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Now i wanna know what you have to say about Alexandras point of view. 8o
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Alex Mewton: "Thank you for the negative Alexandras allow me to present the affirmative. Sex relives stress, increases brain activity, It burns calories, makes someone more flexible, opens up minds, maintains a healthy heart rate and it actually strengthens relationships. If sex is ruining your relationship then it was never a strong one in the first place, a strong one would survive almost anything.
Mon kind is meant to have sex it's in their DNA who are we to challenge Arceus' designs, there's joy and freedom in sex in fact a responsible sexual adult is more likely to make better decisions in life because they make responsible decisions in the bedroom.
And on a further note nudism is not a gateway to sex, Monkind's genitals are a natural and beautiful thing in fact nudism helps control sex. Because one what you see is what you get, two you have to exorcise self control, and three your senses are sharp enough to recognize anyone that might be diseased before you can tell if they are visibly diseased living in faraway taught me that.
My senses has gotten good enough I can sense, smell, or see coming from the penis, cloaca, or sheath tip, or the Labia Minora. Whether or not they have something and it would be a good idea to stay away. thus not only I make responsible decisions in the bedroom but everywhere else.
I advocate sex because it's essential to life. without sex we would be extinct. where the hell do eggs come from? the sky? No." points to her bits "Here." then points to a male's crotch "And here, you see, we are simply following our biological programming by doing sex. Every time we embrace it, Arceus and Xernias sing in joy at the worship of life. Sex is life and you must never ever forget it. To destroy sex, is to destroy life. Bear that in mind my fellow Mon."
Mon kind is meant to have sex it's in their DNA who are we to challenge Arceus' designs, there's joy and freedom in sex in fact a responsible sexual adult is more likely to make better decisions in life because they make responsible decisions in the bedroom.
And on a further note nudism is not a gateway to sex, Monkind's genitals are a natural and beautiful thing in fact nudism helps control sex. Because one what you see is what you get, two you have to exorcise self control, and three your senses are sharp enough to recognize anyone that might be diseased before you can tell if they are visibly diseased living in faraway taught me that.
My senses has gotten good enough I can sense, smell, or see coming from the penis, cloaca, or sheath tip, or the Labia Minora. Whether or not they have something and it would be a good idea to stay away. thus not only I make responsible decisions in the bedroom but everywhere else.
I advocate sex because it's essential to life. without sex we would be extinct. where the hell do eggs come from? the sky? No." points to her bits "Here." then points to a male's crotch "And here, you see, we are simply following our biological programming by doing sex. Every time we embrace it, Arceus and Xernias sing in joy at the worship of life. Sex is life and you must never ever forget it. To destroy sex, is to destroy life. Bear that in mind my fellow Mon."
In a general sense, that's true- but there's a breakpoint. It still requires expensive medication, large numbers of trained, well-paid professionals, sterilized rooms and equipment, not to mention the issue you didn't address- how unreliable it is, meaning it often necessitates multiple visits, which then further compounds the opportunity costs of time lost to other things- not to mention there's often a severe emotional cost when it doesn't take. Unless you're seriously discussing dropping the standards of the training of the professionals and cleanliness of the lab- IE, the rather horrifying concept of a "Back Alley" invitro fertilization clinic, which I would seriously doubt would address your issues of "Cleanliness."
In short, while Invitro Fertilization is a wonder and a blessing for those who can't ever have children any other way, attempting to replace sex with it wholesale is wildly impractical and fairly illogical, at best.
In short, while Invitro Fertilization is a wonder and a blessing for those who can't ever have children any other way, attempting to replace sex with it wholesale is wildly impractical and fairly illogical, at best.
Ah, it becomes clearer. You've not really refuted any of my points, but rather,
"I see enough shit that caused shit to think that Sex is a good thing at all"
I'm assuming you meant "I've seen enough bad shit come from sex to not think it's a good thing at all."
Now we're getting to the root of the issue: Negative personal experience coloring your perspective. This isn't an issue of objective judgement, but rather you've seen or experienced bad things, and that's tainted your worldview in regards to sex.
Tell me, have you never seen the joy sex can bring? The affirmation of worth and confidence? The deepening of love and togetherness it can foster? The happy families it creates? The joy of discovery and understanding of others it brings? If not- I am sorry. The world has not served you well.
Sex is a deep, primal part of us. This means it can be terrifying and hurtful as it can be joyous and empowering. This doesn't make it inherently bad, or evil, Any more than anything that can be misused or abused can be.
