agh this took too long ew
hes 5 years older than me but ive REALLY QUICKLY GROWN VERY FOND OF HIM
ive known him a few days before i made this account ( hes not a furry either OTL)
and he was really sweet on me
i just have a few pet peeves that bothers me about him
- taking too long to reply to a short message
- messaging me only late at night
i really dont like how he will do both, every day!!
i really wanna talk to him all the time but thats clingy and unattractive. i mean he hits on me and i flirt back and its gotten NSFW before.
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
hes just so cute~~~~ <3
hes 5 years older than me but ive REALLY QUICKLY GROWN VERY FOND OF HIM
ive known him a few days before i made this account ( hes not a furry either OTL)
and he was really sweet on me
i just have a few pet peeves that bothers me about him
- taking too long to reply to a short message
- messaging me only late at night
i really dont like how he will do both, every day!!
i really wanna talk to him all the time but thats clingy and unattractive. i mean he hits on me and i flirt back and its gotten NSFW before.
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
hes just so cute~~~~ <3
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Yes that's pretty sadders x3 Mine was super close, and lasted like 3 months, There's a long very cheaty story behind it all, With good means of course, In the longrun I stopped seeing and talking to her cause she was gonna get in trouble and I didn't want her to get in trouble so x3 She always gave me so many hints and stuff too, But I was so young I didn't realize or take them x3 Loved dat girl. SO qt
Yeshhh! And thank you tons x3 I remember the first time she talked to me was uhm, This guy i knew was skyping me on video and she asked me which handbag she should wear out with which purse and she really liked my choices and one day me her and a few other friends hung out and she kept like trying to hold my hand and complimenting me and hugging me and stuff and getting close to me. I hadn't really been with a girl much so I was all like 0///3//0 It's a very interesting and fairly long story but I can't tell it here cause it's got details that some might hate and I wouldn't wanna displease anyone x3 But yesh. Go for it! I think. Older better!
The only advice I can offer is to perhaps let him know how you feel, or to wait and see if he does it first. I know my mate and I were long-distance before I moved out to live with her, and I doubt that I could have made a better decision in my life than letting her know how I felt before we even entered into a relationship. You never quite know how things will work out until you try.
Wait, how long have you known him for? Anything below 8 months isn't good, in my opinion.
You need to get to know this dude a bit more before getting into serious stuff,for example his pet peeves, his likes/dislikes,his quirks,humor,hobbies,etc...
idk just wait, i guess.
"- taking too long to reply to a short message
- messaging me only late at night ", it sounds like this dude isn't 100% into you or he's an night owl that likes to talk short?
You need to get to know this dude a bit more before getting into serious stuff,for example his pet peeves, his likes/dislikes,his quirks,humor,hobbies,etc...
idk just wait, i guess.
"- taking too long to reply to a short message
- messaging me only late at night ", it sounds like this dude isn't 100% into you or he's an night owl that likes to talk short?
yeah its under 8 months sadly
no matter what it is im quick to get attached to things. like even broken bottles or something like that
i know i should wait a bit longer and it would so suck if he wasnt into me :C
i can understand that for both reasons, its a shame really in the end. ive got a feeling it will end sour.
no matter what it is im quick to get attached to things. like even broken bottles or something like that
i know i should wait a bit longer and it would so suck if he wasnt into me :C
i can understand that for both reasons, its a shame really in the end. ive got a feeling it will end sour.
The problem with "Get to know him" clause, is that you can never "Truly" get to know someone until you're actually capable of being in their physical presence or living with them. Things like that are ESPECIALLY rough on Long-distance relationships when your only method of interaction is through a computer/cellphone/tablet screen...
Also take into account that, even though someone may take a while to reply to a short text, you don't know 'what' he/she/they might be doing on the other end. They might have been dragged away by family, or gotten a little immersed into a game, or perhaps even spaced the fact that the phone even rang at all. Making judgments outside of physical contact, is nothing but conjecture...
Also take into account that, even though someone may take a while to reply to a short text, you don't know 'what' he/she/they might be doing on the other end. They might have been dragged away by family, or gotten a little immersed into a game, or perhaps even spaced the fact that the phone even rang at all. Making judgments outside of physical contact, is nothing but conjecture...
yeah that really is the truth about long distance and its really harsh.
i know how it is when i dont reply for a long time too cause i nap almost all the time, im sure ill get over this odd feeling but thank you both for being able to give me great advice!! i really appreciate it!
i know how it is when i dont reply for a long time too cause i nap almost all the time, im sure ill get over this odd feeling but thank you both for being able to give me great advice!! i really appreciate it!
Well, judging by another post of hers, I believe that it's safe to guess that the timezones aren't that radically different for them. "hes long distance state wise" so one can only assume they're both in the states and not overseas from one another. (Meaning that their time difference, at max, could be anywhere from 1 - 5 hours.)
Also, It's okay, I know it can be hard not to judge people on 'the small things' or 'on sight' etc. We all do it subconsciously, even if we don't want to, it's just something that seems to be hardwired into our brains.
