Just wanted to say that this is great, and the hair is fantastic. I'd also like to say that while I don't know what you're going through I know what it's like to go through shitty times. Please don't feel you're a failure. You've survived this long that's something to be proud of. Please know that you're not alone, and that if you need someone to talk to you're more than welcome to note me. You deserve love, and you deserve to give yourself a chance.

you was sounding logical then ruined it at the end. but I'm not forcing ppl to think something like diluted opinions. especially being proud of only surviving. though I do agree Mixi isn't alone. there are posers though. those who think a few bad things is the end of the world and there are those who truly had it had it bad for years. I don't know how deep her pain goes, but I'd never blindly say I understand. anyways that's all I had to say.

Surviving issues is nothing to be ashamed of. It very much is something to be proud of. There's nothing wrong with taking pride in having made it through difficulties. Hurt is hurt. Pain is pain. Neither you nor I have any right to tell anyone that their pain is any less important just because others may have been through something 'more' difficult. Pain is relative.

What people go through is what they go through, and the fact is that many of us HAVE been through really bad shit, and can identify with having been through bad shit. We shouldn't have to 'prove' we've been through bad shit just to show someone a little compassion.