My hope is some day you can overcome the barrier your negative experiences have had, and give it another chance- hopefully with someone who cares for you and you care for in return, and will treat you well. I know from your perspective this might come off as shallow or pedantic, But you've cut yourself off from many wonderful experiences in life, and are now upholding a position to deny others it. It's a sad state of affairs.
"I see enough shit that caused shit to think that Sex is a good thing at all"
I'm assuming you meant "I've seen enough bad shit come from sex to not think it's a good thing at all."
Now we're getting to the root of the issue: Negative personal experience coloring your perspective. This isn't an issue of objective judgement, but rather you've seen or experienced bad things, and that's tainted your worldview in regards to sex.
Tell me, have you never seen the joy sex can bring? The affirmation of worth and confidence? The deepening of love and togetherness it can foster? The happy families it creates? The joy of discovery and understanding of others it brings? If not- I am sorry. The world has not served you well.
Sex is a deep, primal part of us. This means it can be terrifying and hurtful as it can be joyous and empowering. This doesn't make it inherently bad, or evil, Any more than anything that can be misused or abused can be.
My hope is some day you can overcome the barrier your negative experiences have had, and give it another chance- hopefully with someone who cares for you and you care for in return, and will treat you well. I know from your perspective this might come off as shallow or pedantic, But you've cut yourself off from many wonderful experiences in life, and are now upholding a position to deny others it. It's a sad state of affairs.
Alexandra:
My negative personal experience is the reason why i started to hate sex, i give you that. But who don´t learn from what they experience are doomed to make the same mistake over and over again. It´s be part of getting adult. And my worldview is not "tainted" as you said. I never see things clearer then now.
"The joy that sex brings". Ah yes that part. I rmeber a interview with a long term durg-user. He said something familiar. I think that the ones who loves sex are so addicted to it that it start to influance thier minds. All that "love" and "togetherness", that "Joy" you speak off are just the secondary effects of this drug named Sex. You can find all this love, happy familiy and understanding without it. With your freinds for example. But no. Your lust drives you more and more into it without you realise it.
Sex is a deep primal part of us? So is our killer instinkt. It is terrifying. But i bet if you ask a killer he would say "It´s joyous and empowering". And i guess if you ask him he would say "it´s all natural".
And i do care for others. My freinds Adam, Liam, Mr. Bubbles, Helena, Bell, Ed, my Dad, Victor. Hell i even care about Alex even if she drives me up the wall sometimes. But if you can´t find happyness and joy in life without Sex i feel sorry for you.
My negative personal experience is the reason why i started to hate sex, i give you that. But who don´t learn from what they experience are doomed to make the same mistake over and over again. It´s be part of getting adult. And my worldview is not "tainted" as you said. I never see things clearer then now.
"The joy that sex brings". Ah yes that part. I rmeber a interview with a long term durg-user. He said something familiar. I think that the ones who loves sex are so addicted to it that it start to influance thier minds. All that "love" and "togetherness", that "Joy" you speak off are just the secondary effects of this drug named Sex. You can find all this love, happy familiy and understanding without it. With your freinds for example. But no. Your lust drives you more and more into it without you realise it.
Sex is a deep primal part of us? So is our killer instinkt. It is terrifying. But i bet if you ask a killer he would say "It´s joyous and empowering". And i guess if you ask him he would say "it´s all natural".
And i do care for others. My freinds Adam, Liam, Mr. Bubbles, Helena, Bell, Ed, my Dad, Victor. Hell i even care about Alex even if she drives me up the wall sometimes. But if you can´t find happyness and joy in life without Sex i feel sorry for you.
It's possible to learn too much from experience- For example, the old adage being that a cat will never sit on a hot stovetop again- but never again with it sit on cold one, either. The experience you had was "Bad sex", and what you learned was "All sex is bad", rather than, "That sex I had was bad." And as you're not firmly set against any further sexual experience, you can't ever get any more data to possibly contradict that conclusion- in fact, you're so dead-set against it, that you flat-out reject everyone else's experience as incorrect, or puerile, or grossly misconstrue what they have to say, or make false comparisons...
Like with drugs. You might actually want to do research before you start comparing Drugs to Sex. And I assume you're referring to narcotics and other illegal drugs, rather than over-the-counter medications, because otherwise your statement makes even less sense. Drugs that are addictive hijack your brain's chemistry- they make you dependent on them by preventing you from feeling happy- or in late stages, even feeling normal- without them. Nothing else matters- not friends, not family, not love, not anything- except more drugs. It tears apart families, destroys lives, and ultimately makes the user dead or miserable.