Also, It's okay, I know it can be hard not to judge people on 'the small things' or 'on sight' etc. We all do it subconsciously, even if we don't want to, it's just something that seems to be hardwired into our brains.
Love the art, like everyone else says, it's supee cute! The happy tail wag is what makes it in my opinion, along with the great "uh oh....." expression of guilt.
Now, I don't think I can leave it in good conscience without advising caution. I don't purport to know the exact nature and inner workings of the relationship, but I really do hope you'll be careful. I don't have a problem with the age gap, but the placement of the gap makes me a little skeptical. You don't want to be caught by some older guy who thinks he can 'score' someone younger because she didn't know any better.
I'm not trying to insinuate that this is what is going on, but be sure to use your head when moving forward, always consider your actions, and don't get too caught up in the moment (good god, I sound like an adult. When the hell did that happen?) this could very well turn out to be a love story, and It would be awesome if it did.
But, try to do your best to keep it from becoming a tragedy, be safe.
I'll step off my soapbox now...
Now, I don't think I can leave it in good conscience without advising caution. I don't purport to know the exact nature and inner workings of the relationship, but I really do hope you'll be careful. I don't have a problem with the age gap, but the placement of the gap makes me a little skeptical. You don't want to be caught by some older guy who thinks he can 'score' someone younger because she didn't know any better.
I'm not trying to insinuate that this is what is going on, but be sure to use your head when moving forward, always consider your actions, and don't get too caught up in the moment (good god, I sound like an adult. When the hell did that happen?) this could very well turn out to be a love story, and It would be awesome if it did.
But, try to do your best to keep it from becoming a tragedy, be safe.
I'll step off my soapbox now...
aww im so happy you decided to add a comment! i love hearing from you
i will be careful, im not going to tell him where i live and meet him in a private area or anything dangerous. i know that its more frowned upon and just weird because of the placement and i agree with you. I have a good feeling he dosent have that kind of mindset, or else id make him some crazy asshole...
ill make sure to take your words into consideration when i feel like im getting caught in the moment or may say something risky??? But with every love story it may end in tragedy.
i really appreciate all of the lovely comments from you!! thank you!!
i will be careful, im not going to tell him where i live and meet him in a private area or anything dangerous. i know that its more frowned upon and just weird because of the placement and i agree with you. I have a good feeling he dosent have that kind of mindset, or else id make him some crazy asshole...
ill make sure to take your words into consideration when i feel like im getting caught in the moment or may say something risky??? But with every love story it may end in tragedy.
i really appreciate all of the lovely comments from you!! thank you!!
Well, glad you're willing to take the advice! And when I'm talk in about tragedy, I'm speaking in terms perhaps a little darker than a broken heart from lost love. The kind of tragedy that makes the police reports. But I'm happy that he seems like an upstanding guy, and I do hope my concerns are unfounded.
I'm happy to comment, even though this one's a little lecture-ey and not too flush with content, I still like to give constructive feedback where I can. (saying what I liked exactly is much more useful than saying "good job!") keep up the good art!
I'm happy to comment, even though this one's a little lecture-ey and not too flush with content, I still like to give constructive feedback where I can. (saying what I liked exactly is much more useful than saying "good job!") keep up the good art!
Yeah. Sorry about that. Man... I totally am adulting all over the place here... I have a job, I'm giving advice like I'm 40, I have a motorcycle from an early midlife crisis, and i sound like I belong in the previous generation. At this rate I'll hit retirement before I'm 30...><
If I may, you should talk to your crush about how you feel and ask them how they feel. It's... really the only way you will know for certain how they feel about you :P
I don't think you should worry about the age gap. Five years isn't really that much. I have only ever been interested in people older than me, and most of the people in which I have been interested have been around seven years older than I. My age was never really an issue nor have I ever felt like I was being taken advantage of. However, I learnt a very, very fucking hard lesson about not thinking I am more mature than I really am. I would recommend you keep that in mind.
I started dating, kind of, when I was very young with an older couple. I thought I was very mature and smart, even though I was in many ways still just a kid. This couple, however, treated me as though I was as mature as I appeared to be. Neither them or I knew better and this led to many, many problems. I also got involved in many of their problems thinking I could handle them. I had quite a shitty time xD
Be careful, as with any relationship :3!
I don't think you should worry about the age gap. Five years isn't really that much. I have only ever been interested in people older than me, and most of the people in which I have been interested have been around seven years older than I. My age was never really an issue nor have I ever felt like I was being taken advantage of. However, I learnt a very, very fucking hard lesson about not thinking I am more mature than I really am. I would recommend you keep that in mind.
I started dating, kind of, when I was very young with an older couple. I thought I was very mature and smart, even though I was in many ways still just a kid. This couple, however, treated me as though I was as mature as I appeared to be. Neither them or I knew better and this led to many, many problems. I also got involved in many of their problems thinking I could handle them. I had quite a shitty time xD
Be careful, as with any relationship :3!
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