and still your friend.
Tribbles may be small, but they are nearly all heart.
Sadly, I have no artistic talent so I've gotta find other ways of making money. Of course, I seem to be pretty good at it, and because of my nature I like to share the wealth, such as it is.
As for the thought of wearing masks... That is a topic too complex to be covered in the comments section.
As for the thought of wearing masks... That is a topic too complex to be covered in the comments section.
I've had a lack of inspiration lately. but It's because I'm trying to bring back what I had, how I enjoyed good times with my old friends which seems less inspired. but hey, Things are temporary, all things are, for better or worse. So you adapt. I hope you feel better soon, foxy. I hate to see you upset.
I've been there and I've taken the steps back to reevaluate things as well. Those that stick with you through the thin and the thick usually give the good support. In my case, I seem to be overly friendly, truth is, I'm quite shy and I tend to just stick with what's familiar.
Even if it sounds selfish, the first person you should make happy is yourself.
Even if it sounds selfish, the first person you should make happy is yourself.
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