Does sex affect your mind chemistry? Yes. But so does seeing something beautiful, eating something tasty, winning a competition, and strenuous exercise. Would you characterize these as "drugs"? No, it's our brain functioning in such a matter that allows us to live our lives normally, and it has built-in safeguards to prevent unhealthy fixations- While addiction to sex (and gambling, and adrenaline rushes, etc, etc.) can occur, they are usually signs of some underlying psychological problem.
And yet somehow you make the link "Sex is like a drug", and then immediately make the jump to "Anyone who likes sex is addicted to it." How exactly are you justifying these conclusions, even to yourself?
Then after that, you make the implication that I'm incapable of forming relationships not based on sex, and that my behavior is driven by lust.
Have you ever heard of the concept of "Ad Hominem", which means "To the man", It's a logical fallacy where you attempt to attack the person arguing, rather than attempting to counter any of his points. It means you aren't actually attempting to argue with me, just tear me down so you don't have to argue with me.
The implications are even more disturbing- it implies that your position is so deeply entrenched that you won't even entertain the possibility of the other side being correct, and are willing to engage in intellectually dishonest means to shore up your position. It's worrying.
On your point on our "Killer Instinct"... what exactly are you referring to? The willingness to kill to defend ourselves? Our willingness to kill to acquire food? Because I don't really see any problem with those. Especially since you go on to describe what seems to be a murderer- you're vague- and then attempt to compare what he does to someone who has sex. In short, you're comparing a recognized natural behavior with mental illness/criminal activity. You're starting to come across as attempting to make my position look bad, regardless of how absurd a claim you need to make to do so.
And I never claimed at any point you were incapable of caring for others. In fact, I'm glad you have so many friend's and family you're close to. I also never implied that you couldn't find joy and happiness without sex- (Much less that I wasn't- another Ad Hominem attack on your part.)- Just that you were missing out in the possibility that you were missing out in the joy and happiness that you might otherwise be able to have.
Honestly, though, I'm somewhat worried about you. Is it ok to ask you what exactly happened to give you such a negative outlook? If it's too private, that's fine- but I'd still recommend seeking a counselor. Something this deeply and inflexibly ingrained in you implies a deep hurt- and even if you never overcome your negative outlook, it might still make you feel better... And also at least make you comfortable enough not to feel disgusts or annoyance at other's sexuality, which I'm sure would be a relief to both you and those around you.
Like with drugs. You might actually want to do research before you start comparing Drugs to Sex. And I assume you're referring to narcotics and other illegal drugs, rather than over-the-counter medications, because otherwise your statement makes even less sense. Drugs that are addictive hijack your brain's chemistry- they make you dependent on them by preventing you from feeling happy- or in late stages, even feeling normal- without them. Nothing else matters- not friends, not family, not love, not anything- except more drugs. It tears apart families, destroys lives, and ultimately makes the user dead or miserable.
Does sex affect your mind chemistry? Yes. But so does seeing something beautiful, eating something tasty, winning a competition, and strenuous exercise. Would you characterize these as "drugs"? No, it's our brain functioning in such a matter that allows us to live our lives normally, and it has built-in safeguards to prevent unhealthy fixations- While addiction to sex (and gambling, and adrenaline rushes, etc, etc.) can occur, they are usually signs of some underlying psychological problem.
And yet somehow you make the link "Sex is like a drug", and then immediately make the jump to "Anyone who likes sex is addicted to it." How exactly are you justifying these conclusions, even to yourself?
Then after that, you make the implication that I'm incapable of forming relationships not based on sex, and that my behavior is driven by lust.
Have you ever heard of the concept of "Ad Hominem", which means "To the man", It's a logical fallacy where you attempt to attack the person arguing, rather than attempting to counter any of his points. It means you aren't actually attempting to argue with me, just tear me down so you don't have to argue with me.
The implications are even more disturbing- it implies that your position is so deeply entrenched that you won't even entertain the possibility of the other side being correct, and are willing to engage in intellectually dishonest means to shore up your position. It's worrying.
On your point on our "Killer Instinct"... what exactly are you referring to? The willingness to kill to defend ourselves? Our willingness to kill to acquire food? Because I don't really see any problem with those. Especially since you go on to describe what seems to be a murderer- you're vague- and then attempt to compare what he does to someone who has sex. In short, you're comparing a recognized natural behavior with mental illness/criminal activity. You're starting to come across as attempting to make my position look bad, regardless of how absurd a claim you need to make to do so.
