Someone I care about is very, very sick. I know I'm doing my best and it's very helpful to him. I know me being there for him makes him happier. I see that there's nothing more that anyone can do. I see all of it, but I feel useless. Emotions aren't rational.
You deserve better than this. You've fought hard to fix your life and just as things are starting to look up, nature has to balance things back out again, I guess. I will do what I can, but it's never going to be enough. I can't fix you. No one can.
EDIT: Thank you for all of the well wishes. I will be okay. His mom called me earlier today and she really got me worked up. Things are definitely bad, but I need to be strong, for him. I appreciate your thoughts and well wishes. <3
You deserve better than this. You've fought hard to fix your life and just as things are starting to look up, nature has to balance things back out again, I guess. I will do what I can, but it's never going to be enough. I can't fix you. No one can.
EDIT: Thank you for all of the well wishes. I will be okay. His mom called me earlier today and she really got me worked up. Things are definitely bad, but I need to be strong, for him. I appreciate your thoughts and well wishes. <3
Category Artwork (Digital) / General Furry Art
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Yeah, that's what I try to tell myself. He's only got me, my brother and his mom. I'm in a different city(but I'll be heading to his to stay with him from tomorrow to Sat), my brother works two jobs and his mom is in a different state(though she'll be here on Tues). I know me being there is going to be a great help, but at the same time, I just wish I could do more. I have some sort of savior complex, where I feel I need to scoop up everyone who is hurting and just fly them away, make their dreams come true, and now one of the most important people in my life needs me. I have to settle with being an average savior. I can cook and clean for him and drive him around and keep him company and dress his wounds and that will have to be enough.
You're only ever useless if you do nothing. The mere fact that you have them in your thoughts is more than most can do, better yet if you're able to be there by their side that will mean more than you can ever imagine. They will know this, and you should know that you're certainly far from useless.
Very primal, beautiful, though macabre...Great piece of art here, Ajna.
I hope whoever it is that's so sick gets better. Life can be a cruel bitch sometimes, but every once in a while things turn out being less bad than we think.
If you need support from us fans, please let us know - We'll do our best, I'm sure.
I hope whoever it is that's so sick gets better. Life can be a cruel bitch sometimes, but every once in a while things turn out being less bad than we think.
If you need support from us fans, please let us know - We'll do our best, I'm sure.
wow at first i was gonna talk about the picture but.... i don't know.... the feeling of being useless is an extremely hard thing to overcome adnit really hurts when you think that.
but if there's any one thing i think i'd be able to say. it's that, at least you are able to do something for him. just because you can physically help him get better, you are making a difference in his life, so, you are FAR from useless right now.
i guess some times to feel better about things, you can't always think about 'the big picture' because much like your work, sometimes it's the little things that count.
but if there's any one thing i think i'd be able to say. it's that, at least you are able to do something for him. just because you can physically help him get better, you are making a difference in his life, so, you are FAR from useless right now.
i guess some times to feel better about things, you can't always think about 'the big picture' because much like your work, sometimes it's the little things that count.
Ajna I'm very sorry to hear you and your friend are going through this. It's not fair for you or anyone to have to endure these kinds of situations.
was said by Tatsuru, although you may feel useless, in doing what you are doing for him you are giving him exactly what he needs; company and someone to be there for him. Situations like that always feel impossible to deal with but what you are doing are the best things you can for him.
Again, with the saviour complex I know exactly how you feel and it is hard to deal with because you feel like you should be able to do something to help or 'fix' his physical condition but can't. The way I, and many others including your friend will no doubt see it, you are not being an average saviour, you are being brilliant. In you doing what you are doing you are being the best type of saviour you could possibly be for him.
I wish you, him, your family and his family the very best and will keep you all in my thoughts
Keep well and stay strong.
Just one last piece of advice; If either you, him, and/or anyone else in this scenario needs to cry then don't feel like you can't. If anything cry with them. It may not make much sense but it will help.
I wish you all the best and will also say that us fans are all there for you and will give you all the support we can.
was said by Tatsuru, although you may feel useless, in doing what you are doing for him you are giving him exactly what he needs; company and someone to be there for him. Situations like that always feel impossible to deal with but what you are doing are the best things you can for him.
Again, with the saviour complex I know exactly how you feel and it is hard to deal with because you feel like you should be able to do something to help or 'fix' his physical condition but can't. The way I, and many others including your friend will no doubt see it, you are not being an average saviour, you are being brilliant. In you doing what you are doing you are being the best type of saviour you could possibly be for him.
I wish you, him, your family and his family the very best and will keep you all in my thoughts
Keep well and stay strong.
Just one last piece of advice; If either you, him, and/or anyone else in this scenario needs to cry then don't feel like you can't. If anything cry with them. It may not make much sense but it will help.
I wish you all the best and will also say that us fans are all there for you and will give you all the support we can.
When things are really tough, every person in the life of the victim plays their own part. Even if it's small it still matters. Everyone has different roles to play and they don't have to put much effort into their role because they care. You obviously care very, very much. This person needs you, which means you have a use, always. They need you to cry, smile, laugh, support. Please don't feel useless. I understand how you feel because my sister was close to death some weeks back and all I could do was cry for her. It tore me up that I might have really lost her and I really ached inside because I also felt useless. However, I know that I was some help to her when I visited, held her when she cried and rallied round talking to her friends to support her and co-ordinate things.
Stay strong. You will do your best and that's more than enough to people you love. I really hope things get better for this person and for those around them.
Stay strong. You will do your best and that's more than enough to people you love. I really hope things get better for this person and for those around them.
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