Throwing away memories
" ... It has been some time since him and I broke up along with a few of my friends. We were close and always exchanged gifts and alike. I hung them on my wall as well as keep a few momentous near my dresser and desk. I always wanted to be reminded about our fun times and happy times by looking at those items. But now, everything went down the drain and I still had those items about my room. I want to try to forget and move on. Every time I looked at them, I could just feel sadness and anger... So I gathered up what I had from my ex and my friends and tossed them away.
"It was rather hard doing so, each item and gift had some sentimental value attached to it that I dont want to forget. Photographs, Books, Toys, Jewelry...It was very hard because each piece I through away, I felt like I was throwing away a piece of myself along with it. This is the only way I could move on with my life and create a fresh start."
Throwing Memories Away © 2008 Alex Cockburn
"It was rather hard doing so, each item and gift had some sentimental value attached to it that I dont want to forget. Photographs, Books, Toys, Jewelry...It was very hard because each piece I through away, I felt like I was throwing away a piece of myself along with it. This is the only way I could move on with my life and create a fresh start."
Throwing Memories Away © 2008 Alex Cockburn
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That's so very true. It hurts to throw away something memorable, even if it is trivial and without value. It also hurts to be without a true place to call home, for that matter...
Was this done for a story that's being published or just random inspiration? Either way I think it's a very well done scene that captures the quote below very well.
Was this done for a story that's being published or just random inspiration? Either way I think it's a very well done scene that captures the quote below very well.
a wise person, someone who's opinion i value greatly, once told me that we keep objects to maintain memories. But those objects are not neccessary, it's the memory that's important, the object is just an organized collective of atoms, but the memory is a true gift. The thing is, do you need to object to keep the memory? Usually no. Memories last forever.
I personally think its better to have a tougher point of view at such things, course Im a guy so things like friends are differnt for me, but still.
The only regretfull memory should be one you learn absolutely nothing from.
You gain something from every memory and learn and grow from it, but if you simply let it pass you by and never allow yourself to learn from it, then that memory's worth will have been lost.
I would keep such items as a reminder of what good came from it and what mistakes I made. Something to strengthen myself in the future. Why didnt this work out and why was this so great? They are memories you lived and can never be replaced be them good or bad. I beleive its best to make the most out of those memories.
However, if you've already been through that thought and it still holds you back and your simlpy hurt. If you truely cant overcome that reminder then sometimes it is best to throw those items out and help reenforce the better memories you had without the bad memories that keep you back.
That however all depends on the person and their choice of course.
Nice art as always. You always do the emotions well.
The only regretfull memory should be one you learn absolutely nothing from.
You gain something from every memory and learn and grow from it, but if you simply let it pass you by and never allow yourself to learn from it, then that memory's worth will have been lost.
I would keep such items as a reminder of what good came from it and what mistakes I made. Something to strengthen myself in the future. Why didnt this work out and why was this so great? They are memories you lived and can never be replaced be them good or bad. I beleive its best to make the most out of those memories.
However, if you've already been through that thought and it still holds you back and your simlpy hurt. If you truely cant overcome that reminder then sometimes it is best to throw those items out and help reenforce the better memories you had without the bad memories that keep you back.
That however all depends on the person and their choice of course.
Nice art as always. You always do the emotions well.
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