And I never claimed at any point you were incapable of caring for others. In fact, I'm glad you have so many friend's and family you're close to. I also never implied that you couldn't find joy and happiness without sex- (Much less that I wasn't- another Ad Hominem attack on your part.)- Just that you were missing out in the possibility that you were missing out in the joy and happiness that you might otherwise be able to have.
Honestly, though, I'm somewhat worried about you. Is it ok to ask you what exactly happened to give you such a negative outlook? If it's too private, that's fine- but I'd still recommend seeking a counselor. Something this deeply and inflexibly ingrained in you implies a deep hurt- and even if you never overcome your negative outlook, it might still make you feel better... And also at least make you comfortable enough not to feel disgusts or annoyance at other's sexuality, which I'm sure would be a relief to both you and those around you.
(gosh... this is probetly the biggest comment i ever got 8D )
Andra:
My "negative outlook" comes from the world around me. My frist time might have been bad, but it only started there. I´m a psychic so i catch what´s in peoples mind now and then. And i tell you it didn´t make me think better about sex. You can say what you want, but that don´t change my mind. Call me stubborn or fundamental or crazy, i don´t care. I hate sex and all that is realted to it and i hope someday i get the chance to fight against it and win.
I know nearly everyone out there thinks differnt about that, but even if i have to be as soild as a rock and might end up alone and all by myself, i find that still better then have sex. And if my friends ever would make me decide between that i woudl turn around and leave. Because they can´t be my freinds if they try to "argue" and force me into that.
And don´t act like you "worried" about me. You don´t even know me at all.
Andra:
My "negative outlook" comes from the world around me. My frist time might have been bad, but it only started there. I´m a psychic so i catch what´s in peoples mind now and then. And i tell you it didn´t make me think better about sex. You can say what you want, but that don´t change my mind. Call me stubborn or fundamental or crazy, i don´t care. I hate sex and all that is realted to it and i hope someday i get the chance to fight against it and win.
I know nearly everyone out there thinks differnt about that, but even if i have to be as soild as a rock and might end up alone and all by myself, i find that still better then have sex. And if my friends ever would make me decide between that i woudl turn around and leave. Because they can´t be my freinds if they try to "argue" and force me into that.
And don´t act like you "worried" about me. You don´t even know me at all.
(Sorry about not replying for such a long time- RL caught up to me, and this got lost in the shuffle.)
You're psychic? Then... And forgive me if this is rude, or inappropriate... Might I make an offer?
I can show you how I see things. I can open up my memories, my feelings to you, how sex helped people, how it made them happy, how it made their lives better. Perhaps if you see things from another perspective, it would help- even if it doesn't change your mind, it'll allow you to see how others see it, and you would be more effective in explaining how they're wrong- in case you've not noticed, you've not made many converts with your hard line stance. You don't even have to see the act itself, if you don't want, just the before and after- how it affected them.
As for your own desire to have sex or not, that's not something I'd ever try to influence you for or against- whether or not you have sex is your own decision, and to force otherwise would be monsterous. The only concern I have is your seeming dedication to 'fight' against it, and rejection of it having any worth, something I know for a fact to not be true- takign the course of action you're proposing would most likely hurt allot of people- including yourself. Something I can't stand idly by with no attempt to help.
And... You dismiss my concern for you simply because I'm not familiar with you. Since when is that a prequisite for caring for my fellow 'mon?
You're psychic? Then... And forgive me if this is rude, or inappropriate... Might I make an offer?
I can show you how I see things. I can open up my memories, my feelings to you, how sex helped people, how it made them happy, how it made their lives better. Perhaps if you see things from another perspective, it would help- even if it doesn't change your mind, it'll allow you to see how others see it, and you would be more effective in explaining how they're wrong- in case you've not noticed, you've not made many converts with your hard line stance. You don't even have to see the act itself, if you don't want, just the before and after- how it affected them.
As for your own desire to have sex or not, that's not something I'd ever try to influence you for or against- whether or not you have sex is your own decision, and to force otherwise would be monsterous. The only concern I have is your seeming dedication to 'fight' against it, and rejection of it having any worth, something I know for a fact to not be true- takign the course of action you're proposing would most likely hurt allot of people- including yourself. Something I can't stand idly by with no attempt to help.
And... You dismiss my concern for you simply because I'm not familiar with you. Since when is that a prequisite for caring for my fellow 'mon?
