*hugs* not sure where you're at, but I can appreciate some of the things you mentioned and am sorry you are going through what you are.

*hugs and snugs lightly* you are important and I am sorry to hear about what happen *wraps tail around and offers cookies* And I'll.never discard or toss you away ^_^

I wish i could do more than just write some lines here to make you feel better, but i know your feelings, i'm been in some similar situations too and i know is bad, i just hope you'll find a very good person in your life who will care a lot and give you all the love you need.

*hug*

Hopefully the days ahead will change for the better.

*offers hugs*

-hugs- people can be cruel, yet people can be wonderful. I hope someone special makes you forget the sad times, but for nao, fox hugs~

It is good to express your feelings, here at least if nowhere else. Believe me when I say that keeping things bottled up for too long can cause untold amounts of grief. In any case though, as I am certain many others will post here as well, you are not alone and feel free to let it all out here.

I know we're nowhere near as close as we used to be as friends, but I hope the fact that I still care enough to try to initiate conversation with you matters in some respect, Foxxian. We really need to talk more...

*hugs you tight* Someone told me once that true friends are the most difficult thing to get in life and that, once you get one, it's priceless.

I'm sorry you are feeling that way hun and I wish I could be there for you more...a lot more than I have been. I'm sorry we got somewhat distant but I wish we could get back to being what we were...

Love.

-hugs tight- awwww, it is a hard thing in life to go through. It helps to get things off your chest and say things. It helps ease the mind. It was a very sad and hurtful thing that your friend did to you
I remember that hurt and I don't even understand what really went on in her mind.

But you know, you are not alone. Even if it is difficult around there for you, you have a lot of friends around the world that care for you and keep you company. Heh, people like me.
I'm always here to be a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen. Even if I can't be there in person. Take as much comfort as you can into those special friends that do and can make you feel better

-warm foxy hugs-

Always remember, while not all people care, some people do care a lot. *hugs*

I know how that is... a friend of almost 10 years that I considered more important to me than my own life, and was willing to die for if the situation arose, decided based on bullshit events that they didn't even want me in their life anymore... cast me aside and treated me worse than dirt...now the only time he even talks to me is to threaten me, threaten my life, or to insult and berate me...

and everyone tells me shit like... "why should you care so much, they aren't your mate?" or "he treats you like shit, why do you care?" or even my mother telling me "if he was willing to do this to you, he was NEVER REALLY your friend..."

truth is...I shouldn't care... the relationship had really bad stints where it was abusive and outright DANGEROUS to my mental and physical health... I'm emotionally shattered because of it... I ended up HOMELESS for three weeks because of it, living in a tent in the woods... all because I was accused of shit that they themselves had been accused of in the past...

but... What am I supposed to feel? is it NOT supposed to hurt to feel like your own spiritual 'family' DISOWNED you just to prove a point???

I'm left with memories, painful reminders, and forlorn hope... lost and alone...

but the truth is...we're not alone... our scars and wounds may only be healed by our own hands, but that NEVER means we're truly alone... and nothing is ever truly lost... we can forge our hearts anew, when we find the right flame...

I hope things look up for you soon, hon.
You are important, you are needed, and you are not alone.
You've always got an ear with me and I'm certain with many others as well. It's not a burden, it's friendship. It's not troubling, it's understanding.
*Hugs*

The thing I always try and keep in mind is everyone evolves as a person, everyone changes, not just you. Usually those changes are becoming better as a person, but sometimes they're for the worse. You're not the same person you were a dozen years ago and neither is she. The people you were a dozen years ago were best friends, but you both changed and the kind of person she became doesn't want to be friends with the kind of person you are now. If you met for the first time today, you probably wouldn't hit it off or become friends. this doesn't mean you did anything wrong, it's entirely possible that your own growth, which is a good thing, cause you to outgrow the friendship.

A friendship is a moment in time, like a birthday party, or a concert or any fun event. That moment came and went, it's a fond memory to look back on, but even though unlike a moment in time, the old friend still exists, and you can still talk to them, trying to go back to the way things were is like revisiting a childhood playground or your old school. It doesn't make any of this less painful, but this is what I tell myself...