(Don´t worry. I´m really slow on this myself)
Urgh! No! I don´t wanan enter or even get close to your mind. Other then people think soem of us Psychics don´t even like to enter someones mind. And i don´t want to see how "it" make you or them happy. Besides do yourealise IF i would enter your mind i COULD clean that place up?
Urgh! No! I don´t wanan enter or even get close to your mind. Other then people think soem of us Psychics don´t even like to enter someones mind. And i don´t want to see how "it" make you or them happy. Besides do yourealise IF i would enter your mind i COULD clean that place up?
I understand that not all psychics might be interested in contacting others minds. That's why it was offer, not an ultimatum, or a demand, or even a request. However, if it was something to foster understanding between us, it'd be remiss of me to not offer it as a possibility. And yes, I'm entirelly aware that it would be within your possibility to alter my mind if I welcome you into it- it was a risk and and a gesture of trust. Is it something you would genuinely do? Or thought about the consequences of? You might want to rethink your priorities in life if your response to someone offering to open themselves to you and showing you the trust that such vulnerability entails is, "Are you aware I could destroy everything that makes you yourself?"
<Artime> *finally managed to get his pants back from Alex* Well I can certainly see your point. With an inconsiderate lover, everything about sex would seem bad. That being said there are many high points to physical pleasure.
1- It actually does elevate the immune system. The antibody, immunoglobulin A, is actually increased with regular sexual contact. Doctors have linked it to a natural defense against colds and infections. It does not change the fact that safe sex is important. I always have rubbers, and any girl that has a problem with that is immediately dropped like a bad habit.
2- For men and women, it actually improves bladder control. Remember the lower muscles for one are the same for the other. A strong pelvic floor is important for avoiding incontinence, something that will affect about 30% of women at some point in their lives. Good sex is like a workout for your pelvic floor muscles. When you have an orgasm, it causes contractions in those muscles, which strengthens them. And speaking of strength...
3- Sex is a really great form of exercise. It won’t replace the treadmill, but it counts for something. Sex uses about five calories per minute, four more calories than watching TV. That number doesn't even begin to include the sweat you can work up with fun foreplay. It gives you a one-two punch: It bumps up your heart rate and uses various muscles. This body of mine isn't just from hitting the gyms and swimming laps. Now about your heart...
4- Besides being a great way to raise your heart rate, sex helps keep your estrogen and testosterone levels in balance. When either one of those is low you begin to get lots of problems, like osteoporosis and even heart disease. Frequent sex with a significant other was associated with lower diastolic blood pressure. In women, in this particular case, hugs can be just as powerful as sex. So at least cuddle frequently. Oxytocin, the “love hormone,” increases with physical touch.
5- After orgasm, the hormone prolactin is released, which is responsible for the feelings of relaxation and sleepiness. That does NOT mean that your partner should go to sleep immediately after cumming. If I cum first, and I try not to believe me, I make it a point to keep going until she is more tired than I am. Another chemical that gets released is Oxytocin. It relaxes the body and promotes sleep which is readily absorbed into your system when your sex drive is active. The better you sleep, the better your body can regulate natural functions like weight management and digestion.
Now that is just a few of the medical benefits are explained, lets talk emotional:
1- Regular sex hurts less. Releasing hormones similar to morphine, regular sex can increase your pain threshold. And speaking of pain, regular stimulation as well as sex decreases pain during intercourse. Increased lubrication, blood flow, and vaginal elasticity. For both men and women, if you don't use it'll "rust." And the pain comes back. But I know what you're thinking, "If I can do it myself with a toy, why bother with a lover?"
2- Regular sex with a partner lowers anxiety. Lets face it, you're nude, horny and eagerly anticipating.... that is about as vulnerable as one person can get. Every time you put yourself in that state, you lessen the stress of the situation. Which bleeds over to the rest of your general social interaction. A domino effect of lowering anxiety, stress and increasing the most sexy thing a person can have... confidence.
3- Just like food, you can't knock it if you don't try it. Sex is a activity with a ton of variations. Freaky fetishes aside, you owe it to yourself to know what you can stand and what you are comfortable doing. Are you willing to experiment? Do you like it rough? Do you like being on top or bottom? This is something you really should explore. I'm not saying make it a habit, but denying yourself the opportunity to try can be detrimental.
I'm not saying its not messy and there are no risks. I go to my doctor regularly and always ask my partners, one way or another, what their medical history is like. Some get offended and leave, and others understand and we get on with the fun. Sex takes responsibility to yourself and your lover. And when done right.... its unforgettable.
1- It actually does elevate the immune system. The antibody, immunoglobulin A, is actually increased with regular sexual contact. Doctors have linked it to a natural defense against colds and infections. It does not change the fact that safe sex is important. I always have rubbers, and any girl that has a problem with that is immediately dropped like a bad habit.
2- For men and women, it actually improves bladder control. Remember the lower muscles for one are the same for the other. A strong pelvic floor is important for avoiding incontinence, something that will affect about 30% of women at some point in their lives. Good sex is like a workout for your pelvic floor muscles. When you have an orgasm, it causes contractions in those muscles, which strengthens them. And speaking of strength...
3- Sex is a really great form of exercise. It won’t replace the treadmill, but it counts for something. Sex uses about five calories per minute, four more calories than watching TV. That number doesn't even begin to include the sweat you can work up with fun foreplay. It gives you a one-two punch: It bumps up your heart rate and uses various muscles. This body of mine isn't just from hitting the gyms and swimming laps. Now about your heart...
4- Besides being a great way to raise your heart rate, sex helps keep your estrogen and testosterone levels in balance. When either one of those is low you begin to get lots of problems, like osteoporosis and even heart disease. Frequent sex with a significant other was associated with lower diastolic blood pressure. In women, in this particular case, hugs can be just as powerful as sex. So at least cuddle frequently. Oxytocin, the “love hormone,” increases with physical touch.
5- After orgasm, the hormone prolactin is released, which is responsible for the feelings of relaxation and sleepiness. That does NOT mean that your partner should go to sleep immediately after cumming. If I cum first, and I try not to believe me, I make it a point to keep going until she is more tired than I am. Another chemical that gets released is Oxytocin. It relaxes the body and promotes sleep which is readily absorbed into your system when your sex drive is active. The better you sleep, the better your body can regulate natural functions like weight management and digestion.
Now that is just a few of the medical benefits are explained, lets talk emotional:
1- Regular sex hurts less. Releasing hormones similar to morphine, regular sex can increase your pain threshold. And speaking of pain, regular stimulation as well as sex decreases pain during intercourse. Increased lubrication, blood flow, and vaginal elasticity. For both men and women, if you don't use it'll "rust." And the pain comes back. But I know what you're thinking, "If I can do it myself with a toy, why bother with a lover?"
2- Regular sex with a partner lowers anxiety. Lets face it, you're nude, horny and eagerly anticipating.... that is about as vulnerable as one person can get. Every time you put yourself in that state, you lessen the stress of the situation. Which bleeds over to the rest of your general social interaction. A domino effect of lowering anxiety, stress and increasing the most sexy thing a person can have... confidence.
3- Just like food, you can't knock it if you don't try it. Sex is a activity with a ton of variations. Freaky fetishes aside, you owe it to yourself to know what you can stand and what you are comfortable doing. Are you willing to experiment? Do you like it rough? Do you like being on top or bottom? This is something you really should explore. I'm not saying make it a habit, but denying yourself the opportunity to try can be detrimental.
I'm not saying its not messy and there are no risks. I go to my doctor regularly and always ask my partners, one way or another, what their medical history is like. Some get offended and leave, and others understand and we get on with the fun. Sex takes responsibility to yourself and your lover. And when done right.... its unforgettable.
Oh, that. Of course. Yes, I'm pretty familiar with that one - could have, but knew at the time it was more trouble then it was worth - or was simply trouble - in those particular situations. Why throw so much away on impulse?
I meant inside the head so to keep my thoughts in line and not be distracted. Problem is, I don't think I'd ever turn it on again.
I meant inside the head so to keep my thoughts in line and not be distracted. Problem is, I don't think I'd ever turn it on again.
Sara: Well you are missing out on one thing, Alex. Their will always be mon that want to use sex as a means to get something, but it's also used to keep those genes going. So someone wants to speared their genes around like that. I can understand where you're coming from if you had Radar try and mess with your mind. (A close call I will never forget.) However I'm going to say this and be done: Find the right person that you truly love or share something with that's dear to your heart. You'll find that sex and love don't always go together. I'm sure the right person is out there for you and I hope you find him/her soon.
Alexandra: I saw alot of relationships around the PCA. And they always end in sex. And i tell you... i rather stay alone then "getting laid" again. Besides i´m not even into having a boy/girl/whateverfriend. Or even have kids. And if i ever want children i go with in vitro fertilisation or adopt one. All that is better then sex in any way.
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